There's a condition for ex military forget what it's called
But many of them have difficult time readjusting to

civilian life
Could be from getting regular 9 to 5 and taking orders
To constant suspicions
just host of other day to day things they where built for more not just a mundane way of life.
I translate this to some females like the afore mentioned Ms. Ford
After being in the industry long as she has bein ran thru by host of industry dudes
Her perception of Men and relationships can be skewed
She is built for war
But wants a regular family,
It wont take place by chance nor from without
She will have to change within to attain the life she seeks without