Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

chowism

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Facts! Women always feel the need to go somewhere. My woman is pretty chill and and introverted but she always talking about wanting to randomly move to L.A. because she thinks there will be so much to do. None of that shyt appeals to me at all. I'm very content chilling. She be talking about hitting up random spots to try the food and random new night spots to chill at but I don't be giving a fukk. Them spots would only appeal to me if I was single looking for some females to get at. Thing is women just like to be seen in a nice outfit for attention. shyt is mad dumb to us but that's how they're.
 

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Similar to my post in another thread.

Excessive social media consumption is making their natural restlessness increase.

It’s driving excessive FOMO.

Woman is scrolling down her social media feed.

She sees a carefully-crafted picture of a meal at the hot new restaurant. Oh and her friends have liked the photo as well. Now, she’s got to try that meal so she can post a photo. Because, social media law says that if a pic doesn’t exist, it didn’t happen. :sas1: That means she’s going to drag your ass there and you’re going to break open that wallet, breh. :ufdup:

She follows the party promoters in your city on social media. Her friends are @‘g her in the comments. She’s got to be there. FOMO. She’ll drag you there and you’re going to open that wallet and buy drinks, breh.

I can keep going, but you get the point

If your girl is heavy social media user, her natural restlessness is going to be heightened.

So, get ready to spend money. :takedat:
 

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Find yourself a pretty gamer chick. Stay home all day playing call of duty or some shyt.
U would think that till they wanna go to gamestop every weekend, stay in the house literally playin that shyt all day, or she fukkin played ur saved game and u missin out on the story and now u gotta start it from the top (not every game has where u can go back in the story) Not to mention they just run thru the game skippin all the side missions, secret items and weapons. :snoop:
Ive literally kicked a fwb out my house for deleting my 94 ovr shot creator, cuz i had to refrain from runnin her fade.
 

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A lot of women I personally know don't like going out all that much but know some who are out every weekend. That's what a human being is.

Everybody's different and know some dudes who always want to find something to do. I like to be in the mix, but somedays I just love to hang out and watch movies or go on the internet.

Interests are a thing: try asking her to go out for the night when her favorite tv show is about to come on.

If you have a significant other who likes to go out and you're going to try to keep them at home, that's always going to be tough.

I know it sounds crazy, but if anybody wants to make it work, there's going to be a give and take and people are going to have to do things they don't want to do.
 
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Similar to my post in another thread.

Excessive social media consumption is making their natural restlessness increase.

It’s driving excessive FOMO.

Woman is scrolling down her social media feed.

She sees a carefully-crafted picture of a meal at the hot new restaurant. Oh and her friends have liked the photo as well. Now, she’s got to try that meal so she can post a photo. Because, social media law says that if a pic doesn’t exist, it didn’t happen. :sas1: That means she’s going to drag your ass there and you’re going to break open that wallet, breh. :ufdup:

She follows the party promoters in your city on social media. Her friends are @‘g her in the comments. She’s got to be there. FOMO. She’ll drag you there and you’re going to open that wallet and buy drinks, breh.

I can keep going, but you get the point

If your girl is heavy social media user, her natural restlessness is going to be heightened.

So, get ready to spend money. :takedat:

If she seeks attention on the regular, she is looking for the next best thing. Other words, you sharing that broad.
 

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I can see where they coming from. Life is too short to be staying inside, I'm introverted lone wolf as fuk and perfectly content with video games.

But it seems like women go out for the wrong reasons. Fuk shopping, new restaurants, loud clubs and the movies, that sht is Dead :hhh: Give me a Motorcycle to ride out and hit car meets or a sports car along ocean scenery.

How much is too much if yall had a choice?:jbhmm:

I feel like if you need to go somewhere every week you doing too much.:camby:
 

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Coulda swore y’all made threads on how we’re boring and don’t do nothing/have hobbies
How is spending someone else's money to compulsively hunt for superficial 'experiences', like Kobe Bryant hunts for his shots, to pad your ig with contrived bucket list fodder for external validation a productive or fufilling hobby?:troll:
 

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I hear those complaints a lot from guys; however, I like "doing things" so it's never been a problem for me... Now whether or not she wants to do those things is another question.

Of course, there's no expectation that we'd be doing something every night or even every weekend and I've only dated one woman who thought otherwise.

The apartment thing often leads to women pretending to be interior designers. They will gladly help you decorate your place... or even do it for you if you let them.
 

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Because they are horny but you aren't their true type as they settled,so they rather go dikk hunting for a nikka that's they type.
How do I know? Sometimes I am exactly that sexy nikka to bag that they wanted up their alley.
Other times, I been the nikka they settled, heheheh you'd be surprised how much sexual tensions are hidden by women not piss men off.
Me on the other hand because I'm Afrocentric they are usually open about it and up for it. Dont take my word alone though.
Yes it does actually take being around women to "get it."
Because I tell you, after a woman enjoys good fukking they not going to want to no where but lay on your chest and admire you. Atleast that's how I see it.
 
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