Why some girls can't accept that they just not attractive?

[Couth]

Well I & many others come across those frequently,I was just having a conversation about this with my sister the other day(who has also had conversations about this with her black female friends).

It's not necessarily about me giving a f*ck, it's more so about black women defending themselves.F*ck being quiet when black men degrade them for their skin tone.I'm more for a Malcome X approach than a Martin Luther King one.

So you generalize all black men because of the actions of a few weak ones? Makes sense.

i don't judge or attack black women because there is a few ratchets running around. .

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

I wanted you to stop generalizing and colorism honestly shouldn't be discussed..if some dark skin nikka doesn't like you cause you're dark skin who cares? That's life, not everyone is gonna like or find you attractive, go find a dark skin nikka who likes dark skin women.. this shyt is so stupid

Of course I know you don't think colorism should be discussed.

The only thing that should be discussed is how White men hold black men back in society & how White cops shoot black male youth.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

So you generalize all black men because of the actions of a few weak ones? Makes sense.

i don't judge or attack black women because there is a few ratchets running around. .

This is not a few, it's enough for them to be noticed.If it was such a "little," problem, there wouldn't be black men who feel like they have to go out their way to treat me like a token.A black man shouldn't have to f*cking confirm to me he appreciates women of my skin tone.WHAT???A black girl's skin tone???It's pathetic..

 

[Couth]

This is not a few, it's enough for them to be noticed.If it was such a "little," problem, there wouldn't be black men who feel like they have to go out their way to treat me like a token.A black man shouldn't have to f*cking confirm to me he appreciates women of my skin tone.WHAT???A black girl's skin tone???It's pathetic..

And now you're mad cuz a black man tries to tell you you're beautiful?

the trolls always talk the loudest. They don't speak for all black men. They don't speak for all men period.

if you always choose to focus on the negative you'll have a negative life. You getting on the internet and trying to debate over this bullshyt subject does nothing but feed the lames who're trying to troll you.

Find something positive to focus on. Move on with your life.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I never said that this was what most black men do,but the number of black men who do this is significant enough for it to be considered problematic.It is both accepted & tolerated for black men to sh*t on dark skin women in the black community.Who comes to their defense?No one.No,I'm not going to turn a blind eye & be like "but but but not all black men are like that."Black women should not allow black men to treat them in such a disgusting & degrading way.

The way Blakkk men view skin is disgusting.They will put a woman's whole entire value & worth on her skin tone,but these same black ass n*ggas don't want their skin tone to come into play when they are being judged by the world though.TRUTH.

I agree with the first paragraph. Sometimes I feel black women are too passive when dealing with self hating black men, ya'll could have really exposed some of these nikkas. Things are changing since black men are much more aware of how some of their views impact black womwn


2nd paragraph tho

Most black men are taught from an early age that we will be targeted and judged because of our skin color. Most of us love all black women, regardless of complexion, and value all of them equally. Stop generalizing all of us

 

[philmonroe]

I wanted you to stop generalizing and colorism honestly shouldn't be discussed..if some dark skin nikka doesn't like you cause you're dark skin who cares? That's life, not everyone is gonna like or find you attractive, go find a dark skin nikka who likes dark skin women.. this shyt is so stupid

Just shows you how delusional they are trying to strong arm people that don't like them into liking them

 

[thewiz]

Just shows you how delusional they are trying to strong arm people that don't like them into liking them

We just gotta let them cook and waste their time and energy with his dumb shyt bruh.. we've repeated ourselves enough times

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

And now you're mad cuz a black man tries to tell you you're beautiful?

the trolls always talk the loudest. They don't speak for all black men. They don't speak for all men period.

if you always choose to focus on the negative you'll have a negative life. You getting on the internet and trying to debate over this bullshyt subject does nothing but feed the lames who're trying to troll you.

Find something positive to focus on. Move on with your life.

I can say the same thing when it comes to how black men feel about white people.Why focus on the negative? Not all white people are like that.If you keep focusing on the "white trolls," your life will be negative. Not a day goes by where this forum does not obsess over white people.

I agree with the first paragraph. Sometimes I feel black women are too passive when dealing with self hating black men, ya'll could have really exposed some of these nikkas. Things are changing since black men are much more aware of how some of their views impact black womwn


2nd paragraph tho

Most black men are taught from an early age that we will be targeted and judged because of our skin color. Most of us love all black women, regardless of complexion, and value all of them equally. Stop generalizing all of us

I don't see this "change," & actually I think it's getting worse. & Black women are taught the same thing from an early age...& The treatment still should not be tolerated.

Just shows you how delusional they are trying to strong arm people that don't like them into liking them

It's not about making people who don't like you, like you.At this point it's about defending your dignity.I have a very "F*ck these n*ggas," mentality.I will respect a racist white man before I respect a b*tch nikka who talks bad about/look down on dark skin women.A black man like that is NOT my ally & not on "my," side," & he will be treated that way by me.

 

[Rue]

i've accepted it i've accepted that the only action i will receive is somebody poppin' my bellybutton

 

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fukk TLR

 

[semtex]

The ugliest chick can still get laid much easier than the most attractive man can

 

[iBrowse]

I accepted it a long time ago.

:dumbsmart:

 

[Mac Brown]

I accepted it a long time ago.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

The ugliest chick can still get laid much easier than the most attractive man can

Stop quoting this bullshyt ass myth because it ain't true

 

[iBrowse]

Keep doing the lords work