Most of that sounds like something any woman can and has done... the writer of that piece sounds lame as hell and is doing nothing but reiterating stereotypes.
Most dudes that think that dating an "other" is all lollypops and rainbows get a rude awakening when they find out those "others" can be just as loud, rude, ratchet, etc. as the black women they claim exhibits these traits. I've seen it happen many a times LOL