I feel u. This is one of the many reasons why I don't wanna wife a woman wanna be a stay at home mom. They can get bored being at home all day then u gotta entertain them when u get home from being at work all day. It can be really irritating if u work a mentally and/or physically taxing job then gotta go home and entertain ur wife and take her out all night.Man...this is straight facts. I’m a homebody, but I like to travel too. My wife tried that “You don’t ever want to do anything” shyt. She’s a housewife (a good one, too), so I kind of understood what she was saying being cooped up in the house all day everyday. She just be wanting to go on car rides, take the kids to a park or go to the Michoacana and shyt.
But I hit her with the
I had to explain to her that I’m not a damn machine. I’m away from the house most of the day, so when I’m home, I want to chill AT HOME. On my off days, I’m trying to kick it at the crib, not run the streets all day. Only time I’m leaving is if it’s to the gym or BJJ, and then I’m going right back home.
We travel at least 3-4 times a year. Road trips, fly out of the country, and that doesn’t even include little “weekend trips”. I had to remind her about those things. I don’t want to hear any of that “let’s go somewhere” mess all of the time.
She hasn’t mentioned it again. I stay at home, drink Hennessy, work in my garden, play video games, watch movies, spend time with the kids, and browse TheColi in peace.
I’ll go places and do shyt, but not all of the damn time.
But props to u for taking care of all the bills and shyt.