Why is fat acceptance an almost exclusively female phenomena?

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You're supposed to accept a woman regardless of her size but the vice versa doesn't seem to be true.

"fat shaming"

"body shaming"

and all other similar concepts are used almost elusively for women. I've never heard of "fat shaming" or anything else being used in relation to men. Why is this treatment different?:jbhmm:
 

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Back in the day both fat males and females got joked on. Once people matured....that didn't happen as much....but u still can get rejected cuz people like what they like. And there were a few fat dudes who could still pull cuz they had confidence and their parents and family did right by them instilling good vibes and confidence.

Also women have kids and have more body fat as an average so they get more leeway and privileges. But its no excuse to be obese tho...sometimes one just has to lock down and change lifestyle just to be healthier.

And don't forget that we in America....so many overweight and obese folks of all races and genders.
 

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Men in general are going to be less outspoken about their insecurity because of how the society is built...suck it up, get over it, get money, conquer women. Wanting to be accepted and feel beautiful is seen as a feminine thing, it's why a lot of these nikkas got vagina envy. Same thing about men getting raped by women...people wonder why it's not more of a "thing" than it is, though it's clearly there. We have delineated women as weak and less...men want to desperately avoid being seen as weak or less, thus things rape or body image issues kinda stay below the radar.
 
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On a large scale they are not












No pun intended :hubie:
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Cuz big boyz been had confidence and understanding of where they fit into the social order of desirability. They might not be top choice but they content to get a bad bicht based off they clothes, cut, swag, sense of humor, athletic abilities, money, status.

Big Women just started to find confidence and that’s a result of being fed up with being told not to or they can’t while simultaneously wanting to be the baddest bicht in the room getting the top choice of men using the same assets other women have(boobs, butts, sex appeal).

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Men in general are going to be less outspoken about their insecurity because of how the society is built...suck it up, get over it, get money, conquer women. Wanting to accepted and feel beautiful is seen as a feminine thing, it's why a lot of these nikkas got vagina envy. Same thing about men getting raped by women...people wonder why it's not more of a "thing" than it is, though it's clearly there. We have delineated women as weak and less...men want to desperately avoid being seen as weak or less, thus things rape or body image issues kinda stay below the radar.
Yeah....anytime us dudes experience hurt, rejection, pain, discrimination, ostracism, etc....we're told to man up or toughen up and get over it.
 

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Fat nikkas learn to just deal with the cards given to us cause we get no pity system, that goes back all the way to elementary school.

Usually they wind up finding a trump card in a personality trait or something, or just get they bread up.
Ive yet to meet an unfunny fat nikka.
 

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Ive yet to meet an unfunny fat nikka.
I have...but the thing about some fat people....if they not funny...they are at least down to earth or a pleasant person. Some are great loyal people who are perfect to befriend and chill with. But u still can encounter fat people who are azzholes and cocky or someone who just has a fuked up personality.
 
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