Will short men ever be accepted like fat women?

Larry Lambo

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Women like to feel like they're protected. This is why a lot of them probably go after taller men. Theres nothing wrong with that. There IS something wrong with fat shaming.

You comparing two different things. One is dissing someone for their physical appearance, another is having a physical preference.

I don't make fun of fat people, but I wouldn't date a fat woman. As long as you respect people, your preferences are your choice.
 

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1. A 5'9" dude is above average height for dudes so he doesn't have nearly as many height issues vis a vis the opposite as would a guy who's, say, 5'5".

2. Short women (i.e., 5'2) are quite vocal about preferring above-average height men. As a matter of fact, many short women feel that theyre entitled to men who are 5'10, 5'11 or even 6ft. That's why you rarely--actually never--never see 5'2, 5'3, 5'4 women with men who are the same height.

3. If you're 5'9", what's wrong with a man who's 5'9"? WHY are you entitled to a man who's significantly taller than you as opposed to slightly taller?


1. As I said before, if you're 5'9 and you as a man prefer short women who prefer guys taller than them in general, with no specific height requirement what's the issue there?
2. If she's 5'2 and wants a 6 foot guy but you're 5'5 well it's on to the next for you I suppose.
3. I never said I was entitled to anything, I stated my personal preference, guys that are taller than me, if I could choose he'd be over 6 feet. For the record, again, I'm 5'9 and i'm currently entertaining the likes of a guy who is slightly taller than me, after getting out of a situationship with a guy who was 6'4. I like to look up to guys i'm dating, but if your personality is on point, and we vibe, but we're also the same height that's an exception i'm willing to make, even though I tend to wear shoes with heels so i'd just have to alter my style so I won't feel awkward.
 

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I said short guys can easily go after women who are open to dating short men as opposed to complaining about women who aren't. What do you mean wrongfully assumed? I didn't say MOST, I didn't say a large amount of women either. I said "Short guys can easily go after women who have no issue with them being short."

Where in that did I make reference to the amount of women who would be open to date short guys?


And I'm saying you're wrong in suggesting that short guys should just go after women who are receptive to short men since the majority of women (young or old, tall or short) PREFER tall men.

You can't be this dense.
 

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I'm over 6'2, and it's actually a trip to me how much short dudes focus on their height. I swear I never really thought about it much at all. Then one of my shorter brehs (maybe 5'7) kept bytching about how he has no chance when he's out with us cuz he's the short one. I've told him a dozen times it doesn't matter, it's if your game is tight.

His game is not tight:manny:
I feel u but u gotta try to see it from their perspective sometimes. If you were told your whole life that you being short is an ugly thing, you might have a complex as an adult :yeshrug: its no different than anything else that ignorant people see as a bad thing like dark skin.....how many grown adults got issues cause of people saying they too dark since childhood.......some short dudes been beat down for years and never learned game on top of that :francis: so they fukked...the best thing u can do is tell him get his game tight like u mentioned...and read some self improvement books or something lol
 

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And I'm saying you're wrong in suggesting that short guys should just go after women who are receptive to short men since the majority of women (young or old, tall or short) PREFER tall men.

You can't be this dense.

Can you read? I said they should go after short women WHO ARE OPEN TO DATING SHORT MEN. When I say open to, I mean if he is 5'6 and she is 5'2 she would give him the time of day. Why would a short guy go after a short girl who won't date anyone that isn't 6 feet tall? I can't possibly have made that any more clear than I already have.
 

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1. As I said before, if you're 5'9 and you as a man prefer short women who prefer guys taller than them in general, with no specific height requirement what's the issue there?
2. If she's 5'2 and wants a 6 foot guy but you're 5'5 well it's on to the next for you I suppose.
3. I never said I was entitled to anything, I stated my personal preference, guys that are taller than me, if I could choose he'd be over 6 feet. For the record, again, I'm 5'9 and i'm currently entertaining the likes of a guy who is slightly taller than me, after getting out of a situationship with a guy who was 6'4. I like to look up to guys i'm dating, but if your personality is on point, and we vibe, but we're also the same height that's an exception i'm willing to make, even though I tend to wear shoes with heels so i'd just have to alter my style so I won't feel awkward.

The issue is that I could be 5'9 and be open to dating shorter women BUT those shorter women will still try to hold out for a dude who's closer to 6ft. Again, all women prefer taller guys and most prefer men who are 6ft or damn near 6ft.

And how you look in heels is worth you overlooking men who aren't within your ideal height range?
 

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The issue is that I could be 5'9 and be open to dating shorter women BUT those shorter women will still try to hold out for a dude who's closer to 6ft. Again, all women prefer taller guys and most prefer men who are 6ft or damn near 6ft.

And how you look in heels is worth you overlooking men who aren't within your ideal height range?

