Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

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Crying to get their way....it used to make me feel guilty too until I realized it was a war of the mind. It's simple, how miserable are you willing to be for p*ssy and companionship?

@who_better_than_me said he hates coming home because it's become that miserable at the crib. Once you fail a woman's shyt tests enough it gets to the point where they beat you mentally and you'll capitulate just to avoid arguments or nagging or in your case her crying.
Nah she cried in private... too much pride to do it in my face.

And i dont know... we might be done for all I know. I’m just tired of mindgames... this corona shyt gonna make it hard to move on at the moment though
 

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This is why I dont comment on people's relationships. A lot of time people would say "why is he with her" "she is basic"...and at the end of the day that is what a lot of people want..

Im generalizing but those "dimes" and ig model types are very high maintenance and have to be on the scene every week. Hell even having sex with them is somewhat of a struggle because they are worried about their hair, make up ,etc
 

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Bruhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Dawg I asked this Exact Question The Other Day, Its Like some of em just gotta create something to do out of nowhere, like bruh smoke some weed, get hobby, play video games fam do something you brings the wholeeee mood down trippin bout thangs that don't even matter lol

& when you be doing somethin they mad cause you didn't give them attention & they wanna vent/talk/complain about pointless nonsense like can you chill? :heh:
My wife. I can go outside, jump rope and walk around with my kid, and play 2k as well as other games. She wants to go places and get her nails done not realizing Ling Ling ain't taking that risk.
 

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This is why I dont comment on people's relationships. A lot of time people would say "why is he with her" "she is basic"...and at the end of the day that is what a lot of people want..

Im generalizing but those "dimes" and ig model types are very high maintenance and have to be on the scene every week. Hell even having sex with them is somewhat of a struggle because they are worried about their hair, make up ,etc

Alot of them be single too and always searching for the highest bidder. The young nikkaz that got money and are smart always be charging them to the game. So eventually they settle for old nikkaz to sponsor they lifestyle.
 

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Alot of them be single too and always searching for the highest bidder. The young nikkaz that got money and are smart always be charging them to the game. So eventually they settle for old nikkaz to sponsor they lifestyle.

Never ending cycle
 

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So much facts spit on the first page alone.

I just got into an argument with my wife and 18 year old daughter last night over this mind state .

My wife, son and daughter are on quarantine and I’m working remote from home. I suggested when I got off yesterday we watch The Wire. They’ve never seen it and I’ve been telling them to watch it for years.

I tell my son. He’s pissed off he has to get off XBox and come downstairs and watch the show with me but agrees. I get off work, work out, take a shower, make some popcorn, set up Season 1 and knock on my daughters door so we can spend family time together watching the show. She opens her door in full makeup putting on her earrings.

-me- “Where are you going?”

-her- “Mom said I can go meet my homegirls at the park and meet some guy that wanted to take me out”

-me- “But we are practicing social distancing and that’s not smart.

-her- “But it’s a beautiful day outside and I’m tired of being cooped up in the house.

(mind you it’s 6:30, about to be dark and the air is filled with pollen)

So I got ask my wife.

-me- “Did you tell her she can go to the park and hang out with her friends?”

-wife- “Yeah what’s the problem? Is she on punishment or something?”


-me- :why::snoop:

So I told my son never mind about watching The Wire. Got me a bottle of Crown Black and locked myself in my room with 2K and Madden. I have to quarantine myself from the women in my family, because they can’t sit they ass at home for 2 weeks and read a book or watch Blu-ray’s. They HAVE to be outside socializing.

Black women are gonna literally kill some of us.

Man aint no one tryna gather round and watch a tv show thats like 20yrs old and boring af to a teenager. :mjlol: You tryna make ya kids watch a depressing ass show
 
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Crying to get their way....it used to make me feel guilty too until I realized it was a war of the mind. It's simple, how miserable are you willing to be for p*ssy and companionship?

@who_better_than_me said he hates coming home because it's become that miserable at the crib. Once you fail a woman's shyt tests enough it gets to the point where they beat you mentally and you'll capitulate just to avoid arguments or nagging or in your case her crying.


Women cry cause they can get away with it - Malcom x
 

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Crying to get their way....it used to make me feel guilty too until I realized it was a war of the mind. It's simple, how miserable are you willing to be for p*ssy and companionship?

@who_better_than_me said he hates coming home because it's become that miserable at the crib. Once you fail a woman's shyt tests enough it gets to the point where they beat you mentally and you'll capitulate just to avoid arguments or nagging or in your case her crying.
I don’t hate goin home. I just rather be at work making money than spending a whole day with her. I’m like that period though. I don’t like to spend all day with any broad. I don’t like arguments or unnecessary drama.
 

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I don’t hate goin home. I just rather be at work making money than spending a whole day with her. I’m like that period though. I don’t like to spend all day with any broad. I don’t like arguments or unnecessary drama.
And that's what's waiting for you at home right? I see a lot of memes from chics I'm FB freinds with that say "Be his peace" on the top half of the meme and on the bottom half there's a caption of a bish yelling. They think drama is cute.
 

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The real answer is that a lot of women haven't developed a personality, especially if they look halfway decent.
Their existence is based around attention and their immediate, superficial, usually material, wants.
A lot of grown women still behave like little girls because of this.
A person whose mind is occupied with musings; ideas, interests, skills and goals usually can find something to occupy themselves
Someone who hasn't developed intellectually has nothing going on within themselves to spark that mental activity and need outside stimuli to do so.
So they are always looking for that external stimuli, thus why social media is so popular with women.
It may sound sexist but that's why some women take so well to motherhood and homemaking, because it gives them an external focus
Men tend to date on looks, and are generally not concerned with the woman's character
Once they realize that the woman that they've chosen has an undeveloped mind and cannot offer true companionship, they look for the nearest exit.

I know so many good looking women that dont be talking about shyt at all. :snoop:
So they get friendzoned and only hear from me once in a while
I can only hang out with a woman who stimulates my mind as well as my loins
If she cant do that, we may smash, but I'm dipping right after
 
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The real answer is that a lot of women haven't developed a personality, especially if they look halfway decent.
Their existence is based around attention and their immediate, superficial, usually material, wants.
A lot of grown women still behave like little girls because of this.
A person whose mind is occupied with musings; ideas, interests, skills and goals usually can find something to occupy themselves
Someone who hasn't developed intellectually has nothing going on within themselves to spark that mental activity and need outside stimuli to do so.
So they are always looking for that external stimuli, thus why social media is so popular with women.
It may sound sexist but that's why some women take so well to motherhood and homemaking, because it gives them an external focus
Men tend to date on looks, and are generally not concerned with the woman's character
Once they realize that the woman that they've chosen has an undeveloped mind and cannot offer true companionship, they look for the nearest exit.

I know so many good looking women that dont be talking about shyt at all. :snoop:
So they get friendzoned and only hear from me once in a while
I can only hang out with a woman who stimulates my mind as well as my loins
If she cant do that, we may smash, but I'm dipping right after


Oh this nikka came here to talk that talk :wow::whew::salute:
 
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