Youre uncle big and weak.Expressing authentic emotion is the easiest way to build a bond yet no one wants to do it out of fear of looking weak to the other party.
I’ll give you an example of the subtle power women have over men when it comes to this.
My uncle does security.
6’4, big, long locs, abysmal temper.
He was with his partner walking out of the train station and some drunk white rugby players intentionally barged into him.
They’re 20 deep; he’s solo.
They get into it and he takes off his vest like he’s ready to take on all 20 cacs.
His partner walks up to him, puts her hand on his chest and says, “I know this is important to you, I know you’re pent up right now, but I NEED YOU to come home with me tonight.”
He looks at her, looks at them, looks back at her and says, “let’s go.”
Sounds basic right?
Now imagine how many lives would’ve been in prison or a casket had she encouraged him to give in to his ego in that moment.
Women’s power rests in our ability to show vulnerability. Men’s rests in leadership.
We have issues when we forget this.
Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?
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Ah another misogyny/incel thread
Plenty of women that are the opposite and will instigate shyt, forcing their man to get dirty and take care of itExpressing authentic emotion is the easiest way to build a bond yet no one wants to do it out of fear of looking weak to the other party.
I’ll give you an example of the subtle power women have over men when it comes to this.
My uncle does security.
6’4, big, long locs, abysmal temper.
He was with his partner walking out of the train station and some drunk white rugby players intentionally barged into him.
They’re 20 deep; he’s solo.
They get into it and he takes off his vest like he’s ready to take on all 20 cacs.
His partner walks up to him, puts her hand on his chest and says, “I know this is important to you, I know you’re pent up right now, but I NEED YOU to come home with me tonight.”
He looks at her, looks at them, looks back at her and says, “let’s go.”
Sounds basic right?
Now imagine how many lives would’ve been in prison or a casket had she encouraged him to give in to his ego in that moment?
Women’s power rests in our ability to show vulnerability. Men’s rests in leadership.
We have issues when we forget this.
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men and women both enjoy sex. it's just one side has been shamed historically for enjoying it.
Ma’am that’s some straight up tragic shyt and also why some of these chicks be cheating. I’ll be damned if I let society bamboozle me into a.) getting hitched to somebody my clit barely moves for only to b.) have my primary sexual experiences be wack b/c I gotta put on a front to be mother Teresa for a prudish dude with a Virgin/slut complex who, c.) talks that shyt about hoes, only for him to take money from our household to spend on the types of women he claims ain’t shyt, while your clit shrivels and dies or you forced to get some side dikk to give you the strokes your husband refuses to give you b/c he trapped in this weird ass complex.
NOPE! Why not just be healthy and normal and be a stone cold freak with…oh I dunno…the person you legally bound to?!
Then again it makes sense b/c marriages used to be about business rather than attraction. So people would get together for family units and just fukk who they really wanted on the side…
Humans. I tell ya. We’re idiots.
No shooter here. Just responding to the story you told. If the cops came he'd probably act the same while his woman begging him to relax. But you got it. I said my peace.We can’t all be shooters on The Coli
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Plenty of women that are the opposite and will instigate shyt, forcing their man to get dirty and take care of it
You get it.
My aunty’s would’ve held his vest then cried out when he got rushed or murdered.
Women have the power to emotionally influence men but it’s not done with brute force or shouting.
It’s subtle and momentary.
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I agree that it's destructive. I'm not "pro hoe"
(Side note, I just remembered that event 21 Savage went to where he was promoting hoes and had a sign that said "I'm a hoe too"
)I'm simply saying that you cannot put this purely on men.
As far as selling sex... sex has always sold in this culture. So yes media promotes sex as they always have.
It sounds like you're saying that men are promoting whoredom because women being whores is profitable for men?
If thats what you're saying, I disagree as you can tell by many posts on this site that although women might be engaging in hoe activities, they ain't engaging in them with most of these dudes.
So I would further say that hoe culture is not beneficial to at LEAST 50% of men. Meaning hoe culture has burned at least 50% of men (women cheating, or sleeping with multiple men, or just not being chaste as some of these dudes claim they want their woman to be).
So to say that hoe culture is promoted by men FOR men cant be true.
And I agree that hoe culture is destructive to society. As I said in my earlier statement, women have always been sexually active with men. It just wasn't PROMOTED and CELEBRATED as it is now.
So I dont believe that women are celebrating hoe culture because of men, but in spite of men.
I believe that men have lost control of society and this is why things like this are happening.
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Lol exactly.
Why do some women get mad that men can walk around shirtless?To argue that is like saying men should be able to walk with our dikks out.
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This is some 3rd wave shyt they just saying to be saying. I doubt they understand the historical context. What they are doing is b*stardizing legit concerns like the fact that prior to European colonization, plenty of people walked around naked with boobs out and in their societies, it wasn’t associated with the same level of disrespect and shame as it is today. Blame white Victorian culture that pushed this idea that titties are dirty pillows of sin or some shyt.Imagine that tho. Imagine walking around bare and nobody thinking
“oh that bytch askin for it b/c the titties out”.Just goes to show you how much a lot of this shyt is actually nurture vs. nature.
In fact evolutionary biologists and anthropologists are often baffled by how indigenous cultures had such low rates of rape and sexual assault within their societies (not counting war rape and shyt) even tho they were a lot more naked than we are now.
It’s also interesting that many indigenous cultures didn’t have prostitution either.
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