Why successful black men are a$$holes

[Yup]

Honestly in this day in age they shouldn't worry. They should get their own wealth and live a better non bitter life for those that are worried about that since its so silly.

I agree but what is @mamba is expecting is laughable to me considering what has been said on this site in reverse. People of all communities expect wealth to stay within the community and here we have black men saying that black women should be happy with men of their community choosing other to form families and pass on their wealth?

 

[mamba]

Beat the odds to look out for themselves. That's what you have a mother for. I can understand black women not being happy seeing black men wifing non black women.

Yes. I can understand it too if Black women are concerned about ALL Black men who date out, not just the ones who are successful and have money.

If you're just interested in the money, you're no different than the non-Black woman who wants the same thing.

Then, it's a matter of the Black men determining what's important to him: femininity, attitude, etc.

 

[Roid Jones]

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[mamba]

I agree but what is @mamba is expecting is expecting is laughable to me considering what has bern said on this site in the reverse. People of all communities expect wealth to stay within the community and here we have black men saying that black women should be happy with men of their community choosing other to form families.

Come on, @Yup . You're speaking on some Black Nationalist shyt.

Most Black women, when they see a successful Black man with a non-Black woman, aren't thinking about keeping money in the Black community.

They're thinking about money they didn't get to spend. Money that would be spent to enrich the white community via high-end purchases!

 

[Yup]

Those Black women can put in the hard work and build with other Black men who want to build, not wait for some Black Knight to sprinkle his wealth and upgrade her situation.

No one is saying sit around and be bitter. No community will be filled with glee with men sharing their wealth with people outside of it. Especially not, a community that is struggling financially. Its not a black women its a people thing.

 

[Yup]

Come on, @Yup . You're speaking on some Black Nationalist shyt.

Most Black women, when they see a successful Black man with a non-Black woman, aren't thinking about keeping money in the Black community.

They're thinking about money they didn't get to spend. Money that would be spent to enrich the white community via high-end purchases!

why do you belittle black women like this? I am telling you what you accuse black women is not typical of them alone, you will see that in all communities. Do you know how white women are like when they see one of their men showing interest to a non-white women?
The media plays up the ABW stereotype and y'all drink that up but let this be about black men being thugs and no good and we have theories of how the world os against the black man.

 

[Yup]

Those Black women can put in the hard work and build with other Black men who want to build, not wait for some Black Knight to sprinkle his wealth and upgrade her situation.

How many black women are waiting on black men to upgrade their situation versus making the best of their situation. Black women on average have not had the luxury of being taken care of by a man financially the way white women have. They have always worked...black women are one of the least spoiled women and are raised to think that no man going to take care of them.

You would have a point if black women were raised like 20th century white women /saudI women/indian women/chinese women.

 

[Yup]

Other communities have support systems the promote productive behavior among men.

The Black community rewards and celebrates non-productive behavior among Black men.

So, for one to beat the odds and all the negative programming, he has every right to relish in his own success.

Read what I said carefully. You have the right to be proud to have achieved but I am sorry but I do nor subscribe to the token negro mindset.

 

[Yup]

Those Black women can put in the hard work and build with other Black men who want to build, not wait for some Black Knight to sprinkle his wealth and upgrade her situation.

How many black women are waiting for a black knight? How maby black women sit expecting to be taken care of hand and foot. You've got the wrong race of women. And most of the women that ive seen complaining of wealthy black men marrying other...have more than two pennies to rub together their damn selves. Black women are not lazy women.

 

[Yup]

Yes. I can understand it too if Black women are concerned about ALL Black men who date out, not just the ones who are successful and have money.

If you're just interested in the money, you're no different than the non-Black woman who wants the same thing.

Then, it's a matter of the Black men determining what's important to him: femininity, attitude, etc.

Of course black women are concerned with black men in the day to day interactions who date out exclusively. What are you talking about @mamba?

 

[philmonroe]

why do you belittle black women like this? I am telling you what you accuse black women is typical of then alone, you will see in all communities. Do you know how white women are like when they see one of their men showing interest to a non-white woman? Y'all gave them too much credit.

I agree with bold and is mainly a sign a person has had limited experience with other groups and I really dislike that stuff. That's a people thing we might do it a little different culturally but we have a lot of similarities esp on stuff like that.

 

[Yup]

I agree with bold and is mainly a sign a person has had limited experience with other groups and I really dislike that stuff. That's a people thing we might do it a little different culturally but we have a lot of similarities esp on stuff like that.

I observe other races especially females and believe me they are more sly but very cutthroat when they see their 'best' interact with women of other races. People love to scapegoat black women because they are just more vocal (which I despise) but ive seen how chinese/korean/white/indian women go down they are not better on these type of things at times they are even worst. They just dont have the stigma of the angry/unwanted female that black women often have. People will generally pay more attention to the behaviours of people of their own sex so I get that. But there are a lot of delusions on here.

 

[philmonroe]

I observe other races especially females and believe me they are more sly but very cutthroat when they see their 'best' interact with women of other races. People love to scapegoat black women because they are just more vocal (which I despise) but ive seen how chinese/korean/white/indian women go down they are not better on these type of things at times they are even worst. They just dont have the stigma of the angry/unwanted female that black women often have. People will generally pay more attention to the behaviours of people of their own sex so I get that. But there are a lot of delusions on here.

Definitely agree I see it on here at times. I don't see it as often IRL outside of girls/guys being competitive anyway mainly in "meeting" type environments club, bar, that stuff. I just think in general we don't pay attention to what those that are the same sex do (unless a person gay) regarding this stuff but opposite sex better not step out of line.

 

[mamba]

No one is saying sit around and be bitter. No community will be filled with glee with men sharing their wealth with people outside of it. Especially not, a community that is struggling financially. Its not a black women its a people thing.

Yes. If that community supported those men as they worked to attain that wealth, they have every right to be angry.

The Black community isn't like other communities in that regard. Black people value the nikka trying to be a rapper or an athlete more than the Black man trying to be a doctor, engineer, etc.

 

[Yup]

Yes. If that community supported those men as they worked to attain that wealth, they have every right to be angry.

The Black community isn't like other communities in that regard. Black people value the nikka trying to be a rapper or an athlete more than the Black man trying to be a doctor, engineer, etc.

So your solution is to encourage black men to share their wealth with the race of women who continue to disenfranchise black people as a whole. Seems counter productive.