Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[Wild self]

Let’s be clear, that new dinner dress they bought, wasn’t got to impress their man.

Always prospecting to a newER man

 

[Wild self]

its because more often than not, they are not the one footing the bill

nikkas spend so much time and money planning dates, paying for them, and orchestrating the logistics that when we get a girlfriend we just want to chill and reap on that investment.

meanwhile women just wanna leech off nikkas, show off and feel like theyre getting something out of yalls relationship,

And that shyt is annoying as hell

Its like, we gotta be some funboy shyt while paying for everything, while a lot of the attention whoring broads take it for granted. That is why I want to marry a homebody that works out often. None of this going out, smoking hookah, constantly wanting to turn up like some high school student, and traveling.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Always prospecting to a newER man

In fairness, 9/10, it’s to shyt on compete with other women. But depending on how “content” they are, they will be advertising to potential upgrades too.

 

[The ADD]

Keep’em as FWB and save yourself the headache.

Ain’t that complicated gents

 

[Ohene]

And that shyt is annoying as hell

Its like, we gotta be some funboy shyt while paying for everything, while a lot of the attention whoring broads take it for granted. That is why I want to marry a homebody that works out often. None of this going out, smoking hookah, constantly wanting to turn up like some high school student, and traveling.

that is definitely ideal

there is a very limited number of women capable or willing to actually think about what it is that they do, and why they do it rather than just follow what their feelings, instincts or culture tell them to do.

thats why they always referring to social media, their friends, tv, etc for exemplars of what a relationship is supposed to be like.

women are literal parasites. i love them to death, but they will consume everything out of you if you let them, with no regard for whats left. money, time, energy, emotion, cum you name it.

 

[Ahadi]

In fairness, 9/10, it’s to shyt on compete with other women. But depending on how “content” they are, they will be advertising to potential upgrades too.

Yup

“I want to show you off”

 

[Ohene]

Yeah if only but problem is....how do u find them?

An attractive introverted woman that's low-key is like finding a unicorn out here. It's so rare u actually try to make it work regardless of differences

I met a girl that was an INTJ at the gym recently and kicking it with her/ talking to her was extremely refreshing.
had me wondering if i really fukked up getting with my girl who is an ESTJ

 

[ThrobbingHood]

that is definitely ideal

there is a very limited number of women capable or willing to actually think about what it is that they do, and why they do it rather than just follow what their feelings, instincts or culture tell them to do.

thats why they always referring to social media, their friends, tv, etc for exemplars of what a relationship is supposed to be like.

women are literal parasites. i love them to death, but they will consume everything out of you if you let them, with no regard for whats left. money, time, energy, emotion, cum you name it.

That’s why it’s important to find a woman who reads. It’s highly unlikely they’ll have ADHD, they’ll have a level depth beyond social media and reality TV… and most of all, they’ll be content with a book and you as company at home.

There’s nothing more relaxing than sitting at home in the evening and both of us just chilling and reading. Now I think about it, it starts at home. I always saw my parents reading more than watching the idiot box.

Someone once: “never trust someone whose tv is bigger than their bookshelf.”

 

[Ohene]

Even when you give in and take em out they still be extra. I try not to pay it no mind but it really drives me crazy when we go out for dinner and my girl always make us wait before we eat so she Take a picture of the food and post it. We already had wait 20 minutes for the food to come to the table and now you want to hit me with this bullshyt

sigh. i had to tell my girl that if i take her out she gets a max two pictures and better leave her phone in her purse for the rest of the night

once we walking down a street en route to a movie and this girl wanna pull her phone out and snapchat us walking with her phone in my face. I damn near heisman'd the girl as a reflex. shyt is annoying as hell

nikkas will be walking only to realize this girl is ten steps back stopping to take a picture

these women are birds nowadays

 

[DropTopDoc]

They believe going out is the currency to their p*ssy, so if you not going out you aren’t earning the p*ssy, plus you know they want to put on an outfit take pics and not talk about anything

 

[Ohene]

They believe going out is the currency to their p*ssy, so if you not going out you aren’t earning the p*ssy, plus you know they want to put on an outfit take pics and not talk about anything

exactly

 

[Hersh]

the flags r always there too.. just gotta make sure what to look for...

but some guys need this too..

 

[ORDER_66]

Bump.

New joint I’m talking to feels the need to go out all the time.

Doesn’t want to be “cooped up”

Even today, I’m like “there’s a cold front, it’s 10 degree weather”



Her: “It’s not that cold”

But like other posters said, they want to be seen & get off on the attention. (Whether it’s you as a couple or just her) They need spontaneity & randomness all on your dollar.

10 degrees isnt cold???

 

[Wild self]

& other women feed off of that like overgrown children



Talking about “I’m missing out of life”



No you’re not. Summer & travel ain’t going anywhere. It’s like investing & playing the long game is hard for them to process.

Extroverted women are not meant to be wifed.

 

[Chrishaune]

Extroverted women are not meant to be wifed.

I won't say that, but it will more than likely take an introverted guy so that it balances out.