I will discipline her when she needs to be disciplined. I will also teach her to be lady. I will also be a loving mother and let her know that she can come to me and talk to me about anything. I think that it is always good to keep an open dialogue with your kids. Will I spoil my kids? If you mean buying them any/everything they want absolutely not. I would not do that to my daughter. That is setting her up for failure in life. That is where you get a lot of women running around thinking you owe them something and they should give you nothing in return.
A lot of people think that I was a spoiled daddy's girl growing up. My father loved all of his kids, but he never spoiled any of us. He was a strict, but loving father and helped me become the lady that I am today. The same with my mother. She is a great mom.