Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?

[hatealot]

There was a time that non-marital sex for women was criminalized. Folks assumed you were a prostitute and the police treated you as such.

With in the past few decades, women are exercising their sexual freedom.

but I do agree with the original statement. Young impressionable girls think casual sex is empowering rather than their sexual freedom. You can embrace your sexuality without spinning the block.

My moms born in the 40s. For a woman to get a scarlet letter you was shunned in those small rural towns.

Like that was recent and in some cultures and in some towns, its still like that. You better get married to whoever knocked you up. So many women back in the day sleeping around and all the kids look different but they were married. Ot was a facade to a certain degree. They HAD to put on the front of being together under God

 

[Hungerpain]

Because feminists said so,Jews made it cool and lucrative and society/The Government shields them from the consequences.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Facts!!! There are married men who will legit say "I can't XYZ sexually with my wife" LOL then why marry her? I know a woman that found a side dude so she can have kinky sex because her husband just wouldn't do it.

These gender rule ass relationships are NOT conducive to healthy associations with one another, especially when it comes to sex. The woman has to be a virgin and the man can be a hoe in and outside of the commitment as long as he has money.

This some shyt that is nightmare inducing. Imagine waiting and thinking you’ll be able to let your freak flag fly with your partner, only to find he on this type of bullshyt.

So you can’t even get fukked right by the person society told you is the only person that should fukk you.
And while you trying to hold on to that nonsense for his fragile sensibilities and you not even getting satisfied, he’s getting it in with a whole nother chick.
All b/c he got some fukked idea of what “innocent and pure” women are supposed to act like sexually…
That shyt sounds awful.
Not to mention how a lot of these dudes treat side hoes better than the wives they married.
So you passing up orgasms and sexual satisfaction to appease flawed morality of somebody who cheatin on you with the exact type of person they told you NOT to be?!

Cold world.
Women need to just learn the art of discernment and how to stop giving a fukk about the boxes people wanna put them in.

You ain’t gotta suck dikk for approval b/c that ain’t empowerment. But you ain’t evil or a slut if you explore your sexuality as well. Just be safe, be responsible and enjoy yourself and be in control of your emotional health while doing so. That’s it.

 

[Max Power]

All the opportunities in the modern world, all the knowledge and resources they now have access to, yet they choose to be hoes.

 

[Remote]

The ability to bust big nuts and keep it moving on your own terms.

Most women nowadays don't respect men. They get off on making men bust nuts and controlling their money.

With the ease of how folks can transfer money instantly, women have taken advantage

Alot of nikkas thinking they controlling and running the show but in reality women are setting the tempo and cadence to the whole dance

Someone tweet this at Tyler Herro and PJ Washington

 

[Rawtid]

This some shyt that is nightmare inducing. Imagine waiting and thinking you’ll be able to let your freak flag fly with your partner, only to find he on this type of bullshyt.

So you can’t even get fukked right by the person society told you is the only person that should fukk you.
And while you trying to hold on to that nonsense for his fragile sensibilities and you not even getting satisfied, he’s getting it in with a whole nother chick.
All b/c he got some fukked idea of what “innocent and pure” women are supposed to act like sexually…
That shyt sounds awful.
Not to mention how a lot of these dudes treat side hoes better than the wives they married.
So you passing up orgasms and sexual satisfaction to appease flawed morality of somebody who cheatin on you with the exact type of person they told you NOT to be?!

Cold world.
Women need to just learn the art of discernment and how to stop giving a fukk about the boxes people wanna put them in.

You ain’t gotta suck dikk for approval b/c that ain’t empowerment. But you ain’t evil or a slut if you explore your sexuality as well. Just be safe, be responsible and enjoy yourself and be in control of your emotional health while doing so. That’s it.

I'm sayin!!! No sex until marriage so you can have a freaky ass happily ever after. Mfs be in relationships for 6 years, engaged for 5, and 2 years into the marriage, sexless af!! Yall did too much pre-marriage fukking and now you bored.

I absolutely agree with the bold!! Be the type of woman you want and need to be, based on your life and circumstances. And if you want to gobble knob, go ahead because it's men that will eat stripper ass fresh off the pole. LOL not saying do it because men do it, but just don't give a fukk like they do and you'll be fine.

 

[Diondon]

Because women have a rebellious nature

 

[hatealot]

Facts!!! There are married men who will legit say "I can't XYZ sexually with my wife" LOL then why marry her? I know a woman that found a side dude so she can have kinky sex because her husband just wouldn't do it.

These gender rule ass relationships are NOT conducive to healthy associations with one another, especially when it comes to sex. The woman has to be a virgin and the man can be a hoe in and outside of the commitment as long as he has money.

Sexual appetite changes over time. Women dead ass will stop sucking dikk mid way into the relationship and she WAS THE BEST TOPPER IN THE GAME.

Then they find their husband in strip clubs, prowling on hunts points in the Bronx for a bare back blowjob by a veteran named school teacher.

 

[RareHunter]

Because men spent thousands of years making a big deal out of something that all humans do, for 1/2 of the world’s population b/c they have a scarcity mindset when it comes to p*ssy and other weird hang ups.

