Why is promiscuity seen as power by a number of women over everything else?

[SunZoo]

Yep its a camouflage for a lack of power. Paul Mooney had a saying how black folks talked shyt because they had no power so they tried to develop a way of almost pretending they had power with their words.

But as Paul said in the big scheme of things them words really had no power. He mentioned how all day a black person can tell a white person that they were gonna harm them. But the white person knows they really ain't gonna do shyt cause the white person is the one with power. Where as if the white person said they were going to harm you....you know it is a legit threat cause they can kill you and literally get away with it (with state and government behind them).

" Don't you know a wet p*ssy and a dry purse don't match" - Paul Mooney

 

[Originalman]

Dont forget the fact that you need double of everything, which this economy is based on debt so it only grows when people spend more.. If everyone is individual instead of coupled up, you need double the housing, transportation, beds, tvs, fridge, appliances, EVERY DAM THING.. It makes more sense to fuel the "gender war" heck it might be paid actors or bots making that shyt up to control narrative.. Go girl, you dont need no man, you can do it all by yourself, go to work and buy all this shyt to feel better about yourself, enjoy the hedonistic treadmill like everyone else, pay your shyt by the first

Nothing but the truth breh on all of this! I mentioned this on another thread..on another note I even mentioned to some of the married sisters on here over the years like to sista @HarlemHottie how its hustling backwards when women live with men and play house then be talking about not wanting to be married (all the stuff that has been pushed the last 3 decades).

So you playing house living with someone paying bills with them for years. But you ain't getting none of the protection through marriage from the state which was made to protect you (in terms of ensuring you receive a portion of spouses assets and the financial benefits of bearing children with them). That shyt like working at a job for years and not enrolling in the company 401K to get the 4% or 5% salary matching free money every year.

 

[Originalman]

" Don't you know a wet p*ssy and a dry purse don't match" - Paul Mooney

My mother in-law use to say that shyt all the time to my sister in-law. She was one of these independent women (well until she needed money and went running to momma and daddy to pay her bills). Talking about how she don't need a man and such but for some dikk (running the streets sleeping around and messing with all types of dudes).

Then when she was broke needing her car fixed or short on her rent my mother in-law would call her out and say "a wet p*ssy and dry purse don't match". My mother in-law is a woman who doesn't stay in her adult kids business unless they come begging then she gonna check you on why you begging for money for simple shyt....now I got to get in your business (which I have no issue with). You claim you an adult and your parents need to stay out your business. Why you 35 years old begging for 300 dollars to get your brakes on your car done. Now its time to ask why you ain't got 300 bucks.

 

[SunZoo]

@SunZoo what are the famous men in the past and present who pursued and acquired power largely to get lots of p*ssy? What specific famous men can you say this applies to?

The power of the P U S S Y
That's why nikkas get they hair cut and try to dress fly
Every baller that can afford it he cop the best ride
For the power of the p*ssy - Jay Z

In other words, like any other mammal, men's actions are very driven by mating selection across the board. Isn't that what the entire goof ass "high value man" philosphy is built on? Gaining as much material power as you can to get into the small percentage of men that have a semblance of the power of choice that women naturally have? Unless they're doing it for other men....

 

[serial]

Why would they tell the truth when that would worsen their prospects? Lol women lie for no reason so of course they’ll lie for their benefit.

Agreed but then that would indicate they are ashamed of their ways which is contrary to what feminism is. If you have a problem being judged for who you truly are maybe you need to make changes.

 

[3rdWorld]

The puss is all many of them have to offer, so they use it to gain power..

 

[serial]

Because men will find one way or another to throw a fit about how much control they don't have over the situaiton.

If they fukking too much for their own pleasure it's an issue.
If they fukk too soon it's an issue.
If they take too long to give up the p*ssy it's an issue.

I can go on with the conflicts of interest, bottom line is, leave it up men they're going to find themselves in a lose lose situation more often than not.



Information is power fam. You want random bytches to put a sticker on their shirt that tells you how many men they been with? Nobody owes you intel off the bat, that's something you offer when someone has proven they can be trusted.

If we are talking empowerment I believe that accountability for your decisions has to be part of that - if you had 17 trains ran on you and it made you feel empowered then why not disclose that info.

Trust would be assumed if a relationship was in the process of becoming serious - perfect time to disclose if you ask me.

 

[Rozay Oro]

let them be, I encourage it. Makes spotting the red flags way easier.

 

[Peter Popoff]

Laws of attraction.

Stop harping on sexually promiscuous women and focus on increasing your value daily.

Stop being a bitter bytch from the tainted hoes that you've encountered.

Just charge it to the game and k.i.m. I learned that as I got older.

Then again, I'm too old for this shyt.

 

[Roid Jones]

I mean, women are overtaking men in education and have been for a while. There are more and more female leaders too.

That is true but it does not negate OP's point, I also find it interesting that some women refer to sexual promiscuity and placing themselves as objects of sexual adulation when it comes to freedoms

 

[Roid Jones]

I have no issue with women throwing their puss a party but will you be honest about your past with potential long term partners?

Why should women be honest when the prevailing notion is her body and what she does with it is none of a mans business

 

[Roid Jones]

The puss is all many of them have to offer, so they use it to gain power..

If that's the case why don't men seek women with more to offer?

 

[Jazzy B.]

Because Men have no problem fighting and killing for p*ssy

 

[ignorethis]

Agreed but then that would indicate they are ashamed of their ways which is contrary to what feminism is. If you have a problem being judged for who you truly are maybe you need to make changes.

Bro stop expecting ideological consistency from women, most of them aren’t capable of that.

90% of women can’t tell you what 3rd Wave feminism is yet every women is a “feminist” now.

A woman’s ideology is whatever is most beneficial to them at the moment.

 

[Scaaar]

My mother in-law use to say that shyt all the time to my sister in-law. She was one of these independent women (well until she needed money and went running to momma and daddy to pay her bills). Talking about how she don't need a man and such but for some dikk (running the streets sleeping around and messing with all types of dudes).

Then when she was broke needing her car fixed or short on her rent my mother in-law would call her out and say "a wet p*ssy and dry purse don't match". My mother in-law is a woman who doesn't stay in her adult kids business unless they come begging then she gonna check you on why you begging for money for simple shyt....now I got to get in your business (which I have no issue with). You claim you an adult and your parents need to stay out your business. Why you 35 years old begging for 300 dollars to get your brakes on your car done. Now its time to ask why you ain't got 300 bucks.

That's where I see a lot of the hustling backwards with some females out here. I have no problem with the sexual empowerment. I have benefited from it greatly. But it also puts a lot of women in bad positions trying to chase a certain lifestyle. There are a lot of beautiful bums out here that cannot support their lifestyle without a man picking up the tab. So in a sense it's a different type of enslavement by those type of women since they're still living off a man and his demands because they want access to his funds and lifestyle. But it's a life with diminished returns especially if they don't have an exit strategy because these men will just swap you out for someone younger or when they get bored. Now the only thing you have to show for it is material things