He was definitely misleading her in some sense, but he could have been misleading himself, too, and if he was, then I don't find it useful to demonize him for it, considering the environment that produces this behavior. Self-hating Black folks might or might not get a pass, depending on the circumstance. My whole point was that these are complicated psychological phenomena- even in the case of the self-hating Black folks, there are instances where it can't simply be said that they knew they were in the wrong, or were consciously misleading themselves about their beliefs.
I don't think he should be "demonized", but I don't think he should be given a pass either. Regardless of the reasoning it was not virtuous or heroic behavior, and it shouldn't be framed as such.



Thanks for confirming your a lowlife puzzybeggar who has to depend on deceit to get in panties...your posting is also kinda moist so you may be another"down low" brother who is living a lie
Damn your life must be so hard ...keeping track of the lies and bullshyt must take up so much of your mental resources..you must be so tired...
aiight nikka. Says who, you? That's the only woman you fukked in your life? You think there's a moral difference between gaming a broad to smash for a couple of months and gaming a broad over 8 years. Is timing not everything?
You dont even know me breh but trust me my charisma and personality ensure that i dont have to resort to lowlife tactics to get some 



Go get something to eat ...your blood sugar is low cos youre not making sense anymore