Why Is Melyssa Ford Not Married

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This might sound lame but i feel it boils down to a combination of ford having a particular type of man that most dont fit the bill for and men are insecure or afraid to be with a woman like them. I know nikkas gonna act macho about it but in reality dudes really be worried when tryna court a empowered woman. I know alot of pretty women like ford who biggest complaint is men are just scared to approach or build with them
 

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This might sound lame but i feel it boils down to a combination of ford having a particular type of man that most dont fit the bill for and men are insecure or afraid to be with a woman like them. I know nikkas gonna act macho about it but in reality dudes really be worried when tryna court a empowered woman. I know alot of pretty women like ford who biggest complaint is men are just scared to approach or build with them
I wish this was true but she's a regular boper from Toronto she was a thot before she ever crossed the border and got famous.. I know a Dominican breh that used to pipe her down.

Her value is inflated
 

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I wish this was true but she's a regular boper from Toronto she was a thot before she ever crossed the border and got famous.. I know a Dominican breh that used to pipe her down.

Her value is inflated
If i was within her acceptable bracket of men i would wife it regardless her history. :yeshrug:.but shouts to your dominican breh for piping her. I think she a coo ass bytch to be honest.
 

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I wish this was true but she's a regular boper from Toronto she was a thot before she ever crossed the border and got famous.. I know a Dominican breh that used to pipe her down.

Her value is inflated

What did you win by posting this :stopitslime:

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This might sound lame but i feel it boils down to a combination of ford having a particular type of man that most dont fit the bill for and men are insecure or afraid to be with a woman like them. I know nikkas gonna act macho about it but in reality dudes really be worried when tryna court a empowered woman. I know alot of pretty women like ford who biggest complaint is men are just scared to approach or build with them

She not married because she don't offer a rich dude anything but looks,
 

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This might sound lame but i feel it boils down to a combination of ford having a particular type of man that most dont fit the bill for and men are insecure or afraid to be with a woman like them. I know nikkas gonna act macho about it but in reality dudes really be worried when tryna court a empowered woman. I know alot of pretty women like ford who biggest complaint is men are just scared to approach or build with them

Scared of a woman? Real life isn't the Coli.com my man. That is the biggest cop-out for women who have something wrong with them. The spin on the age old, men can't handle me because I am a strong empowered woman?

Empowered? LOL. Where is your Fortune 500 company strong empowered woman? Everyone takes orders from someone in life. Women like this have ZERO value beyond their looks because believe me if they did, SOMEONE would have wifed already.

Men biologically respect strength so why exactly would a man FEAR rather than respect a strong woman? Do you even think before you type things out?

Yall gotta stop putting damaged goods back on the high parts of the shelf.
 

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Scared of a woman? Real life isn't the Coli.com my man. That is the biggest cop-out for women who have something wrong with them. The spin on the age old, men can't handle me because I am a strong empowered woman?

Empowered? LOL. Where is your Fortune 500 company strong empowered woman? Everyone takes orders from someone in life. Women like this have ZERO value beyond their looks because believe me if they did, SOMEONE would have wifed already.

Men biologically respect strength so why exactly would a man FEAR rather than respect a strong woman? Do you even think before you type things out?

Yall gotta stop putting damaged goods back on the high parts of the shelf.
:yeshrug:. Just sharing what many women I know perceive to be the case for why they can't find a man and I applied the possibility to Ford, I don't know this women background or know her personally so like yall saying she could be damaged goods through and through like you said but to ignore the possibility that men are scared or intimated around woman isn't asinine as you making it seem. Dudes get insecure when they get around a woman with a reputation and independence because they can't control em the same as a women on a lower level. Just saying.
 

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:yeshrug:. Just sharing what many women I know perceive to be the case for why they can't find a man and I applied the possibility to Ford, I don't know this women background or know her personally so like yall saying she could be damaged goods through and through like you said but to ignore the possibility that men are scared or intimated around woman isn't asinine as you making it seem. Dudes get insecure when they get around a woman with a reputation and independence because they can't control em the same as a women on a lower level. Just saying.

I respect that.

I would just say that most men that she values, are men of high esteem and worth. Those men will not pedestalize her because the veil has been lifted.

The men who she considers beneath her would say things like they are intimidated or insecure. She would not date those men because to her, she knows that her value is a farce. Beauty is subjective. Talent and intelligence to some degree are as well, but at the very least, they hold a bit more weight in choosing positive characteristics in mate selection.

Nobody is looking at the gold necklace on the floor and stepping over it, calling it worthless. In this statement, I am not calling her worthless either; however, I am simply stating that for the men that she is attracted to, they are not going to bother wasting time entertaining someone like her.

The man that she want's is THAT DUDE and he is a go-getter because he knows that fear is irrational. However, he also knows that a woman of value has something to bring to the table. His view of fear of dealing with a quality woman would not be the fear of getting with her or keeping her but the fear of the possible things they can do together.
 
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