It’s meant to be painful. It’ll make you better though.
Why you degenerates never put a Breh on attachment styles?
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I struggle to chip in because my life is boringGood that means it is worth it
Some serious bullshyt. The nikkas that don’t seek what we seek get it easily smhMe too breh, found out too late I guess
Facts, crazy thing is I did just about everything right despite my own anxious attachment style. Only thing I coulda did better was not come off critical when I confronted her. That and I spent more time being worried about her need for space to address my own concerns cuz I just assumed it was for a bit. So my eventual response to the inconsistency was delayed. Not to mention I wasn’t peeping the signs of a cycle forming.
Once I told my best friend he told me to run as fast as I can. I didn’t exactly heed so now we’re on a “break”. I ran into her (we in the same neighborhood) and I walked right by cuz it feels like no contact is best atp. Shame cuz she’s amazing but if you can’t meet halfway when I acknowledge my own bullshyt and commit to working on it there ain’t shyt else I can do. Sucks.
Naw.
You simply get what you allow.
Most of y’all are SCARED to stand up to woman or WALK AWAY from women who DISRESPECT y’all.
You think these atta
Blackrogue
Superstar
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actually nevermind. Seen the links and I get the gist of it now. Will play audiobook
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Another ignorant breh coming in to post bullshyt
Y’all just don’t want to hear these words regarding the women y’all deal with- “She DIDNT like you the way you thought she did”
“Attachment style” you think a woman in a relationship with an NBA player is being an “avoidant” or whatever the hell y’all call it
Any woman that has played me or rejected me, I left it at that. Didn’t chase. This shyt is different. The last girl I dealt with was neurotic af after dropping me, shyt is odd.Y’all just don’t want to hear these words regarding the women y’all deal with- “She DIDNT like you the way you thought she did”
“Attachment style” you think a woman in a relationship with an NBA player is being an “avoidant” or whatever the hell y’all call it
nikka.
You in hear talking about “attachment styles” to justify the woman’s
actions towards you.VALUE yourself AS A MAN.
I feel stuck. Financially, emotionally, mentally
I do agree with the last sentencenikka.
You in hear talking about “attachment styles” to justify the woman’s
VALUE yourself AS A MAN.
Exactly.
Was gonna refute that and soulja boy tellem that, “naw, its not bullshiit.”
When i learned that i was anxiously, subconsciously and unhealthily attaching myself to my partners (due to my mom not being around during my adolescents), i seeked for affection and attention from women. That made me codependent like a mothafukka (and this followed me into my 40s!)
But due to the coli/youtubes, and understanding my traumas and bonding type, i now check myself before shiit hits the fan.
Shiit like this is important as a mothafukka.
Wish i would have known shiit like this (along with healing, boundaries, etc). before covid.
Man, came a long way in the last 5 years. Found out more aboot myself in that time than i did my entire life.
