Why is dressing modest or expected to when you're in a relationship seen as controllling?

[NotaPAWG]

im far from being a "traditional" women, but I don't understand why so many women get upset about this. Why would you want to bring attention to yourself from men who are not your boyfriend when you're in a relationship?

To me, a women who dresses provocatively like she's in the club regularly gives off the vibe she's seeking a partner. A women who dresses modest, does not.

This entire generation of women and feminists have no concept of respect or compromise.

No wonder divorce rates are growing and relationships are looked at so cynically. Bunch of child like minded individuals in relationships who think it's cool to act the same as a single people

Dressing modestly out of respect for your man (and yourself) is fine. If you don't want to compromise or tweak something about what you do for your partner (as long as it's healthy) then stay single.

These dumb ass feminists gonna end up 45 single and lonely asking themselves what happened or blaming patriarchy cause of their pride and ego

 

[Guru]

Some men like having their girls show off their assets to the other dudes while they sit back in the cut and admire at the fact that that's their girl and you can't have that.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Some men like having their girls show off their assets to the other dudes while they sit back in the cut and admire at the fact that that's their girl and you can't have that.

Nah.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Some men like having their girls show off their assets to the other dudes while they sit back in the cut and admire at the fact that that's their girl and you can't have that.

Seems like some, excuse my use of conservative slang.. cuck shyt.



Edit: Maybe it's cause I'm not entirely comfortable with my body or lack there of lol but I don't want a guy who's not my boyfriend admiring me or giving me attention or giving him the opportunity or vibe to think so

Is attention from your partner not enough?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

because it implies that the woman can't handle herself in the midst of such attention. not to mention, it just brings up the question of judgement, which everyone feels slightly taken back when their judgement is called into play. you got to let people live some times, can't try to get everyone to do everything you like. plus, you should be pretty aware of the way your girl dresses before it gets to the point where you have to recommend she puts on something different. I've never dated a woman who suddenly started dressing differently than she had been dressing when she first met me. people don't like to feel controlled in their expression. I was also under the assumption that we dress certain ways to help our own self confidence so if your girl is running around in something you don't like, maybe it's a question of confidence. telling her you don't like what she's wearing doesn't boost her confidence, it makes it a matter of your boyfriend's feelings and his concerns. it redirects the issue without getting to the route.

Either way, people gone do what they gone do

 

[Guru]

Seems like some, excuse my use of conservative slang.. cuck shyt.

Oh I agree completely but that's how some dudes roll they get off on the fact other men are admiring their girl, I've it seen one to many times especially at the club

 

[NotaPAWG]

Oh I agree completely but that's how some dudes roll they get off on the fact other men are admiring their girl, I've it seen one to many times especially at the club

Clubs

The breeding ground for infidelity and narcissistic IG hunnies

 

[SubZero]

Be a PAWG and be anti-feminism, brehs.

This is why nikkas are steady PAWGing.

Nice write-up. At least we agree on something, pawg.

 

[Turbulent]

Some men like having their girls show off their assets to the other dudes while they sit back in the cut and admire at the fact that that's their girl and you can't have that.

 

[Sir Jebbi]

The feminists won't like this one

 

[Turbulent]

because it implies that the woman can't handle herself in the midst of such attention. not to mention, it just brings up the question of judgement, which everyone feels slightly taken back when their judgement is called into play. you got to let people live some times, can't try to get everyone to do everything you like. plus, you should be pretty aware of the way your girl dresses before it gets to the point where you have to recommend she puts on something different. I've never dated a woman who suddenly started dressing differently than she had been dressing when she first met me. people don't like to feel controlled in their expression. I was also under the assumption that we dress certain ways to help our own self confidence so if your girl is running around in something you don't like, maybe it's a question of confidence. telling her you don't like what she's wearing doesn't boost her confidence, it makes it a matter of your boyfriend's feelings and his concerns. it redirects the issue without getting to the route.

Either way, people gone do what they gone do

very sensible post. Ultimately i wouldn't date a girl who seeks male attention but then again, you gotta peep how they move BEFORE you claim them

 

[knickscrusaderm]

Because these sissy ass nikkas nowadays are to scared to check their women. I remember nikkas in another thread saying they would give their woman a pass since they likely met her dressing provocatively, why should it stop when we're in a relationship? What they don't realize is if you're girl isnt falling in line automatically as the relationship begins getting more serious, she probably doesn't respect you that much . When she's out on these girls night out nights you're really sharing her.

These hoes get away with running flawless plays from the hoe playbook thanks to these "secure" men .

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Oh I agree completely but that's how some dudes roll they get off on the fact other men are admiring their girl, I've it seen one to many times especially at the club

 

[no.]

I've never dated a woman who suddenly started dressing differently than she had been dressing when she first met me. people don't like to feel controlled in their expression.

Exactly. You knew what she dressed like when you met her. Expecting someone to change their taste for you is not gonna happen most of the time, and then it leads to arguing and trying to actually control what the girl wears, which is a bad vibe for the relationship all around.

 

[DatNkkaCutty]

Ill check my lady wit the quickness if I feel like somethin she wearin disrespectful attire nd she got the option to respect it or . Those are usually beginnin of the relationship probs when u settin boundaries anyway so now she wouldnt dare violate. Now theres a time nd a place for certain shyt..dont get it twisted but if u one of them dudes that allows ya lady to thot it out consistently u a simp nd invitin probs. A female can dress a particular way nd put a ngga in a situation to have to drill somethin nd do life upholdin principle nd Ill kill for mines. Why invite those issues?