Why WOMEN DON'T APOLOGIZE: understanding the nature of the problem

[Who Not How]

I didn't watch the video but from my experience, women have a hard time apologizing because they believe how they felt during that particular moment justified their behavior and actions - whether right or wrong. How religion is taught in these Western churches also influences women (and men) to think they are justified in being wrong but that's another topic.

With that said, you can help a woman by holding her accountable from DAY 1. If she says something stupid, you point it out. If she is wrong in her behavior, you point it. You can never let disrespect slide.

Men have a bad habit of going along to get along with women in the early stages of meeting them because they want to bag her, reinforcing this behavior that will be trouble in the long run.

You also have to acknowledge when you are wrong. Women are more likely to hold themselves accountable if they see their man holds himself accountable. Acting like you are perfect and always right only influences your woman to exhibit the same behavior. Then after you - another man will have to deal with that.

 

[ORDER_66]

Women are more likely to hold themselves accountable if they see their man holds himself accountable.

 

[The Connoisseurs]

Give me any sign and I’m quick to ….

Some of the most painful yet best decisions I’ve made

 

[Vandelay]

My current lady is the first I've ever been with "officially" to ever apologize.

 

[Crude]

Women operate based on a range of emotions which are ever changing.

Apologizing requires accountability and most women that are fueled by emotions don’t like that type of accountability.

 

[Kal-El]

Every single breh on this forum needs to see this...

Why? You think I made the wrong move? I don't do well with disrespect breh...

 

[Afro]

@AquaCityBoy

Why you so mad
I thought it was an interesting topic

 

[skokiaan]

she may or may not verbalize that she’s sorry but her actions will show it.

/thread

 

[Afro]

I said it here before, I apologized to someone at the gym and ol boy acted like he saw a ghost lol That was when I realized a lot of women must not really apologize

Moms never did after destroying her room because I told her she shouldn't drive after having a seizure and coming home.
Dad forget it, I think I can count on one hand how many apologies I've gotten from either gender
This is an interesting topic

 

[Gloxina]

Moms never did after destroying her room because I told her she shouldn't drive after having a seizure and coming home.
Dad forget it, I think I can count on one hand how many apologies I've gotten from either gender
This is an interesting topic

That’s a parent thing. The familial hierarchy thing. Elders who think they don’t need to “answer to” anyone younger.


Trust, I had it out with my own parents when all the shyt they thought they were too good to apologize for starting spilling out

 

[maxamusa]

Accountability is tough for most. I'd say 50% of my "apologies" are empty anyway

 

[Ohene]

This video hit home for me on so many levels. I just got a divorce a month ago cuz she NEVER took accountability for anything. Never could say I'm sorry or I messed up. I left the house and everything in it. Told her I'm tired of ya fukkin attitude and you forced me 2 this. Said I be back in a couple of days and you need 2 call the bank and give me 150k so I can get myself and the kids situated. Left her ass standing at the door with my 2 kids.

Now I'm sleeping at moms couch for another 30 days until I can move in my new apartment

Every now and then she shoots me a text saying I need to come home. I usually respond nah I'm good. Good luck being a 38 year old single mom but last night I was bent and responded by saying see you in hell bytch

There's a lot of things I can tolerate but disrespect ain't one of em.

We’ve all been there bro
These women really aint shyt

 

[Wild self]

This video hit home for me on so many levels. I just got a divorce a month ago cuz she NEVER took accountability for anything. Never could say I'm sorry or I messed up. I left the house and everything in it. Told her I'm tired of ya fukkin attitude and you forced me 2 this. Said I be back in a couple of days and you need 2 call the bank and give me 150k so I can get myself and the kids situated. Left her ass standing at the door with my 2 kids.

Now I'm sleeping at moms couch for another 30 days until I can move in my new apartment

Every now and then she shoots me a text saying I need to come home. I usually respond nah I'm good. Good luck being a 38 year old single mom but last night I was bent and responded by saying see you in hell bytch

There's a lot of things I can tolerate but disrespect ain't one of em.

Now you understand why marriage rates are at historical lows. No one thinks of men's well being. These female posters claim that marriage laws in America are perdect the way they are.

 

[Suge Knight]

Fact is just depends on how much hoe shyt, you'll deal with as a man.

I'll die alone, before ill let someone disrespect, be ungrateful to me and put up with it just not to be alone

 

[Mr. Negative]

My mom once told me that's just embarassing to be wrong. Apologizing means you admit that you were wrong.

So the only person she feels she should ever apologize to is God, and he automatically forgives everything.

Meaning she feels she got carte blanche to do whatever trifling shyt that she constantly does.


I also lump this with how a lotta women won't admit to accidentally fukking something up. And everything is someone else's problem.

You find a woman that'll admit to a wrong or apologize, you better be trying to cuff her