Why is it so hard for people to want other people to be happy?

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Some people think they're looking out for you (which they might be if you're doing something reckless)

Some just get jealous or salty or doubtful or whatever because, well, that's human nature :yeshrug:Don't surround yourself with habitual crabs, fakes, or snakes
 

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What Are Your Goals And Aspirations If You Don't Mind Sharing?

I want to go either go to medical school and go straight into working in a hospital and that would involve a lot more money and changing my direction in college or go into the Airforce and become a military physician. Along with wanting to learn a language and really explore myself (paws :dame:) as much as I can.
 

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remember this:
people want to see you doing well, but never doing better than them


True, but t sometimes can be beneficial to take advice.

Not everything is hating. I routinely tell my peers the real. Sometimes you gotta take a look at what you have shown in promise to what u plan.

I got a rap homie who really wants to be a big rapper. But he's a hothead who wants local beef and he doesn't work hard enough. And I tell him to find something new.
 

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See my signature.

You're not living right if everyone agrees with your decisions.

Most people are weak and have no drive. Being critical is a defense mechanism b/c if they don't downplay your ambition they'll have to start questioning their own.
 

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I want to go either go to medical school and go straight into working in a hospital and that would involve a lot more money and changing my direction in college or go into the Airforce and become a military physician. Along with wanting to learn a language and really explore myself (paws :dame:) as much as I can.
You'd be better off with the grants and shyt you'd get from the military but yeah, shoot for the stars lil nikka. :salute:
 

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When the grass is cut, the snakes will show.

When someone is deceiving you, you have to flush them out. Snakes run when you cut the lawn and people who are betraying you flee when you confront them in some manner.

Your friends are not your friends.

You life will improve once you realize that.

stay from around small minded people man, stay away from the naysayers, your family, friends and parents that's telling u bullshyt, stay away from them. This life is a lonely road filled with snakes, vultures and sharks. U gotta use your sword and shield to fend them off as u walk the righteous road to your destiny. Don't tell these hating nikkas and esp these old nikkas anything. just do it and treat them like your coworkers. just keep a surface facade. smile, nod, agree and bounce
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I want to go either go to medical school and go straight into working in a hospital and that would involve a lot more money and changing my direction in college or go into the Airforce and become a military physician. Along with wanting to learn a language and really explore myself (paws :dame:) as much as I can.
Air Force sounds like the better decision
 

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Those people aren't your friends. You need better friends. A friend is gonna push you to do better and try to help you achieve your goals while you help them achieve their own.
 
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True, but t sometimes can be beneficial to take advice.

Not everything is hating. I routinely tell my peers the real. Sometimes you gotta take a look at what you have shown in promise to what u plan.

I got a rap homie who really wants to be a big rapper. But he's a hothead who wants local beef and he doesn't work hard enough. And I tell him to find something new.
Bold is soo true. Cats want to say and do any ole,thing with no repercussions and if you say something its hating FOH. Like you said everything isn't hating and to be honest don't you usually have to have something worth hating on? How cats hating on a person on the same level or lower? Where they do that at? Ime its someone doing better not the avg dude that interchangeable with the next person. Cats stay living them lives of delusion.

Maybe u one of them cats that never put your plans in motion. You can't speak your dreams into existence.
Exactly I think this is the case. Nobody trying to hear from the dude that ain't did shyt they ever say when they come around with the 10000 idea. Its like nikka do something then get back to us. I've rarely saw actual friends hate on their other friends plans. Now if you were a bullshytter cats said stuff like those in OP but if you known for getting shyt done cats trying to be down. Maybe this should be a wake up to OP and others in here that have friends speaking negatively on their goals that they probably a bullshytter and cats tired of hearing that shyt.
 

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Bold is soo true. Cats want to say and do any ole,thing with no repercussions and if you say something its hating FOH. Like you said everything isn't hating and to be honest don't you usually have to have something worth hating on? How cats hating on a person on the same level or lower? Where they do that at? Ime its someone doing better not the avg dude that interchangeable with the next person. Cats stay living them lives of delusion.

Exactly I think this is the case. Nobody trying to hear from the dude that ain't did shyt they ever say when they come around with the 10000 idea. Its like nikka do something then get back to us. I've rarely saw actual friends hate on their other friends plans. Now if you were a bullshytter cats said stuff like those in OP but if you known for getting shyt done cats trying to be down. Maybe this should be a wake up to OP and others in here that have friends speaking negatively on their goals that they probably a bullshytter and cats tired of hearing that shyt.
Maybe u one of them cats that never put your plans in motion. You can't speak your dreams into existence.
Did yall just skip this post or what? I dont usually tell people about my plans but the one time I decided to they reacted that way
Man I dont even know.I dont usually talk to people about things like this, but this opened my eyes to what type of people they are
 

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Did yall just skip this post or what? I dont usually tell people about my plans but the one time I decided to they reacted that way
Its convenient that was said after all the others commented and we don't have the other cats side so therefore I'm going by what usually happens to get that result. You can agree/disagree but that's how I see it cause its rare very rare cats do tha when you've not shown a pattern of bullshyt before. Also like I said before why do you feel the need to do it this time if you never do it anyway? Looking for some pats on the back and they didn't give you what you wanted? Its a reason you did it.
 
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