Will short men ever be accepted like fat women?

[EpicStoryTeller]

Who shames these women?

EVERYONE, irl the short men aren't starting a movement about it and don't care even. But you have a lot of folks trying to make women feel bad for not being open about their options.

The only thing I say should stop is the height wars that go on here and the women who say hateful things like "anything under 5'11" should die" but if they feel that way then so be it.

 

[SadimirPutin]

problem is these people dont go out in the real world. theyre like a turtle hiding at home.

I done seen a lot of claims on this board that makes me wonder if I live in the twighlight zone fam

Shoot a few posts up a dude said the only short people he sees are janitors and old people

 

[CN793]

Wait, thats a contradiction though. Because you say you care more about personality and your dude is 5'10, but pointed out that a 6'3 man can come in and swoop you. If it didn't matter you wouldn't have to point out the difference and you've already said you prefer those of 6 foot status.

That's fine if you prefer taller because that's your preference and nobody can tell you otherwise, but don't don't sugar coat it and make it seem you like you don't pick based off it alone because if I presented you with the option of 2 men with the same qualities but one was 5'9 and the other 6'0, you know who you'd pick based off height alone.

You misread. I said i'm dating a 5'10 guy and if a 6'3 dude managed to steal my attention it would have nothing to do with his height. The height is an added plus, if the 6'3 guy had a better personality, if I vibed with the 6'3 guy more THAT alone would be the sole reason I walk away from my 5'10 dude. IF a woman is crazy about a guy who wasn't quite the height she truly wanted it wouldn't matter because she's crazy about him, if you're crazy about someone, why would you even entertain someone else?

 

[Weaver31]

Why would they have something to prove? Who makes them feel that way.shyt doesn't happen in a vacuum.

I guess they gotta prove they just as masculine or dominant as the next man who is taller than him. I donno why they feel the way they feel.

For some reason, a lot of people think height adds to masculinity....when in actuality it doesn't....it's just genetics. There are tall azz Amazon looking women but those women are still women....feminine and heterosexual. Look at Lisa Leslie when she was off the court with her husband and children...a tall woman but still a woman.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

You misread. I said i'm dating a 5'10 guy and if a 6'3 dude managed to steal my attention it would have nothing to do with his height. The height is an added plus, if the 6'3 guy had a better personality, if I vibed with the 6'3 guy more THAT alone would be the sole reason I walk away from my 5'10 dude. IF a woman is crazy about a guy who wasn't quite the height she truly wanted it wouldn't matter because she's crazy about him, if you're crazy about someone, why would you even entertain someone else?

And there it is folks, that last part needs to end this thread.

 

[Neuromancer]

EVERYONE, irl the short men aren't starting a movement about it and don't care even.

I've never witnessed this where do you see it?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

How tall are you ?

Same height.

 

[Neuromancer]

That's the point, you have to ask before you can assume that. Short guys in real life don't think about these things. If they want to talk to a girl, they'll go right up to her. I've had plenty of short guys come up to me lmao if they ask my preference they'll know, otherwise it's a mystery.

Who opens a convo with "do you like short guys?" What game are dudes spitting to you?

 

[Will Ross]

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No, it's not an insecurity. It's a personal preference. I prefer to look up to a dude I'm dating. I have never met a short dude I wanted to date and it wasn't because of their height off the bat in some case we just didn't vibe. If I was crazy about a short dude then i'd have no issue with being out in public with him. Unfortunately every short dude that approached me in the past either A. was corny, B. I was already involved or C. in one particular case had a friend I was already talking to. I just don't want to date a short guy it's not my preference.

How is it not a insecurity when you said you would feel uncomfortable with being with a man shorter than you in heels?

 

[CN793]

Who opens a convo with "do you like short guys?" What game are dudes spitting to you?

No one. No one has ever asked this, ever. I'm just going to assume the men on this site complaining about height have never met women in real life, rather they only date online where a dude's height is right there and in some cases i'm sure a woman can state her preference.

Perfect solution would be to get off your computer and go out into the real world. Clubs, bars, galleries, etc.

 

[StickStickly]

Nobody cared who Kevin Hart was until he got rich.

And that's the lesson for all short men.

Kevin doesn't count because he still had a pretty wife who held him down for a long time when he was a nobody. he dropped her when he became famous.

 

[CN793]

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How is it not a insecurity when you said you would feel uncomfortable with being with a man shorter than you in heels?

It's me not wanting to tower over a guy/look down on him. I'm not worried about other people looking. I'm worried about how uncomfortable i'd feel PHYSICALLY looking down at a dude i'm dating. It's not a mental thing. It's a physical thing.

 

[Neuromancer]

No one. No one has ever asked this, ever. I'm just going to assume the men on this site complaining about height have never met women in real life, rather they only date online where a dude's height is right there and in some cases i'm sure a woman can state her preference.

Perfect solution would be to get off your computer and go out into the real world. Clubs, bars, galleries, etc.

Done that. That's why I'm in a relationship.

 

[Neuromancer]

It's me not wanting to tower over a guy/look down on him. I'm not worried about other people looking. I'm worried about how uncomfortable i'd feel PHYSICALLY looking down at a dude i'm dating. It's not a mental thing. It's a physical thing.

Then why wear heels? Have you considered a guy taller than you might be just as uncomfortable?

 

[CN793]

Done that. That's why I'm in a relationship.

You've figured it out, apparently these guys still complaining have not. IF a 5'9 dude walks up to a 5'2 girl i'm sure the height difference is enough for her not to care if he's EXACTLY 6'2. Unless this is the internet in which case she just might ignore you. Seeing 5'9 on a computer, as opposed to actually physically standing next to the guy is a HUGE difference.