Why is dressing modest or expected to when you're in a relationship seen as controllling?

[The Mad Titan]

your right


People don't understand how this affects a relationship in a big way later on.

If your girl or guy is still acting, dressing or doing the exact same thing they did while they were single then you can count the days until y'all both single again.


I don't think there is anything with a women being sexy or showing of what she got every now and then (in a respectable/classy way) but that shouldn't be her goal every time she goes out, especially alone.



I'm not some sexy beast, but since Ive started dating my gf. I've had to check, stop and let go of a lot of thing and people plus I had to change up the dialogue and actions in dealing with others.

I don't feel like I've missed out, or that she's made me change....it's just common sense and courtesy if you ask me.

 

[badtguy]

If a chick dresses like a hoe when I meet her, I'm not telling her nothing. Imma just keep piping than drop her for someone who does dress modest.

I might say something once, after that my mind is already searching for what fits me better.

These Dudes, arguing with females. I tell a chick once either she shapes up or I'll drop her it may take 1 month or 2 yrs but she definitely has an expiration date.

One if my current joints, dresses like a hoe, she keep getting tats, long dyed weave I said something once, she ain't change so imma just keep fukkin her till I get tired.

At this point I can't introduce her to coworkers or family. So she she just p*ssy

 

[Knicksman20]

You make some good points. I think it shows respect not only for your man but for your relationship. A good friend of mine married a woman with a similar mindset. They've been happily married for almost 10 years now.

 

[Diondon]

Your girl is a representation of you and vice versa. That's all I got to say on the subject.

 

[Remote]

There are ways to look good without going overboard.

Women aren't stupid. They know when they're dressing too provocatively.
And if you look good, that's going to come through no matter what you wear.

 

[4North1Side2]

im far from being a "traditional" women, but I don't understand why so many women get upset about this. Why would you want to bring attention to yourself from men who are not your boyfriend when you're in a relationship?

To me, a women who dresses provocatively like she's in the club regularly gives off the vibe she's seeking a partner. A women who dresses modest, does not.

This entire generation of women and feminists have no concept of respect or compromise.

No wonder divorce rates are growing and relationships are looked at so cynically. Bunch of child like minded individuals in relationships who think it's cool to act the same as a single people

Dressing modestly out of respect for your man (and yourself) is fine. If you don't want to compromise or tweak something about what you do for your partner (as long as it's healthy) then stay single.

These dumb ass feminists gonna end up 45 single and lonely asking themselves what happened or blaming patriarchy cause of their pride and ego

Same reason why you post pictures of yourself on this forum while your in a relationship.


None of these women who got it going on is crying about being single, get off of they clit.

 

[NicoleNecole]

I dress how I want. You met me like this. I'm staying like this. I had men tell me they don't like weave makeup or long nails. Those men were asked to exit because I wasn't changing.

 

[Gonzo]

Some men like having their girls show off their assets to the other dudes while they sit back in the cut and admire at the fact that that's their girl and you can't have that.

I never use this word but you sound like a fukking cuck

 

[Neuromancer]

Some men like having their girls show off their assets to the other dudes while they sit back in the cut and admire at the fact that that's their girl and you can't have that.

What the fukk?

 

[Hopeofmypeople]

im far from being a "traditional" women, but I don't understand why so many women get upset about this. Why would you want to bring attention to yourself from men who are not your boyfriend when you're in a relationship?

To me, a women who dresses provocatively like she's in the club regularly gives off the vibe she's seeking a partner. A women who dresses modest, does not.

This entire generation of women and feminists have no concept of respect or compromise.

No wonder divorce rates are growing and relationships are looked at so cynically. Bunch of child like minded individuals in relationships who think it's cool to act the same as a single people

Dressing modestly out of respect for your man (and yourself) is fine. If you don't want to compromise or tweak something about what you do for your partner (as long as it's healthy) then stay single.

These dumb ass feminists gonna end up 45 single and lonely asking themselves what happened or blaming patriarchy cause of their pride and ego

Hoes come with that excuse about controlling, if you want to be seen in public with me as your man you better hide the goods and not have it on display. I am not talking full on burka but ain't no need to show of shyt when you have a man.

 

[How Sway?]

There are some girls that are technically in relationships but have a "I belong to no one" mentality.

I.e. attention whores

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I shouldn't have to ask her to dress moderately; if she does not do that on her own, I don't need to be with her. I got a daughter, not trying to raise another grown ass woman.

 

[Neuromancer]

I met my girl dressed modestly and one day she had on some shorts that I didn’t think were appropriate. I told her I didn’t appreciate them and she stopped wearing them. Plus she mainly wears clothes she makes and she makes alot of dresses.

I shouldn't have to ask her to dress moderately; if she does not do that on her own, I don't need to be with her. I got a daughter, not trying to raise another grown ass woman.

You did a 180 bro. Good to see.

 

[Neuromancer]

There are some girls that are technically in relationships but have a "I belong to no one" mentality.

I.e. attention whores

They deserve to stay single, tbh.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I met my girl dressed modestly and one day she had on some shorts that I didn’t think were appropriate. I told her I didn’t appreciate them and she stopped wearing them. Plus she mainly wears clothes she makes and she makes alot of dresses.


You did a 180 bro. Good to see.

I been trying breh. Beat the case where ex was suing me, tried to work things out with the ex-wife but that shyt is dead, and so is my role in her daughters life (she's preggo) and Im retaining custody of our daughter. Gonna remain single until the right one presents herself. But I am done trying to mold women and raise them up. Carry your weight or get the fukk on.