Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?

[Rawtid]

Agreed.

But This is where I feel women lack communication. They never learn to express their sexual needs so they had a perspective of find the next guy. In my world it's taboo for a woman to teach a man how to please her, he should be already king of the jungle.

While she changing sexually, I'm changing sexually and then we both disconnected from each other and now I'm getting topped off in a white pearl benz wishing it was my main girl.

Like I told my old lady I wanna pick you up like you a hoe on the street and we get to it. Having fake affairs , fake break ups. But then it comes, yo our role plays is becoming crazy.

With no tied bills, mortgages, kids, mutual business relationships. We ended up cheating on each other and we left Like

Because sex doesn't create bonds, trusting someone while you build a life together in each other's likeness, does.

You can fukk anyone, but not everyone you can be vulnerable with, trust with your goals, be your beneficiary or emergency contact, etc. These are the things you have to value someone for...literally making your life function to its fullest capacity and sex only will never cut it.

 

[Rawtid]

Ma’am that’s some straight up tragic shyt and also why some of these chicks be cheating. I’ll be damned if I let society bamboozle me into a.) getting hitched to somebody my clit barely moves for only to b.) have my primary sexual experiences be wack b/c I gotta put on a front to be mother Teresa for a prudish dude with a Virgin/slut complex who, c.) talks that shyt about hoes, only for him to take money from our household to spend on the types of women he claims ain’t shyt, while your clit shrivels and dies or you forced to get some side dikk to give you the strokes your husband refuses to give you b/c he trapped in this weird ass complex.

NOPE! Why not just be healthy and normal and be a stone cold freak with…oh I dunno…the person you legally bound to?!
Then again it makes sense b/c marriages used to be about business rather than attraction. So people would get together for family units and just fukk who they really wanted on the side…
Humans. I tell ya. We’re idiots.

You're just a fact machine.

 

[Tim2520]

What

 

[CarbonBraddock]

because women understand that they are the weaker sex so anything they can twist around to where they're strong, they'll do it. humans lie to themselves on a daily basis and women are no different. it's why so many of them believe things like they're just as strong as an average man even though science easily disproves it. telling themselves that blindly giving into their base desires is awesome is one part behaving like a child since they get to ignore ramifications and one part 'sticking it' to men through surrogate father figures and the patriarchy and such. basically, many women never leave the child phase and can't cope with reality and are always trying to 'prove' they don't need any man telling them what to do.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

huh

 

[Fresh]

Cardi B ain't helping, smh

 

[CW_1991]

Because of feminism and the fact that America is a land where everyone is encouraged to do whatever they want, however they want, whenever they want with no sense of propriety, culture, boundaries or morals to abide by.

And it's particularly encouraged amongst the women of the black community because as long as they are able to run wild with impunity, the whole community will stay at the bottom.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

LET THESE HOES LIVE.

 

[Redwood]

Youre uncle big and weak.

 

[Lamar Givens]

All of this back and forth philosophizing because no one wants to do what the Good Book has laid out.

Men and women need to stay virgins until they are married.

Learn how to communicate in relationships.

Healthy sex () whatever that is, sexual promiscuity has NEVER benefited ANY society.

Sounds like humans are mad because chickens are coming home to roost as a result of their disobedience and over consumption of non marital sex and the consequences that follows.

 

[Thegospel]

Dudes been hating the truth on here. Females too I guess. Its not something to applaud if your woman more levelheaded than you. But again, do what yall want.

 

[Rawtid]

As a married man, the thing about married women is that they tend to get... comfortable.

Married men do it too but im not married to a man so imma speak on married women


Men want to do freaky nasty mess with a woman who they find attractive. It may be shallow but all men want a woman that is physically attractive to them and a lot of these women be letting themselves go.

It took me a MINUTE to get my wife to get on top of things and now finally she's almost to where I want her to be.



A woman should NEVER be out of shape unless she just had a baby. Other than that, get on that or don't be shocked if my eyes wander.

That was one of the good things that came out of the "sexual repression" of women..

Women were taught that they were supposed to keep their bodies right for their man and they were shamed in some areas of society if they didn't.

Nowadays these hoes pack on 250 lbs, call it baby weight and expect us to rock with it and then be shocked when we don't want to do nothing with them.

nah better get that together or I will find a sidechic who will take care of my needs.

Women stopped keeping themselves up when men stopped giving them a reason to. Dudes will be verbally abusive and cheating, yet expect their women to thrive in that environment. Also, I feel if you let your spouse become a lard ass, you weren't tuned into the relationship in the first place. If we start off with you being able to tie your own shoes and wash your own ass, keep that same energy throughout. The MINUTE we have to buy the next size up or his ass starts wearing crocs, there are changes that need to be made.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

@neotheflyingone i wasn’t thinking about the average man when I made that comment tbh.

Men are the suits and control the media therefore control the narrative.

Women by nature, follow men- even studs follow men (why are their hero’s always toxic? Lmaooo)

If you create a western culture where the men are reckless and apathetic towards women’s feelings, you eventually create women who take on the mentality of said men.

The problem is, men aren’t raised to express emotion like women so they look to us to be the light in the cave.

How is that supposed to happen if the woman is nullifying her emotions out of fear of vulnerability or looking stupid?

Now you have a generation of guarded individuals complaining about the excess femininity or lack thereof in the other.

Attraction needs polarity to thrive.

The more feminine the woman, the more masculine the man shows up and vice versa.

Sigh.

The media promotes the opposite of everything righteous.

 

[Thegospel]

@neotheflyingone i wasn’t thinking about the average man when I made that comment tbh.

Men are the suits and control the media therefore control the narrative.

Women by nature, follow men- even studs follow men (why are their hero’s always toxic? Lmaooo)

If you create a western culture where the men are reckless and apathetic towards women’s feelings, you eventually create women who take on the mentality of said men.

The problem is, men aren’t raised to express emotion like women so they look to us to be the light in the cave.

How is that supposed to happen if the woman is nullifying her emotions out of fear of vulnerability or looking stupid?

Now you have a generation of guarded individuals complaining about the excess femininity or lack thereof in the other.

Attraction needs polarity to thrive.

The more feminine the woman, the more masculine the man shows up and vice versa.

Sigh.

The media promotes the opposite of everything righteous.

Just stop it. Goodness

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Women stopped keeping themselves up when men stopped giving them a reason to. Dudes will be verbally abusive and cheating, yet expect their women to thrive in that environment. Also, I feel if you let your spouse become a lard ass, you weren't tuned into the relationship in the first place. If we start off with you being able to tie your own shoes and wash your own ass, keep that same energy throughout. The MINUTE we have to buy the next size up or his ass starts wearing crocs, there are changes that need to be made.

This is NOT true.

You're an example of an unmarried man speaking on something he has no knowledge of.

And if I'm going by this post, your knowledge of women period seems to be extremely limited.