Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[The ADD]

Sounds like y'all are just choosing incompatible partners. People who like to do stuff should be with people who like to do stuff. If you like to sit on the couch and are a homebody, there are plenty of women who like to do that too. I guess the real problem is how do you meant homebodies if they aren't out or willing to go out? lol. So maybe they need a homebody app just for that crowd.

^^^

 

[Rayzah]

Sounds like y'all are just choosing incompatible partners. People who like to do stuff should be with people who like to do stuff. If you like to sit on the couch and are a homebody, there are plenty of women who like to do that too. I guess the real problem is how do you meant homebodies if they aren't out or willing to go out? lol. So maybe they need a homebody app just for that crowd.

Even the homebodies like to go out to dinner as much as possible. And if it’s not dinner it’s just running around the world or shopping. They all the same and you can’t leave them for that reason and then get another one with a different issue. Sometimes you have to pick your poison but it’s ok, we just in here venting about it. None of these women are perfect
@The ADD

 

[The ADD]

Even the homebodies like to go out to dinner as much as possible. And if it’s not dinner it’s just running around the world or shopping. They all the same and you can’t leave them for that reason and then get another one with a different issue. Sometimes you have to pick your poison but it’s ok, we just in here venting about it. None of these women are perfect
@The ADD

Perfect, no but they all don’t like to go out that much. But if you just venting to get through with it so be it, so be it.

 

[PoorAndDangerous]

bytch in comment said she’s ok with continuing leaving dudes if boring.

So, she’ll keep getting in honeymoon phases and getting fukked. Then leave when bored and do it again.

fukk these hoes.

Think of it from a woman POV, you can always go back to tinder and pull the slot reel and see what comes out. Even if you’re a good natured woman but maybe you’ve been in some bad relationships, as soon as there is a challenge in the relationship to work through what is the motivation for them? Unless you’re super rich or knocking them out with your dikk they’re going back to pulling the slot reel. I’ve heard from so many women that they’re looking for someone to “make them happy”. Ridiculous notion—go back to therapy.

 

[Jasonmask]

Some of the old and new homies I have that actually pull some are out every night. My old homie would have plays set up before they arrived this mf would tell me how they would want to be constantly doing something and they would like us and he was right he had a science behind the method

 

[PoorAndDangerous]

Some of the old and new homies I have that actually pull some are out every night. My old homie would have plays set up before they arrived this mf would tell me how they would want to be constantly doing something and they would like us and he was right he had a science behind the method

bruh, its not about getting p*ssy anymore. we trying to have real ass relationships, not manipulate some hoes into getting laid

 

[The ADD]

bruh, its not about getting p*ssy anymore. we trying to have real ass relationships, not manipulate some hoes into getting laid

 

[Nokids]

it's the WORST when u take them to a restaurant and start ordering hella drinks on top of paying for a meal. there's a reason I NEVER order alcohol from sit down restaurants. its cuz two drinks cost more than your entire meal. plus those cocktails ain't gonna even have me tipsy. my girl LOVES to order 2 or 3 drinks each time we go out, I'm like

we can have a drink later when we get to my crib, where the alcohol is already purchased and free.

Not gonna front, I started fukking with shorties that don’t smoke/ drink as much as I do. shyt saves you so much $$$

I do like women that smoke and drink still, ain’t nothing like when they pull up with bud/ a bottle

 

[Nokids]

bruh, its not about getting p*ssy anymore. we trying to have real ass relationships, not manipulate some hoes into getting laid

I feel this 100% a nikka does not want a relationship anytime soon but having one dope ass girl is worth 5 of these hoes. The only thing is it’s so much easier to fukk than to find a wife.

 

[PoorAndDangerous]

I feel this 100% a nikka does not want a relationship anytime soon but having one dope ass girl is worth 5 of these hoes. The only thing is it’s so much easier to fukk than to find a wife.

Once you passed a certain age getting p*ssy ain’t a big deal. Having a girl you can connect with, chill, do shyt with & fukk is way more important, and way harder to find.

 

[badboys11]

Sounds like y'all are just choosing incompatible partners. People who like to do stuff should be with people who like to do stuff. If you like to sit on the couch and are a homebody, there are plenty of women who like to do that too. I guess the real problem is how do you meant homebodies if they aren't out or willing to go out? lol. So maybe they need a homebody app just for that crowd.

Homebody women #1 are homebodies, they can be hard to meet. Just because they a homebody doesn't mean they sit at home by themselves regardless of what they tell u


U have to deal with the previous boyfriends who she let's slide through when she's bored. U think someone can't be at your place while u at work? Or her place when u not there?

