But see, you're doing it too, subconsciously. So why stop at family and friends?
Do you even know EVERYTHING that your friends and family and friends have done in their past or even still doing in the present?
I's not secret on this site or sohh that I despise my own sister and often refer to her as a whore. Others will see me and because they dont know me will automatically associate her actions with ME even though i have nothing to do with it. It happens at the level of family, ethnicity, nationality, so on and so forth.
Like for example:
- Knowing that SOME Koreans eat dogs when you meet a korean person dont you, subconsciously in the back of your mind assume they do too?
- I'm Haitian and when people meet me they automatically assume I practice voodoo for some reason.
I'm dating this girl who i met on a dating site and she confessed to me that when she first saw my profile online that she had some reservations about me because she's a christian and her perception of haitians in general was that we all practice voodoo.
See what I'm saying? It's humans in general who do that