Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

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Man...this is straight facts. I’m a homebody, but I like to travel too. My wife tried that “You don’t ever want to do anything” shyt. She’s a housewife (a good one, too), so I kind of understood what she was saying being cooped up in the house all day everyday. She just be wanting to go on car rides, take the kids to a park or go to the Michoacana and shyt.
But I hit her with the :ufdup:

I had to explain to her that I’m not a damn machine. I’m away from the house most of the day, so when I’m home, I want to chill AT HOME. On my off days, I’m trying to kick it at the crib, not run the streets all day. Only time I’m leaving is if it’s to the gym or BJJ, and then I’m going right back home.

We travel at least 3-4 times a year. Road trips, fly out of the country, and that doesn’t even include little “weekend trips”. I had to remind her about those things. I don’t want to hear any of that “let’s go somewhere” mess all of the time.

She hasn’t mentioned it again. I stay at home, drink Hennessy, work in my garden, play video games, watch movies, spend time with the kids, and browse TheColi in peace.
:myman:

I’ll go places and do shyt, but not all of the damn time.
I feel u. This is one of the many reasons why I don't wanna wife a woman wanna be a stay at home mom. They can get bored being at home all day then u gotta entertain them when u get home from being at work all day. It can be really irritating if u work a mentally and/or physically taxing job then gotta go home and entertain ur wife and take her out all night.

But props to u for taking care of all the bills and shyt.
 

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I write, workout, cook/bake and travel...occasionally I sew. This year I plan on taking up poker as well...

LOL. Listen, why try the okie doke? Just say you don't have any and go get some.
 

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my girl isn't like that which is great, she's perfectly content to just chill with me all day more often than not

EDIT: that said we do go out and do stuff often
 
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Social media & reality tv is the new female peer pressure tactic remember when women was kind of simple less super ficial right before ig dropped:wow:
True....some want that Real Housewives, BBall Wives and Love and Hip Hop lifestyle where u got them dolled and GQ'ed up in trendy outfits going to clubs, bars and social events all the times with drinks and tons of excitement and drama.
 

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How cliché :mjlol: If I only had a dollar everytime is see women post this... Also working out, cooking, sewing and traveling are regular things. I dare you to post some of your "writing" too:mjlit:
Right...when there are tons of people who can’t write, tell me how many women you know born after 1980 who actually sew, I know people who can’t cook to save their lives and don’t know the first thing about baking...and then y’all dudes consider gaming a hobby FOH.

And working out is a hobby, it occupies an hour of my day everyday, given that only 1/4 16% of americans own a gym membership, I’d say for those who workout regularly, that’s a hobby.
 
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And y'all see why they go for the dope boys..
These niggsz got all kinds of time and fast money to do a bunch of retarded shyt.
Yall niggsz need to learn to stop writing these females up...
Ask yourself, how the fukk does doing that help me... how?
 

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LOL. Listen, why try the okie doke? Just say you don't have any and go get some.
Ok...except my writing is on the Internet, my IG is filled with travel and my cooking, the curtains hanging in my house are proof of sewing (as is my old bed set), plenty posters here can testify to my working out...so, try again.
 
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