Plenty of men living in lala land thinking they women asking what time they coming home from work cause she cares, no she needs to know what time the other man has to go.

I've told a man his homebody girlfriend had somebody at home when he was at work, not only was I right but she sent him to her so called "real" man work looking for employment.

I know homebodies with 3 kids and none of them belong to the man paying the bills

Ive seen homebodies tricking for spending money when they man at work

That choose better nonsense doesn't apply in america, the girls here don't build u up and make your life easier. They drain you of resources and then they will get bored and replace u with another host.

 

[PoorAndDangerous]

Homebody women #1 are homebodies, they can be hard to meet. Just because they a homebody doesn't mean they sit at home by themselves regardless of what they tell u


U have to deal with the previous boyfriends who she let's slide through when she's bored. U think someone can't be at your place while u at work? Or her place when u not there?

Plenty of men living in lala land thinking they women asking what time they coming home from work cause she cares, no she needs to know what time the other man has to go.

I've told a man his homebody girlfriend had somebody at home when he was at work, not only was I right but she sent him to her so called "real" man work looking for employment.

I know homebodies with 3 kids and none of them belong to the man paying the bills

Ive seen homebodies tricking for spending money when they man at work

That choose better nonsense doesn't apply in america, the girls here don't build u up and make your life easier. They drain you of resources and then they will get bored and replace u with another host.

crazy thing is since I was raised with very strong female presence, my mom, grandma, two sisters, I was raised to treat women extremely well, and it has never paid off. I'm attracted to strong, intelligent females. These progressive women act like they want a progressive man, but deep down inside they seem to just want something that doesn't exist, a progressive man who will also be dominant and slut them out like they're merely sex objects. But if you were to speak to them as such in day to day life they'd be disgusted. I'm not actively pursuing but I am absolutely DONE with dating progressive / liberal women. Give me a catholic Latina any day of the week. A good woman will build you up, motivate you and support you. I felt like I was walking on eggshells with my last woman, afraid to make a joke that may offend her progressive ideals. Meanwhile I was the first nikka in her fukking LIFE to buy her flowers and she's 34 years old.

 

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[J.E.T.S]

it's the WORST when u take them to a restaurant and start ordering hella drinks on top of paying for a meal. there's a reason I NEVER order alcohol from sit down restaurants. its cuz two drinks cost more than your entire meal. plus those cocktails ain't gonna even have me tipsy. my girl LOVES to order 2 or 3 drinks each time we go out, I'm like

we can have a drink later when we get to my crib, where the alcohol is already purchased and free.

Gotta get her drunk before you leave. I keep a bottle of Don Reposado and Casa on deck. They be dosing off otw to eat. They sober up a little after eating and by the time you make it home she’s horny. Sex and sleep.

 

[KidJSoul]

Reading shyt like this gives me PTSD and takes me back in time to when I was younger and tolerated women’s bullshyt with indifference and a dismissive “that’s just how women are” response instead of having dignity and valuing my time, serenity and peace of mind like the current, older, more mature me does now. Women are perpetually dissatisfied and bytching about something. They’re grown ass children, literally. They lack life perspective and need to be constantly stimulated and entertaineded. They have a hedonistic nature to constantly rack up “experiences“ and material possessions (via your dime, of course). They don’t have an appreciation for stillness and health and being debt free and quiet nights and shyt like men do as we age and gain clarity and maturity of what’s REALLY important in this simulation we call life. Just constant chaos and bullshyt. I made the decision to walk away from dating and trying to build with a woman around five years ago and have never been more content. At this stage in my life they are an unwanted and unneeded distraction from my growth and goals at this point…can’t see myself EVER being in another relationship again unless I meet someone TRULY unique and special. At this point, with the advent of social media influence and the scarcity of truly good women left, that seems highly unlikely and improbable

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I got into it with my chick because she wanted me to drive her to her appointment just so she can say we did something together. Her appointment is an hour away and we been driving around all weekend. I tell her I thought about it and decided not to go and she made it seem like I broke a 30 year promise to her.

This appointment had zero to do with me and I make sure to do shyt with her. They are very fukking selfish with how they think you should spend your time. Anything that isn’t doing something with them is you wasting your life away, it’s like you can’t just have fun doing nothing without them because they have no fukking hobbies other than social media and talking on the phone

Its usually 2 things:

1) with all the expectations they have of men, they know deep down they dont have much to offer. So they feel insecure in silence and constantly want reassurance by making you spend all your time and money on her

2) they think little of you and think their presence is a gift and you dont offer anything intrinsic. So you must spend time and money on her to make yourself useful