Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?

[Neuromancer]

It's like women wanna be like men, but don't notice that a lot of men just stumbling in the meaningful connections department. We ain't doing no better out here.

LMAOOOO casual sex is sold as empowering to women because if you tell a woman the ramifications beforehand she won’t wanna do it anymore.

The media is controlled by men, for men.

Women are coddled before we’re throttled.

Shout out to @Speaking Womanese for this.

 

[hatealot]

The ability to bust big nuts and keep it moving on your own terms.

Most women nowadays don't respect men. They get off on making men bust nuts and controlling their money.

With the ease of how folks can transfer money instantly, women have taken advantage

Alot of nikkas thinking they controlling and running the show but in reality women are setting the tempo and cadence to the whole dance

 

[Koba St]

Date western women brehs

 

[Vandelay]

Being able to do something that was traditionally limited to men, and in demand men at that is viewed as empowering. Being able to do anything that looks like domination of a man is viewed as empowering now.

It shouldn't be. Not because racking up a crazy body count is putrid, but because its actually pretty effortless as a woman to be a hoe. It's actually harder not to be a hoe, than being a hoe.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Social Media birds have flipped the game upside down.

 

[-deleted-]

Hoeping mechanism

 

[DamienWayne]

Because men told them not to be

 

[Barlow]

its always sunny did a great bit on this

Dee hooks up with guy after guy, giving them each a one star rating. She presents herself as the most powerful woman in Philadelphia due to the bad ratings she gives and the desire of men to please her. Unbeknownst to Dee, her reputation is not as glamorous as she believes. At the end of the episode, there are three homely looking dudes, one of which resembles an amphibian, who each asks to bang her because they don’t care about the rating.

 

[Rawtid]

Women don't have the same avenues nor permission to explore their sexuality, although MOST human beings are generally sexual. Societal "norms" have made it so any time a woman expresses herself sexually via promiscuity, the same way men do, she's some how the problem and not trite ass society. There are no "healthy" ways to figure out sex, especially if you don't desire a relationship or choose to use sex as a way to determine if a person is worthy of commitment. This is a human being issue, not one for a specific gender.

Men are perfectly empowered being hoes, so I see why some women may want that freedom for themselves.

 

[Turbulent]

Women not needing men leads to less cooperation, more individualism, more "independence" and more consumerism.

Deep down, women intuitively know it doesn't benefit them so the dream is sold to them as "get your money, have fun, have your hoe phase in your 20s and at 27 once it's out of your system, find a man to settle down, get married, have kids, buy the house, the car, the yearly vacation and the weekly brunches". They all feel like they can time the market so to speak. Every one thinks they are masters of the game not realizing we are all students of the game...

 

[BigMan]

Good question

 

[Sex Luthor]

People think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. It's not. The grass is dead on both sides really

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

It's a backlash against what women have perceived as men "controlling their actions" for eons.

In a way, I understand it. And fact of the matter is, women have always engaged in questionable sexual encounters... its just that it wasn't talked about mainstream nor celebrated.

That's why so many of us brehs got it wrong when we were younger, thinking women was these dainty creatures needing to be placed on a pedestal, when in reality, these chics be just as scandalous, if not more scandalous than some of us.

I saw success with women when I accepted them for what they are, not my incorrect worldview of how I perceived them.

Every woman you know is getting her panties pulled off by some man. Trust and believe that.

 

[NAUGHTY]

It’s empowering because they believe sleeping with multiple partners puts them in equal standing with men. That’s why “men do it too” is usually a justification behind why they do it. The problem with this is that men never really had to use sex in order to gain power. Sex was usually one of the rewards for excersising power. That’s my take on it

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

And I disagree with @Speaking Womanese. She is putting the blame for women's activities on men and in a way, I get what she's saying.

Its like that age old adage of if a tree falls in a forest and there's no one around to hear it etc etc etc.

Well if there's no dikk available for a woman to ride, then is she a hoe?




So in that sense, men do share some of the blame.

But to put it all on men is irresponsible and another example of women's lack of accountability.

So that chic sleeping with multiple men is not responsible for her actions?

It was us that "coddled and throttled her"?

right.