Wife finds out her husbands “niece” is actually his daughter

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Forgot to mention reminds me of my cousin. He was dating this chick she say she has 2 kids and taking care of her sis 2 kids. One day he swings by her crib and from a distance sees a younger dude grilling and shyt cheesing. He thinking she playing games and shyt... he later confronts her turns out the "sis" kids are hers... and the dude on the grill... well that was her first born... shawty had 5 kids :deadrose:
 

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They on some


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Why did he lie???

Is it because she wouldn't want him if he had children? Or it's proof that homie was creeping???
 

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To tell someone to "just let it go" is fukking stupid.
What’s the alternative for her? Continuing to live her life in anger and sadness? The whole family will suffer. Her own kid was on her hands and knees with her older sister begging mom to chill.

I’m not sure if the man’s daughter predates the relationship or not, either way, she knows the truth now. This isn’t something to break a family for, I’ve see it for myself irl.
 

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See if she has a fat man.....a lot of these issues between black man and black women is cause black women overwhelmingly give preferential treatment to skinny men.

This allows for the behavior we see in the community: thuggin, drug dealing, domestic abuse, domestic terrorism, b*stard baby making, womanizing.
Lmaoooo WHAT!?
 

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Aye, man ...i get that she's upset , but she doing too Much...

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My girl done caught me in some Shyt and she ain't do all this, she got quiet....


Matter fact, I prefer the yelling, that way I know where yo mind at and you not trying to poison me, kill me in my sleep, or shoot me in the head...

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What’s the alternative for her? Continuing to live her life in anger and sadness? The whole family will suffer. Her own kid was on her hands and knees with her older sister begging mom to chill.

I’m not sure if the man’s daughter predates the relationship or not, either way, she knows the truth now. This isn’t something to break a family for, I’ve see it for myself irl.
No, the real solution is divorce. It is as simple as that. A lie this egregious is grounds for divorce. The anger at him is valid, the taking out her anger on the innocent child is not.
 

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Not watching.

But I grew up with a kid who was black and his older sister, was actually his mom. She had him age 13.

I grew up with him and I'm older than him. So I remember his "older sister".

I heard years later about his sister being his mom and his mom being his grandma.
 

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No, the real solution is divorce. It is as simple as that. A lie this egregious is grounds for divorce. The anger at him is valid, the taking out her anger on the innocent child is not.
Divorce should be the last option after all forms of reconciliation have been exhausted. She has a family with the man, why should the children suffer because of the dad. I don’t think divorce is warranted while emotions are high.

You would let your wife having a baby on you go?
She would have to hit the chop shop. If she wanted to keep the baby, there are many factors I would have to consider before ending the marriage.
 

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Divorce should be the last option after all forms of reconciliation have been exhausted. She has a family with the man, why should the children suffer because of the dad. I don’t think divorce is warranted while emotions are high.


She would have to hit the chop shop. If she wanted to keep the baby, there are many factors I would have to consider before ending the marriage.
It is your choice to believe this. I on the otherhand would not stick around in a marriage for this sort of shenanigans if my wife tried to convince me to stay for a baby she had from an affair or child she had previously that she lied and stated was not her child. I would also advise my daughter to divorce a man who brought on a child from his affair or previous relationship into their home and lied about who the child really was to him.

I believe that some acts are beyond the pale and should not be accepted. Lying about the paternity of a child is one of those acts.
 

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Divorce should be the last option after all forms of reconciliation have been exhausted. She has a family with the man, why should the children suffer because of the dad. I don’t think divorce is warranted while emotions are high.


She would have to hit the chop shop. If she wanted to keep the baby, there are many factors I would have to consider before ending the marriage.

She goes through the pregnancy with you thinking you’re the father and then you find out that you’re not. No giving the baby up, she wants to keep it and raise it in your house.

So she lied to you like this man lied to his wife and she’s asking you to raise the baby, keep your family together, despite the lie.

I’m just trying to make sure you aren’t being a hypocrite
 
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