Illuminatos
#OVOXO
That shyt is looked down upon on the Coli. 
That shyt is as normal as fukk in real life.
That shyt is as normal as fukk in real life.
Why is raising another person kid or being a step dad
- Thread starter Cel 510 kid ados forever
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it all depends on the woman...
if it's a woman who been divorced or widow or even a woman who has 1 child with one dude who she been with for a long time and it didn't work out... I UNDERSTAND IF A DUDE COMES IN BEING A STEP DAD
now if it's one of these sewer/gutta rats who has no idea who the father is because she slept with nikkas in the booth and TLR and JBO then steppin in being a father is a bad idea....
if it's a woman who been divorced or widow or even a woman who has 1 child with one dude who she been with for a long time and it didn't work out... I UNDERSTAND IF A DUDE COMES IN BEING A STEP DAD
now if it's one of these sewer/gutta rats who has no idea who the father is because she slept with nikkas in the booth and TLR and JBO then steppin in being a father is a bad idea....
knickscity
Superstar
A man that is willing to be a stepfather actually should be applauded.
nikkas who date single mothers try their hardest to rationalize ther behavior...
Listen fam if u wanna take care of a womans bad decision...go ahead. Have fun. Just know u can do better.
Listen fam if u wanna take care of a womans bad decision...go ahead. Have fun. Just know u can do better.
Killigraphy
Banned
Some men are just naturally born simps, and can't do better than taking care of another dude's sperm. They settle right out the gate, so any easy in, is where they make their bed. Wouldn't even be bother to take care of spermies that weren't my own, especially given that they'll never truly respect you and said mother will use this against you. Its a lose/lose.
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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Yup
mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
That's the whole thing, shifting the focus of their own decision to blaming random men for not having someone in their life.
This implies that said breh is coming back to "finish the game."
Sticking with this analogy ... In the real world, sometimes the game ends when a kid is created. Sometimes, the game was never supposed to get to THAT level.
Anyway, to echo some sentiments in here, I think it's looked down upon because people see stepfathers as sweeping a woman's bad decision under the rug or absolving the woman of blame for fukking somebody she shouldn't have fukked. That's it, IMO. You can call a man a simp and all that, say he's doing too much, but what it boils down to is that we don't want to let women get away for making dumb decisions with their pussies when women would clown men for making similar decisions with their dikks. I guess stepmothers are looked down on like this too.
Alas ... maybe that will change when people realize that it's not about the female and the choices she made. It's about a child -- who didn't ask to be made or put on this earth -- needing guidance from someone who has what it takes to be a role model/parental figure.
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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Cel 510 kid ados forever
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you didnt even listen to patrice saying hes dating a single mother himself
RadaMillz
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zonnique isnt his daughterTiny has a child with someone else
I thought they were together since they were 13
they werent together for ome years when they were young
Would she have wanted you if she didn't have kids? 