Why is she so hot but then so cold?

[Dixon Cider]

If you are trying to keep this fire hot via social media, text or online it's not going to work.

You need to find an excuse to meet up with her again, period.

Thats the problem
She is actually busy but we all know how that goes... we make time for things we really want

 

[SheWantTheD]

She ain't really interested and there's another man.

 

[SheWantTheD]

This is what I did before and she came back around after some months, it's not like we haven't already sexed, I want to tell how I feel more in depth but i feel the risk of pushing her away is there, shes guarded

She's not guarded my nikka, she just ain't that into you and there's another enikka that probably just uses her for sex that's why she's back in your face. When she went cold on you, he probably started hitting her up again to hit that.

 

[neph27]

So a chick I really want to be involved with came back around into my life... and it was hot... the conversation, the quality time... her pouring out personal information( while leaving out things I thought she would mention) I played it cool had great time and we got intimate besides sexual which was due to time constraints. Next day she hit me up, next after we still talkin trying to make plans for next meet up as soon as possible because to be honest this seems like repeat behavior from the past and voila.... goes cold on me. How can you have such a deep feeling and connection and the person reciprocate they feel/have felt the same and reciprocate feelings you tell them you have. Then go so cold to the polar opposite where you don't even talk to them? Wtf

She got another man who she's serious with and while she was feeling you she doesn't wanna mess that up

that's it my g. Been there.

 

[Dixon Cider]

She got another man who she's serious with and while she was feeling you she doesn't wanna mess that up

that's it my g. Been there.

I believe this to be the answer to it all, especially judging from
The past( although we fukked a couple times)

the spark is strong and its both sides when we are hanging, I make her take a deep breath when i say something real that hits her hard and she is overcome with such interest. Really isn't a dull moment we talk deeply and she notices things about
Me and remembers but when its closing time I never know when I'll see her again

 

[AquaCityBoy]

She's not into you nikka. Move on.

 

[Dixon Cider]

She's not into you nikka. Move on.

Mighty confusing then

 

[ORDER_66]

Dont be Tom Brehs... Learn from Tom's mistakes and run...

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Mighty confusing then

There's nothing confusing at all. You already know this, but you're just wishing it weren't true.

You want it to be one way, but it's the other way.

 

[neph27]

I believe this to be the answer to it all, especially judging from
The past( although we fukked a couple times)

the spark is strong and its both sides when we are hanging, I make her take a deep breath when i say something real that hits her hard and she is overcome with such interest. Really isn't a dull moment we talk deeply and she notices things about
Me and remembers but when its closing time I never know when I'll see her again

Trust breh, I went through this same shyt with this one girl a few years ago. Was fully into it, turned out she was engaged to some dude. I found out and backed off when I found out she was pretty eventually even tho they weren't together. I eventually smashed but both of us are still inr relationships to this day but we still speak occasionally. The vibe is still there for sure but it ain't worth it

 

[Dixon Cider]

Trust breh, I went through this same shyt with this one girl a few years ago. Was fully into it, turned out she was engaged to some dude. I found out and backed off when I found out she was pretty eventually even tho they weren't together. I eventually smashed but both of us are still inr relationships to this day but we still speak occasionally. The vibe is still there for sure but it ain't worth it

The smash didnt happen last time even though I had bare cheeks in one hand and bare breasts in another, would have moved to the p*ssy instantly if I hadn't been shut down those previous times but I took it easy to warm up and see where she wanted this to go.

 

[Smokin Rider]

I went thru the same shyt a few months ago on the job. I work with a small crew and shorty was asking for my number when we met and askin if I had a girl etc. I gave her my number and she was sending me all these heart emojis and I was being a lil cold cause she was 18 and I was 27 and unsure if I wanted to proceed, I told her let's just be friends for now. Well I started catching feelins for the bytch as time went on and she got colder. It all came to a head when I picked her up at her house after work (3am) and brought her to my crib I start giving her a back massage and she's moaning talkin about "omg how are you so good at this". So l went a lil lower and started feeling on that ass, and she stops me and said "whoa, I thought you just wanted to be friends, what did you think was gonna happen". I said "what did you thing was gonna happen when you're at my crib at 3am askin for a back massage?" She said some shyt about she has a bf now

I had to give her a ride home afterwards and shyt was silent af.

I didn't say shyt cause either gotta work with her everyday but I was thinking bytch if you got a man (which was true) wtf are you doing at my crib at 3am? Now I've gone back to being cold to her, I told her not to text me no more, and that lasted a week before the "wyd" texts started popping up again.

 

[WaveGang]

Been in a similar position... She just ain't that into you bruh. Just bush it.

You smashed already so leave with somewhat of a win intact.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I believe this to be the answer to it all, especially judging from
The past( although we fukked a couple times)

the spark is strong and its both sides when we are hanging, I make her take a deep breath when i say something real that hits her hard and she is overcome with such interest. Really isn't a dull moment we talk deeply and she notices things about
Me and remembers but when its closing time I never know when I'll see her again

Women are dumb. They claim Men are stupid but they are more willing to give up a good thing for a dumb reason than we are.

I went thru the same shyt a few months ago on the job. I work with a small crew and shorty was asking for my number when we met and askin if I had a girl etc. I gave her my number and she was sending me all these heart emojis and I was being a lil cold cause she was 18 and I was 27 and unsure if I wanted to proceed, I told her let's just be friends for now. Well I started catching feelins for the bytch as time went on and she got colder. It all came to a head when I picked her up at her house after work (3am) and brought her to my crib I start giving her a back massage and she's moaning talkin about "omg how are you so good at this". So l went a lil lower and started feeling on that ass, and she stops me and said "whoa, I thought you just wanted to be friends, what did you think was gonna happen". I said "what did you thing was gonna happen when you're at my crib at 3am askin for a back massage?" She said some shyt about she has a bf now

I had to give her a ride home afterwards and shyt was silent af.

I didn't say shyt cause either gotta work with her everyday but I was thinking bytch if you got a man (which was true) wtf are you doing at my crib at 3am? Now I've gone back to being cold to her, I told her not to text me no more, and that lasted a week before the "wyd" texts started popping up again.

Could not imagine being dependent on a car for situations exactly like this. I would commit that if I had to drive an 18 year old THOT back home after some BS like that.

 

[Smokin Rider]

Women are dumb. They claim Men are stupid but they are more willing to give up a good thing for a dumb reason than we are.



Could not imagine being dependent on a car for situations exactly like this. I would commit that if I had to drive an 18 year old THOT back home after some BS like that.

Luckily it was a 10 minute drive but felt like an eternity.