The whore/Madonna complex, the silly ideas men believe about female sexuality, the way they tried to lock women down and shame them to the point that a lotta chicks barely know where their clit is.

When you grow with your own body as a woman and realize it’s all just hang ups that men and society have about female sexuality projected onto to you, you become healthy and well adjusted and learn who you are sexually. That takes time and growth.

Women have to slug off years of conditioning and bro babble that tries to drag them in the direction of being huge sluts and sexually permissive

or

Slut-shamed holier-than-thou prudes.

Im so glad my parents weren’t weirdos about sex growing up.

I was taught that sex is beautiful. That I have the gift of life in my body, so if I act on my hormones, I need to protect myself and also be sure of who I’m with. I thank god for them everyday.

There are some chicks who internalized either extreme of the fukkery female sexuality spectrum and they either out there getting trains ran on them for “empowerment” or they can’t even open up with their partners because they been so henpecked about sex that they think it dirty.

Doesn’t help that some men will judge even their partners if they wanna be freaky b/c they think they supposed to do kinky nasty stuff with side chicks and boring shyt with wives.

Imagine how fukked up that is. It’s just a big ole mess. And until we learn how to have healthier attitudes towards female sexuality as a society, the fukkery will continue.

U have a point, but I disagree only in the sense that women don’t have the capacity to not be controlled by men. The safety nets that women have, in society are enforced by men. Without men enforcing it, I’m not sure what women would do. Just saying.

 

[Henri Christophe]

No clue

I dont complain tho.... If they feel powerful by sucking my dikk and swallowing my nut.... then I'm all for it.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

This some shyt that is nightmare inducing. Imagine waiting and thinking you’ll be able to let your freak flag fly with your partner, only to find he on this type of bullshyt.

So you can’t even get fukked right by the person society told you is the only person that should fukk you.
And while you trying to hold on to that nonsense for his fragile sensibilities and you not even getting satisfied, he’s getting it in with a whole nother chick.
All b/c he got some fukked idea of what “innocent and pure” women are supposed to act like sexually…
That shyt sounds awful.
Not to mention how a lot of these dudes treat side hoes better than the wives they married.
So you passing up orgasms and sexual satisfaction to appease flawed morality of somebody who cheatin on you with the exact type of person they told you NOT to be?!

Cold world.
Women need to just learn the art of discernment and how to stop giving a fukk about the boxes people wanna put them in.

You ain’t gotta suck dikk for approval b/c that ain’t empowerment. But you ain’t evil or a slut if you explore your sexuality as well. Just be safe, be responsible and enjoy yourself and be in control of your emotional health while doing so. That’s it.

This is part of the reason why prostitution is still going strong and these women can easily make 1-2 racks in a WEEK off these paid rich dudes. If you a man that wants to have three ways and your wife ain't with it, or you've always wanted to smash a chick with big titties and/or a fat ass, or wanted to get that good throat at least once before you die, then you might feel the urge to hit up a side piece you met at a conference or an actual escort.

A lot of married prudish women know deep down that those 'business trips' are likely just old dude deciding to spend 3 nights in a hotel somewhere in town and get some freaky sex so he can come home to her and not be angry. Deep down they know he's probably cheating but don't want definitive proof because the marriage and what they've built is more important than his sexual interests that she does not want to accommodate.

 

[Rawtid]

Sexual appetite changes over time. Women dead ass will stop sucking dikk mid way into the relationship and she WAS THE BEST TOPPER IN THE GAME.

Then they find their husband in strip clubs, prowling on hunts points in the Bronx for a bare back blowjob by a veteran named school teacher.

She might stop sucking dikk because what she's going to receive in return, isn't adequate. He getting the best "top" while the the reciprocation is so-so at best for her. I say have a fukking conversation about it.

When people are dating, they have conversations about what each other want sexually, start fukking and never discuss the shyt again.

 

[SunZoo]

Sexuality is powerful and at root of everything about the human experience. And the world we have lived in for quite some time has been largely designed to suppress and shame sexuality, particularly female sexuality.

The pendulum was always going to swing back the other way, doesn't matter if you like or understand it.

 

[RareHunter]

Sexuality is powerful and at root of everything about the human experience. And the world we have lived in for quite some time has been largely designed to suppress and shame sexuality, particularly female sexuality.

The pendulum was always going to swing back the other way, doesn't matter if you like or understand it.

It’s worked out fine for the U.S. and the black community.

 

[hatealot]

She might stop sucking dikk because what she's going to receive in return, isn't adequate. He getting the best "top" while the the reciprocation is so-so at best for her. I say have a fukking conversation about it.

When people are dating, they have conversations about what each other want sexually, start fukking and never discuss the shyt again.

Agreed.

But This is where I feel women lack communication. They never learn to express their sexual needs so they had a perspective of find the next guy. In my world it's taboo for a woman to teach a man how to please her, he should be already king of the jungle.

While she changing sexually, I'm changing sexually and then we both disconnected from each other and now I'm getting topped off in a white pearl benz wishing it was my main girl.

Like I told my old lady I wanna pick you up like you a hoe on the street and we get to it. Having fake affairs , fake break ups. But then it comes, yo our role plays is becoming crazy.

With no tied bills, mortgages, kids, mutual business relationships. We ended up cheating on each other and we left Like