Leave it to an Ayisyen to bring the real.
I keeps it extra real. In my fifetime i have dated or have had flings with women of over 12 different countries. Listening to them talk you start to see the same patterns. But some of the yankees on the Coli swear their women problems are soooo unique
young jamaican men are intimidating

the older guys are great though, really interesting people
Shes a close friend of mine. I always liked her but shes always seen me as a friend. She dated many haitian men but ended up marrying a jamaican dude... only to walk in on him fukking another chick in their house.

I felt for her. I care a lot for the girl and she was crushed by it.
Im Haitian never dated a Haitian man. I should check them out but I cant date no dude who doesn't button up his shirt at least past his nipples.
See you're basing your opinion based on a small sample of haitian men who fit some stereotype. Truth is Haitians are as diverse as any other nationalities. You have highly educated haitian from middle and upper class families in haiti who dont allow their sons to follow nonsense trends you speak of. I remember growing up i wasnt even allowed to have a high-top. I feel for you haitians who only seem to know of and encounter the foolish haitians who be trying too hard to fit in with yankees or other ethnicities and wind up losing their own identity in the process. Either that or uneducated cats who fit the general perception people have of haitians.
Even in Haiti, based on what part of the country you are in there is a lot of variety and some of them dont mix