Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[johntheblackjew]

Like i can legit go an entire weekend just chilling, lounging etc completely comfortable...but literally every girlfriend/relationship i ever had always wants to nag and complain and "find things to do"..constantly asking "what are we gonna do tonight, tommorrow, five years from now etc etc? "

like women cant just take a moment in life to just be...the constantly have to find something to do. Im legit curious about that.

There was also a viral pic a few weeks ago where women where upset that guys apartment can just be bare bones/the essentials and someone mentioned that women are so upset because they realize men can just exist and be at peace with themselves without feeling the need to preoccupy their time/space.


yall notice that too or is it just a biased anecdotal evidence on my part?

 

[Lýba'rhaésheýun]

Bruhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Dawg I asked this Exact Question The Other Day, Its Like some of em just gotta create something to do out of nowhere, like bruh smoke some weed, get hobby, play video games fam do something you brings the wholeeee mood down trippin bout thangs that don't even matter lol

& when you be doing somethin they mad cause you didn't give them attention & they wanna vent/talk/complain about pointless nonsense like can you chill?

 

[Matt504]

Bruhhhhhhhhh

Dawg I asked this Exact Question The Other Day, Its Like some of em just gotta create something to do out of nowhere, like bruh smoke some weed, get hobby, play video games fam do something you brings the wholeeee mood down trippin bout thangs that don't even matter lol

sound like you and OP should date.

 

[CoryMack]

my lady used to wanna do shyt every weekend. "its nice out i don't wanna be cooped up inside all day."

well shyt the cowboys game comin on. i mean what do you want from me.

 

[Lýba'rhaésheýun]

sound like you and OP should date.

I'm just venting my frustrations


And There Based In Truth Mad Females Can't Just Chill, And In Some cases this will cause issues in the relationship cause some of them while create drama/issues where there are none, for literally no reason lol

 

[MoveForward]

I have noticed it myself... It's also why alot of them stay broke. I tend to think most women have mental issues and they can't sit still because then they have to face their demons.

 

[GilSho]

Worst part is even so called introverted women also need to be entertained these days.

As a homebody, it's one of the main reasons why most of my relationships don't last longer than a couple of months. shyt is so mentally taxing.

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Get on that zinc and up your pipe game breh. It's really that easy. If she getting hers multiple times a day she don't give a fukk about going out ​

 

[MikelArteta]

if they were spending their money they'd want to stay in

 

[mag357]

There was also a viral pic a few weeks ago where women where upset that guys apartment can just be bare bones/the essentials and someone mentioned that women are so upset because they realize men can just exist and be at peace with themselves without feeling the need to preoccupy their time/space.

I remember that quote by the bruh on that thread. shyt was the realest shyt ever wrote...
I notice niggsz are playing it safe so far on this thread tho...
Saying shyt like "some women...yadda yadda yadda"... "most womem....yadda yadda yadda"
Just say all women my nikka... All women.. it's in their gott damn DNA.
I was watching a show called like my 600lb life or some shyt.
And there was a couple, both of them were extremely obese...but the women would still get up and cook, wash this big ass nikka so he wont get sores in his fat folds. She'd have to then clean herself and what not too smh... shorty got a breathing apparatus on and all that shyt...
And I was saying to myself... women always got to be doing some shyt... just sit ur ass down and die

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

They can't be seen in the house. Posting pics on Instagram and Snapchat can only hold them over for a few hours before they gotta go outside and try to get attention.

 

[The Fade]

they always wanna do something on your dime

my boy misses being single cause he always has to pay to keep his girl amused.

they want to do 5 star shyt but wont let you fukking save up money to do it

 

[MikelArteta]

they always wanna do something on your dime

my boy misses being single cause he always has to pay to keep his girl amused.

they want to do 5 star shyt but wont let you fukking save up money to do it

dating costs money and they always expect you to pay

 

[Lýba'rhaésheýun]

"some women...yadda yadda yadda"... "most womem....yadda yadda yadda"
Just say all women

In My Personal Experience I can't speak for everyone, its Not All Of them, I Truly have met some really chill truly chill woman before who didn't do all dat. Truly like one of the brehs in that aspect but female in her tenancies. but there rare.... like big foot rare. and many are gay.



The Rest Of them however...



I tend to be kind confrontational and put people in there place when they start trippin to hard, so I'm fine but annoying is annoying and sometimes you gotta delete the number and slide on chick and keep it movin, badd ain't worth your chill

 

[Rich Spirit]

they always wanna do something on your dime

my boy misses being single cause he always has to pay to keep his girl amused.

they want to do 5 star shyt but wont let you fukking save up money to do it

Sounds like a miserable relationship. Your boy needs to dip