"Why Y'all Poppin Y'all Balloons?"

Amo Husserl

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is wild how all humans almost act identical when it comes to the same shyt. I think girls hate on their other girl because they are jealous and when a chick fukks with a man tough she will always prioritize him first and they HATE that
Women have groups, cliques, clubs... they socialize in groups as women. There are men around, but they are not the focus. A woman's group is larger, looser, democratic and can have debates, therapy sessions, and strategic conference at any given moment during their meetings.

Men don't operate like that, and that has been our flaw. Because we compete with each other, and because we compete with each other for women, we cannot maintain the same kind of relationships as women.

...without getting too specific, once you take a woman from the nest, the rest of the birds are now watching you and will use her to test you because she is getting intel from them.

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:francis::francis::francis:
You got the intention of dating the woman 'cause you wanna build somethin' with her and you convinced her you worth buildin' with. Her friends don't agree 'cause your girl and her friends already built something without you.

:sas2::sas2::sas2:
Do you understand? PAWGs will not save you from the reality.
Matter of fact, one of the first things I do is scope out shorty friends.

You, as a man, gotta be able to hold a conversation with many different kinds of people so when you run into her friends, you can chop it up natural so when she take you to her functions with them and it's not awkward.
 

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Women have groups, cliques, clubs... they socialize in groups as women. There are men around, but they are not the focus. A woman's group is larger, looser, democratic and can have debates, therapy sessions, and strategic conference at any given moment during their meetings.

Men don't operate like that, and that has been our flaw. Because we compete with each other, and because we compete with each other for women, we cannot maintain the same kind of relationships as women.

...without getting too specific, once you take a woman from the nest, the rest of the birds are now watching you and will use her to test you because she is getting intel from them.

9ba666e453775f0bdf32934357731ebb.gif


:francis::francis::francis:
You got the intention of dating the woman 'cause you wanna build somethin' with her and you convinced her you worth buildin' with. Her friends don't agree 'cause your girl and her friends already built something without you.

:sas2::sas2::sas2:
Do you understand? PAWGs will not save you from the reality.
Matter of fact, one of the first things I do is scope out shorty friends.

You, as a man, gotta be able to hold a conversation with many different kinds of people so when you run into her friends, you can chop it up natural so when she take you to her functions with them and it's not awkward.
very prophetic and factual. wise brother. most dudes sleep to this. I got with this chick and we got into a serious relationship and a friend of hers who I never met said years ago your man was in my city on vaca and was basically man whore cuz she saw me on one of her friends stories . WHAT THAT GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING LMAO. But like you said she wasn't going to let all that energy she invested go to waste. But a women's friend group will tell you EVERYTHING about her
 

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But women want to be “equals”

See here ladies… this is why you’re who are ans we are who we are. You can never imagine what it feels like to be completely rejected. We(black men specifically) are not given the grace or space to go “wow that is a lot.” We have to be a soldier every day. Stand tall, get yourself together, protect, provide, do more, more!


It’s never enough, but I wish king well and he find someone who will appreciate him. Bless

STFU

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Still don’t understand why 90% of dudes continue to do this to themselves

Your dealing with majority of women up there that is looking for someone who is doing something they deem baller status… rather a musician, or executive in music or television or radio, u got 3 different things going on that they assume you on your grind

And also you have to dress the part

Every man who comes out and say you a mechanic, electrician, sell insurance, etc etc u getting pop
 

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They don't care about what men have to go through to get with them.
This is why you don't put a premium on p*ssy, 'cause they don't care about what you go through on a daily.

I stopped talking to a shorty last week 'cause she was boring, I didn't want the juice box.
Y'all gotta stop thinking women are interesting because you're attracted to them.

... I was on a lunch date and told a woman she was boring.
It's also why you don't go out of your way to do things for them because most likely they will not do the same thing for you.
 

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Still don’t understand why 90% of dudes continue to do this to themselves

Your dealing with majority of women up there that is looking for someone who is doing something they deem baller status… rather a musician, or executive in music or television or radio, u got 3 different things going on that they assume you on your grind

And also you have to dress the part

Every man who comes out and say you a mechanic, electrician, sell insurance, etc etc u getting pop

Most people are there because theres a camera and no other real reason. Literally no one that comes on this show is serious about finding someone there and they all know that. Of all the speed dating/networking gimmicks how come this was only adopted for TV and not real life?

Yall confusing arranged curated entertainment that is designed to go viral with real life and wonder why your shxts fuked.

This is like watching a dating version of real world or jersey shore then trying to draw real conclusions that this is how most women think.
That says a lot of yall dont go outside or have bad discernment.
 

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They don't care about what men have to go through to get with them.
This is why you don't put a premium on p*ssy, 'cause they don't care about what you go through on a daily.

I stopped talking to a shorty last week 'cause she was boring, I didn't want the juice box.
Y'all gotta stop thinking women are interesting because you're attracted to them.

... I was on a lunch date and told a woman she was boring.
Being unnecessarily d1ckish ain’t the wave. There’s always a graceful way to end relationships.
 

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36 is crazy... that nikka look like he been working on cars since the Great Depression 🫥 he look old enough to be Nipsey Hussle granddad. he should've just stayed on them apps and tried to get it how he live cause this was just a stand up comedy tour for cuz.
 

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Being unnecessarily d1ckish ain’t the wave. There’s always a graceful way to end relationships.
It was an honest take and tbf, it was going nowhere.
She has invited me to several functions since and the energy ain't been weird.
We chopped it up about the date and came to the understanding we're better as friends 'cause we're boring together.
Read the energy and speak up, there's a way not to be ...dikkish. Use that mouthpiece y'all keep talkin' 'bout.
 

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What am I missing, he wasn’t attractive so they popped. No amount of character was gonna save him for most women, there needs to be some initial physical attraction or at minimum, not lack of attraction
 
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