Why the hypocrisy between Latinas and black women when it comes to attitude?

[Family Lives Matter]

p*ssy is probably fire mind your own fukking business he's a grown man if he wants to catch round house kicks to the back of the head from some 3rd world immigrant let him

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

OP..

Your friend's wife having issues have nothing to do with her being Latina. Not all Latinas are monolithic. Not all Black women are monolithic.

Women with fukked up attitudes are such because they aren't emotionally mature, lack communication skills and is unwilling to resolve any issues that they may have accumulated from their past.

Seems like your homie married his wife for the wrong reasons, but that is his issue...

BTW, I wish people will stop calling someone the c-word just because said person happens to be in an IR relationship/marriage. Grow up! Smh...

This kind of rational and nuanced reply is not acceptable in TLR.


Negged.

 

[MaxPain]

As a latino I never understood that nor tolerated it bc I give all these bytches their money back plus the change if they try it.

 

[Koba St]

Q: How do we know Jesus wasn't Puerto Rican?

A: Because neither wise men or virgins exist there

 

[Hey_zeus]

Can't go against the angry person black troupe.

 

[TEH]

So I have a friend whose wife is from Venezuela and every time they argue she hits him throws things at him and curses him out. Then after phones him crying and says sorry that she is that way because she is a Latina and is fiery and feisty. The other day is was advising him and told him he is in a toxic relationship and that he isn’t setting a good example for his kids and the fool goes on to regurgitate her whole Latina excuse. I am looking at him like we all know that if it was a black woman that acted like that she would be labelled as ghetto and trash etc… So how come “Latinas” are allowed to use that “Oh I am Latina and am feisty and can’t be tamed” excuse? Shouldn’t they be equally labelled as trash and ghetto like in behaviour for acting out of line.

Slavery

 

[Hungerpain]

Everyone gets out of pocket sometimes.
Most Latinas(not from NYC) get mad like women.
BW get mad and get disrespectful and belligerent like nikkas in the street.
I don't know why yall always run to this "but but when Latinas do it yall call them spicy" shyt like yall making some type of point.

 

[Vilify]

Don't call it hypocrisy unless you can prove that the same men who criticize black women's shytty attitudes are tolerating the same from latinas. No self respecting man tolerates disrespect of any kind from a woman.

 

[KidJSoul]

Anti-blackness

Black women end up being hit the hardest out of all women

 

[BaggerofTea]

Idgaf about her being feisty or some other bs.

I don't deal with that bullshyt period

 

[African Peasant]

Because they have the exotic/feminine/sensual stereotype to compensate.

These two types of stereotypes neutralize each other.

 

[semicko82]

They also don’t get as much heat for babies out of wedlock.

Elephant in the room

 

[Wildhundreds]

Remember, Obama had to always be cool because he didn't want to be labeled the "angry black man"..

Black men and black women get labeled for having attitudes..

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

She pop shyt but apologizes

And the p*ssy is prolly fire like the other poster said

So she apologizing by giving him great dome, breaking off the yams and then he'll forget about it cause he ain't really trying to trade her in knowing that he can't easily replace her level so he willing to settle and deal with it

My BM is a mixed latina and we fought constantly in that way (that was mostly my fault though cause i was in the streets at that time)


And my recent ex-girl is black and it was a similar thing just not as frequent

And I agree with the exotic comment someone else made.. because the latina is a different breed it feels like you can more easily replace the black girl since black girls are everywhere and have less patience for her shyt.
And even though you're going through the same thing it just feels different because she's a different type of woman.

It's a mind fukk with colorism sprinkled in there somewhere but I would think different races go through this too.. white men with black women,
Asians, etc

 

[semicko82]

I think brehs put up with bullshyt from other races of women, but don't even look twice at black women suffer from internalized racism