Why some girls can't accept that they just not attractive?

FLYINHAWAIIAN

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I'm not dark skinned but I DO have these problems. Any problems that affect other black women based on racism and bigotry is my problem.

that's kinda what I told that filibuster person. (I'm defending black people in general though).

He claimed light skin is looked at just as negative as dark skin.
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The dark skin thing is real. I've had countless guys say things to me about me being the darkest they would go. I'm a caramel color :dwillhuh: guys saying that oh she's cute, but she'd look better if she was light skinned, etc. Honestly I'm not dark skinned so I don't have those problems so I can't comment on them, but to brush it off like it doesn't exist is not facing reality.

On the original premise of this thread though :heh:. I can't comment either, I'm cute. Or at least my family and friends said I was :lupe:.



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This. I've had guys tell me that I'm really pretty "for a dark girl". Like, their rubric for attractiveness is actually different for different shades. That means in their eyes you have to be super-cute or pretty if you're dark, and just average if you're light. The standards for what's attractive seems to shift when it comes to color for a lot of folks.
 

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i used to think i was a hideous person. i just was really really disgustingly fat :yeshrug:.most people are at least 5/10 if they are in shape. looks are the most important thing in initial approaches and long term relationships. don't let these women/men fool you into thinking any differently. take it from someone who was 280 and dropped to 180. after that double chin went away and them cheekbones and jaw line started showing:blessed: it was a fukking wrap. the difference between how people treat you, both women and men is seriously pathetic. women constantly starting up convos with me about the dumbest shyt in hopes i would ask them out, instead of just keeping it real about what they really wanted. walk up to random women and say the most disrespectful/corniest things to them and still fukking them. women no longer kept "forgetting" my name in social events. actually started getting matches on tinder that weren't bots or escorts. 1 night stands. friends always asking you "where the bytches at" or " man i know you got the bytches" :rudy: fukk off i gotta bytches for me, not you.. or always trying to invite you on moves with them. nikkas no longer wanna leave girls they bring around me, especially while drinking/smoking.

cliffs- having a nice face>everything else.
 

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i used to think i was a hideous person. i just was really really disgustingly fat :yeshrug:.most people are at least 5/10 if they are in shape. looks are the most important thing in initial approaches and long term relationships. don't let these women/men fool you into thinking any differently. take it from someone who was 280 and dropped to 180. after that double chin went away and them cheekbones and jaw line started showing:blessed: it was a fukking wrap. the difference between how people treat you, both women and men is seriously pathetic. women constantly starting up convos with me about the dumbest shyt in hopes i would ask them out, instead of just keeping it real about what they really wanted. walk up to random women and say the most disrespectful/corniest things to them and still fukking them. women no longer kept "forgetting" my name in social events. actually started getting matches on tinder that weren't bots or escorts. 1 night stands. friends always asking you "where the bytches at" or " man i know you got the bytches" :rudy: fukk off i gotta bytches for me, not you.. or always trying to invite you on moves with them. nikkas no longer wanna leave girls they bring around me, especially while drinking/smoking.

cliffs- having a nice face>everything else.


Straight raw and incut truth :wow:


You just ethered the entire female sex,



women are like children :mjlol:
 

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the OP established in the thread he likes dark skin girls and even posted a dark skin girl he considered a dime..
what's your damn point? That refutes nothing I said.
Is he not the one who said "some of them just can't accept the fact that they are ugly and blame the shyt on be a certain skin tone"
So that statement applies to both light skinned and dark skinned women?:mjlol:
 
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