"Why you cant man up and say something other than that?"

sixsixtwo

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Meet The Sniper said:
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I'd like to question though what you think t/s should do in this situation.

It's a shyt test we all see it, but what to do about it?
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IMO, brother Nig handled it perfectly.. I wouldn't initiate contact from this point on, let shorti manifest on her own..

The thing is she'll be back.. That's when the fun starts..
 
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When it's done it's done, there really is nothing left to be said. She wanted to play the emotional vampire and draw drama from you so she could feel good about it.
 
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The Guru said:
When it's done it's done, there really is nothing left to be said. She wanted to play the emotional vampire and draw drama from you so she could feel good about it.
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couldnt say it any better. the "man up" thing is just to bait you. Hope it didnt work :scusthov:
 
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TheNig said:
A cop out for what?
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She told you that something you did is making her not want to continue. What was your internal reaction to that? If it was, "I respect that, I agree that it wouldn't work out", just say "I agree, I think it's best to keep it moving". If she keeps on texting and you don't want the drama, just tell her to stop. Type more than 2 letters.

By you saying "ok", it makes it look like you are trying too hard to come off as unfazed, which is usually a response by a hurt person. Don't sound so hurt.
 
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TheNig said:
this was a text sent to me after this youngin' decided to call everything off becuz i'm not affectionate her. all i said was "ok" becuz i get where she coming from. i'm not really an affectionate person. but thats not my problem.


my problem is this... when did it start to be ok for a man to text long ass letters to chicks telling them how they feel? this chick is 21 and i'll be 28 in a few weeks. i guess she's used to dealing with dudes who openly express themselves. is it that big of a generation gap? my pops always told me that a man should only talk when it is necessary. talking for other reasons only means that you want to be heard. is this what is acceptable now? for a dude to fly off the handle and get all emotional with bytches. do young bytches find that shyt attractive? i'm confused. i thought dealing with younger chicks would be a little easier.
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On the real bruh. U can type out a few sentences on a text or just call the female an keep it all the way 100 with the female without bein a simp. I think that just typing "ok" is a bit juvenile and curt and something a 28yr old man should not be doin. U should be actin like the leader and adult. And just givin the byttch an "ok" answer is lowkey childish.. I'm not sayin that u should get all emotional, I'm sayin handle ur biz like an adult
 
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fukk that

'ok' is a texting classic... works every time

sometimes you can even drop the o and do a 'k'

women love to text all day... don't give them the satisfaction... it'll keep her hungry
 
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