Why you degenerates never put a Breh on attachment styles?

[Remote]

That is why you not lothario.

If you black chasing le'che.

You don't have game.
you not a mack.
or a playa.

As white american women are the most sexually liberated in the history of the world.
So if you on here. Thinking roush book of poke semantics.
Ala red pill slash blue pill helps with white women

Yousa goofie lame and got no game.

As roush bullshyt is for white men. Who have issues with females.
Plus does not work on black women. As black women are not white. Plus black women do not even go for nikkaz with those types of issues. So if you using any of that bullshyt. That is why you fail.

Plus why you not lothario.


Art Barr

Somebody ask ChatGPT what this means for me.

 

[Art Barr]

Somebody ask ChatGPT what this means for me.

@Remote
This is why you not lothario.

Ai does not have game. To aid you in connecting to a black woman.
Lame ass no bytch getting goofie nikka.

women are not controlled by remote control. Plus you not gon get no game. As the game is not televised goofie lame ass boi.

: If they can't see.
dey not gon see.

Art Barr

 

[Remote]

@Remote
This is why you not lothario.

Ai does not have game. To aid you in connecting to a black woman.
Lame ass no bytch getting goofie nikka.

women are not controlled by remote control. Plus you not gon get no game. As the game is not televised goofie lame ass boi.

Art Barr

A grown man wrote this?

 

[Art Barr]

A grown man wrote this?

@Remote
The same grown man.
That got a house given to me.
from off my dikk.

While you online looking for advice. When the first rule of having a wingman. Is you don't have a wingman.

Sohh till a non-committal female.
on your roster give you a house.

You need to stfu.

Yet you still talking. That is why no black female fukk wit'chu. You goofie lame emo face ass nikka.
You might as well get a ai sexbot off aliexpress. That can work by remote.
chu, goofie lame ass boi.



Art Barr

 

[Vandelay]

I don't know a ton about it. I'm pretty sure I'm disorganized. I'm avoidant mostly, but I've noticed when I run into other avoidants and we have chemistry, I start getting anxious.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Glad you are finding out about it. Like you I wasn’t aware of it either, that is until my last relationship ended. I got broken up with out of nowhere and that led me to seek answers. Found out about attachment styles and read that book that was linked in here. My ex showed a lot of avoidant behaviors. Knowing what I know now I would’ve handled things differently on my end. Not saying her and I’s relationship would’ve continued but I atleast would’ve recognized her triggers and mine.

Damn breh

 

[doublecheese]

Did i not advise you to study your astrology as well as your potential lovers? But i guess this is cute if you would rather know the "what" than the "why"

Astrology is for bimbos and gays

Western astrology yeah....but if you look into Hellenistic astrology things start to look a little different and make more sense. Its an ancient science that was lost over the years...the shyt you see these days was just created for newspaper columns. I got book recs if you want.

 

[Belize King]

I just learned this about myself (secure but somewhat dismissive avoidant)

I date, do the right things in a relationship, and somewhere along realize I can't fall in love.

It's like my attraction reaches a ceiling.

Psychology says it's your brain subconsciously learning to be hyper self reliant and independent because people let you down/ abandonment / or moved around a lot at a very young age.

I should have known when my exes and flings would say "if we broke up, you'd be just fine moving on without any hate or remorse" or "I feel like you'd be the nicest guy to break up with and you would be just fine"

Crazy part is it's true.

Crazier is my girl wants to get married near future and it's like I love alot but I can't seem to fully fall in love all the way yearning and all that

My pops was in the Navy and my mom left us when I was 12.

How do I heal?

 

[cyndaquil]

I don't know a ton about it. I'm pretty sure I'm disorganized. I'm avoidant mostly, but I've noticed when I run into other avoidants and we have chemistry, I start getting anxious.

I dont think youre avoidant you just like a chick and she playing games and you worried she gonna disappear in you. This just conditioning from modern dating. Women being taught to play the field and not come on too strong. Same "avoidant" chick is doing what you doing when that NFL player aint text her back for a day.

 

[SunZoo]

Because past a certain point, they're actually harmful and often get reinforced due to the nature of psychology.

It can help you understand the parental triangle but in order to be 'secure' and actually have successful connections with these different attachment styles, you have to go beyond the MIND, and all the psychology jargon is geared toward endless mental masturbation if you don't take what's useful and jump off the train.

Anybody watching The Bear, Carmy is a really good example of a disorganized attachment style.

When he and his brother speak on their father, he was clearly an a$$hole.
Their mother is volatile one minute, loving the next.

Chaos and neglect is what he's known his whole life, what he's comfortable with so as soon as he feels real genuine love and peace, he runs away to the comfort of chaos and neglect. If it wasn't his profession it would be a "toxic" woman he'd run to.

 

[cyndaquil]

Because past a certain point, they're actually harmful and often get reinforced due to the nature of psychology.

It can help you understand the parental triangle but in order to be 'secure' and actually have successful connections with these different attachment styles, you have to go beyond the MIND, and all the psychology jargon is geared toward endless mental masturbation if you don't take what's useful and jump off the train.

Anybody watching The Bear, Carmy is a really good example of a disorganized attachment style.

When he and his brother speak on their father, he was clearly an a$$hole.
Their mother is volatile one minute, loving the next.

Chaos and neglect is what he's known his whole life, what he's comfortable with so as soon as he feels real genuine love and peace, he runs away to the comfort of chaos and neglect. If it wasn't his profession it would be a "toxic" woman he'd run to.

Would you say that the modern dating experience is providing people experiences that turn them into avoidants? Or are there just this many people with fukked up childhoods that made them this way?

 

[Dont@Me]

What attachment style am I if I fall in "love"/ lust extremely quickly, shower them with affection, get what I want, but then get bored and leave shortly after...rinse and repeat?

 

[SunZoo]

Would you say that the modern dating experience is providing people experiences that turn them into avoidants? Or are there just this many people with fukked up childhoods that made them this way?

- The way human beings do 'dating' and even marriage is obsolete. We are animals trying to play mind games with the mating process and wondering why it's not working. Relationship templates are breaking down, new ones will be built.

- People are indeed having more fukked up childhoods on average, some of it due to the dating game, marriage, capitalism, one feeds into the other.

Trauma, especially acquired in childhood is not linear or logical. Even if your parent wasn't a piece of shyt, they were likely preoccupied with their work. There is some sort of imbalance that can wire your as a child toward certain coping mechanisms that will play out most noticeably in romantic scenarios. You could have what you felt was a pretty normal or tame childhood and still be hurt because how in tf were you supposed to know what was a normal amount of affection, or emotional availability is?, shyt how do most parents know?

Now you add in stuff that is blatantly obvious capital T, complex trauma and there are some people living in absolute hell trying to live a 'normal' life.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Western astrology yeah....but if you look into Hellenistic astrology things start to look a little different and make more sense. Its an ancient science that was lost over the years...the shyt you see these days was just created for newspaper columns. I got book recs if you want.

sure

 

[Guess Who]

I never knew this shyt was a thing.
I’ve been dealing with avoidant attachment women all this damn time. Wtf

Look in the mirror first.