Why is dressing modest or expected to when you're in a relationship seen as controllling?

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Same reason why you post pictures of yourself on this forum while your in a relationship.


None of these women who got it going on is crying about being single, get off of they clit.

Except I haven't posted a picture on here in awhile :francis:
 

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For some reason a lot of people these days just can't understand that in a relationship you have responsibilities to one another and yes, now you have to take the other persons feelings and opinions into account.

There's no reason whatsoever, if you value your relationship that a reasonable request be denied or a reasonable adjustment be made for your partner.

People should understand that their partner will have expectations of them to not continue to carry themselves as single now that you no longer are. (this applies not only to dressing of course but where you go, who you go with and how you conduct yourself overall)

Not having your whole ass hanging out every time you leave the house =very reasonable request/expectation.

In addition to the wacky "you can't slut shame me! stop being oppressive" crazy ass feminists this is also pushed by the lonely bitter bytch brigade "can't no man tell me nothing! he's not my father" and bytches ain't got nam man to speak of and want everyone else to be miserable with them.
 

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:yeshrug:If a chick dresses like a hoe when I meet her, I'm not telling her nothing. Imma just keep piping than drop her for someone who does dress modest.

I might say something once, after that my mind is already searching for what fits me better.

These Dudes, arguing with females. I tell a chick once either she shapes up or I'll drop her it may take 1 month or 2 yrs but she definitely has an expiration date.

One if my current joints, dresses like a hoe, she keep getting tats, long dyed weave I said something once, she ain't change so imma just keep fukkin her till I get tired.

At this point I can't introduce her to coworkers or family. So she she just p*ssy

I said this in another thread, some women aren't meant to be partners or mothers. Just practice for sex, until you meet your quality woman.
 

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For some reason a lot of people these days just can't understand that in a relationship you have responsibilities to one another and yes, now you have to take the other persons feelings and opinions into account.

There's no reason whatsoever, if you value your relationship that a reasonable request be denied or a reasonable adjustment be made for your partner.

People should understand that their partner will have expectations of them to not continue to carry themselves as single now that you no longer are. (this applies not only to dressing of course but where you go, who you go with and how you conduct yourself overall)

Not having your whole ass hanging out every time you leave the house =very reasonable request/expectation.

In addition to the wacky "you can't slut shame me! stop being oppressive" crazy ass feminists this is also pushed by the lonely bitter bytch brigade "can't no man tell me nothing! he's not my father" and bytches ain't got nam man to speak of and want everyone else to be miserable with them.
:lawd: scrolls.
 

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For some reason a lot of people these days just can't understand that in a relationship you have responsibilities to one another and yes, now you have to take the other persons feelings and opinions into account.

There's no reason whatsoever, if you value your relationship that a reasonable request be denied or a reasonable adjustment be made for your partner.

People should understand that their partner will have expectations of them to not continue to carry themselves as single now that you no longer are. (this applies not only to dressing of course but where you go, who you go with and how you conduct yourself overall)

Not having your whole ass hanging out every time you leave the house =very reasonable request/expectation.

In addition to the wacky "you can't slut shame me! stop being oppressive" crazy ass feminists this is also pushed by the lonely bitter bytch brigade "can't no man tell me nothing! he's not my father" and bytches ain't got nam man to speak of and want everyone else to be miserable with them.

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The pandering :snoop:

Wouldn't it make more sense to date someone who already dressed "appropriately" and that didn't need to be told what to wear? I don't date men that wear spandex and booty shorts because that's not what I'm into. Why would I date someone like that and then expect them to change and pretend like I have moral high ground?
 

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Another thing guys. We need to respect women who dress modestly and treat them well. I don't mean simp. But she is telling you something with her modesty she respects her own form and values it as essential to giving life. Treat it as such. Don't pump and dump these women don't disrespect them because they are showing respect to themselves and while they're with you they respect you as a man by keeping what they offer to you only for you. cherish these women men, honor them as they honor you.
 

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The pandering :snoop:

Wouldn't it make more sense to date someone who already dressed "appropriately" and that didn't need to be told what to wear? I don't date men that wear spandex and boot shorts because that's not what I'm into. Why would I date someone like that and then expect them to change and pretend like I have moral high ground?
This is what I've been saying. What are boot shorts?
 

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The pandering :snoop:

Wouldn't it make more sense to date someone who already dressed "appropriately" and that didn't need to be told what to wear? I don't date men that wear spandex and booty shorts because that's not what I'm into. Why would I date someone like that and then expect them to change and pretend like I have moral high ground?

men wearing spandex and booty shorts?:dwillhuh:
 

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The pandering :snoop:

Wouldn't it make more sense to date someone who already dressed "appropriately" and that didn't need to be told what to wear? I don't date men that wear spandex and booty shorts because that's not what I'm into. Why would I date someone like that and then expect them to change and pretend like I have moral high ground?


Yes, obviously but this isn't reality in terms of the dating pool. There's an entire generation of women empowering themselves in pro thot feminist trash and spreading it to other women. They pass off their disregard for others feelings and relationship boundaries as "self respect" and not letting men control them.
 

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I usually do as well, but when I'm in a relationship I tend to be more modest about a number of things out of respect

I'm not trying to say women should dress modest in a relationship, but it's important to be respectful of one another. I just don't feel comfortable with people looking at me, and dressing immodestly draws attention.
 
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