Yes, it is because that's my personal preference. I don't want to wear heels and tower over my boyfriend. That for me would be uncomfortable.. If you're 5'9 having a hard time getting women maybe, just maybe it's not your height. Maybe it's your personality bruh.
 

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Can you read? I said they should go after short women WHO ARE OPEN TO DATING SHORT MEN. When I say open to, I mean if he is 5'6 and she is 5'2 she would give him the time of day. Why would a short guy go after a short girl who won't date anyone that isn't 6 feet tall? I can't possibly have made that any more clear than I already have.

Are you dense?

Where are these women who are open to dating short men or even men their exact height? As said ad nauseum, a 5'2 or 5'3 woman would just as easily reject a guy for being too short (even if he is 2 or 3 inches taller than her). And even those who do settle for "shorter" men only do so because they weren't able to snag a taller man.

You act like men are able to immediately recognize which women are open to short men on sight.

Why do you try to minimize how superficial the heavy majority of women are when the topic is men's height.
 

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nikka who is accepting of fat bytches?

Mike and molly got cancelled, only fat hoes on tv are on the biggest loser

you must not have noticed the bbw fetish round here :russ:

5ft10 bare feet, thank you god i dont have to duck through doors and be on some crouching tiger hidden dragon shyt on the streets.
 

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Yes, it is because that's my personal preference. I don't want to wear heels and tower over my boyfriend. That for me would be uncomfortable.. If you're 5'9 having a hard time getting women maybe, just maybe it's not your height. Maybe it's your personality bruh.
I think what he is trying to say is that it's doesn't make sense to tell short men to go after women who prefer them when the majority of women prefer someone taller. It's be like telling a cat to eat dog food when the cat has the choice of both.

Again only on here so I see people complain about height but there are women in reality who won't date anything under 6 feet because of their insecurities or fear of being laughed at in public:yeshrug:but folks should do them.
 

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Are you dense?

Where are these women who are open to dating short men or even men their exact height? As said ad nauseum, a 5'2 or 5'3 woman would just as easily reject a guy for being too short (even if he is 2 or 3 inches taller than her). And even those who do settle for "shorter" men only do so because they weren't able to snag a taller man.

You act like men are able to immediately recognize which women are open to short men on sight.

Why do you try to minimize how superficial the heavy majority of women are when the topic is men's height.

All over, are you expecting to find a whole city of women clumped up together? I can assure you there is no town called IDateShortDudes. Your best bet would be to mingle. You won't know until you ask. Just because YOU haven't come across these women, doesn't mean they don't exist. I know plenty of short guys dating taller women.

I'm not minimizing anything lmao. Everyone is entitled to a personal preference. Yes, a woman is completely entitled to rejecting a guy who meets every requirement outside of his height. Does that make her stupid In some cases, yes. Just because you're a good guy doesn't mean every girl is willing to overlook their personal preference to appease you. I have turned down guys that aren't what I particularly look for in a dude height wise, one of which is one of my closest friends today.

Just like guys can deny women off the basis of their appearance, women can deny men as well. It's life. There are millions of people in this world, why waste time sulking over one that has a clear preference, and you just don't fit the bill? Just makes you look bitter to be honest.
 

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I think what he is trying to say is that it's doesn't make sense to tell short men to go after women who prefer them when the majority of women prefer someone taller. It's be like telling a cat to eat dog food when the cat has the choice of both.

Again only on here so I see people complain about height but there are women in reality who won't date anything under 6 feet because of their insecurities or fear of being laughed at in public:yeshrug:but folks should do them.

You hit the nail on the head. You don't have the choice of both if one of those women won't give you a chance because you're not what she wants height wise. So no, it's not the same thing. That makes literally no sense. What you gonna do? Be upset all day because the women you want, doesn't want you? No ones gonna feel bad for that dude, if anything everyone's gonna tell you to pick up your balls and keep it moving. You can't always get what you want lol.
 

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I think what he is trying to say is that it's doesn't make sense to tell short men to go after women who prefer them when the majority of women prefer someone taller. It's be like telling a cat to eat dog food when the cat has the choice of both.

Again only on here so I see people complain about height but there are women in reality who won't date anything under 6 feet because of their insecurities or fear of being laughed at in public:yeshrug:but folks should do them.

bullshyt, if a woman is tall and most these models that come in are 5ft11+ 6ft range and would prefer their guys to be taller naturally. any chick who is shorter than their man doesnt care even if his really short. :russ: fear of being laughed at the girl is mos def ugly as fukk as def the type you would see on the coli in depression threads and shyt because she is not normal (some girls fukk dogs :ehh:).

but you making up ducktales anyway, its 2016 and most girls now a days are getting really tall for females 5ft10+ like the average female height is increasing. but luckily a lot of young male teens are getting taller the average height has def gone up.
 
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