*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Done.
It just seems like in society in general, white males can be as perverted and as promiscuous wth many other women as possible and it's tolerated, celebrated and made to seem natural and normal. Whereas (to quote @Disciple of the Projects ) a black man can't even attempt to have a heterosexual relationship with a woman of any race (even his own) without it being dissected a million ways by other people.
Whenever a black man has a relationship with a non-black woman, that black man is seen as "self-hating" or "he can't get with a black woman" or "he's a c00n" or has some sort of negative quality.
There are so many double standards that are presented to black men when it comes to relationships from non-black women that aren't presented to other races of men it's mind boggling. Like literally, when it comes to what women find comfortable and acceptable when it comes to "submitting" to anything sexual...they draw the line with US. It's like they would do certain things with other races of men, but when it comes to US they're not even giving us a HUG.
Other races of men get more of a pass for dating their daughters except US. Even the most "politically correct", "progressive" and "liberal" minded families have problems/unspoken issues with their daughters dating or having any sort of relationship (even a friendly/non-sexual one) with black men.
There's this archetype and image of this hypersexual, uncivilized, animalistic, violent, and uncontrollable diseased black male that has been used to paint all black males as since "Birth of A Nation" as some rapist. I feel ike black men are painted as the prime embodiment of what a sexual predator and rapist is (even though statistics show that the vast majority of rapes are committed by white males) in this country. So whenever I see stories about some black man that gives AIDS/HIV to dozens of women (this story has appeared many times from the 80s to now in the news) I just have to take notion to this.
I'm not een going to mention all of these stories about how black men are "on the down low" and this speculation being thrown around about black men being gay because I find that another way the media and society tries to make the black man some weird sexual anomaly. Keep in mind, I have nothing against gay people..I don't know what it's like to be gay, cause I'm not...I have met black gay men who have voiced their feelings when it comes to race and sex...but I have seen this unfair and weird comparison come up as a product of straight white society's desire to throw what they consider as "undesirables" all in the same category.
Anyways, I can't keep silent about this anymore.
Whenever a black man has a relationship with a non-black woman, that black man is seen as "self-hating" or "he can't get with a black woman" or "he's a c00n" or has some sort of negative quality.
There are so many double standards that are presented to black men when it comes to relationships from non-black women that aren't presented to other races of men it's mind boggling. Like literally, when it comes to what women find comfortable and acceptable when it comes to "submitting" to anything sexual...they draw the line with US. It's like they would do certain things with other races of men, but when it comes to US they're not even giving us a HUG.
Other races of men get more of a pass for dating their daughters except US. Even the most "politically correct", "progressive" and "liberal" minded families have problems/unspoken issues with their daughters dating or having any sort of relationship (even a friendly/non-sexual one) with black men.
There's this archetype and image of this hypersexual, uncivilized, animalistic, violent, and uncontrollable diseased black male that has been used to paint all black males as since "Birth of A Nation" as some rapist. I feel ike black men are painted as the prime embodiment of what a sexual predator and rapist is (even though statistics show that the vast majority of rapes are committed by white males) in this country. So whenever I see stories about some black man that gives AIDS/HIV to dozens of women (this story has appeared many times from the 80s to now in the news) I just have to take notion to this.
I'm not een going to mention all of these stories about how black men are "on the down low" and this speculation being thrown around about black men being gay because I find that another way the media and society tries to make the black man some weird sexual anomaly. Keep in mind, I have nothing against gay people..I don't know what it's like to be gay, cause I'm not...I have met black gay men who have voiced their feelings when it comes to race and sex...but I have seen this unfair and weird comparison come up as a product of straight white society's desire to throw what they consider as "undesirables" all in the same category.
Anyways, I can't keep silent about this anymore.
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