Will you wife a woman that is

[cleanface coney]

So some of you guys are cool with supporting your wife (having a hustle is technically a job in my book)

and the other half said no.


Hmmmm

Interesting.

Don't mind me people....I'm just trying to understand the men on here.....

most people on here bitter lames.
she gotta have some type of hustle about herself
if not she gotta be atleast willing take care of everything at the crib

 

[Olivia Pope]

Just ignore that 'control freak' bit. My point still remains -- everyone in the ideal family structure has a role. You can't have 2 leaders. If both mom and dad are busy with their careers then who the hell is going to raise the children? In a situation like this the children grow up to be wild (i.e.: daughter becomes loose and slutty, son becomes disrespectful, etc.)

Not trying to get in ur business but how much money are you going to be making in ur career field? What type of neighborhood you want to live in? Type of car? etc. etc etc...

 

[Family Man]

The reality is that most men can't afford to be in a relationship with a bytch that is just sitting on her ass and not earning. fukk what these broke ass nikkas on here is saying.

 

[Minty]

marriage is an ugly word

 

[kevm3]

The same thing can be said about the many men that say things like " I don't have a jail record, no kids, I'm in college, I work, I'm a good guy why don't women want me?"

And from the few threads I read on here quite few of the guys on here want a woman with unrealistic qualities also. I made this thread so I can understand the males on here.....


I'm bored and don't got shyt to do

Yeah, that's true. That's like me coming at you like ay girl i fight in kumite karate tournaments over the weekend and i'm real skilled. You gonna be like, "So?" Just because it means something to me as a man doesn't mean it will mean anything to you as a woman and vice versa.

Men don't want mini-men, aka a woman who wants to get in power struggles with the man and undermine him because she got a cool little job... just like how a lot of women ain't really gonna care about that 'nice guy' who went to school and did it right unless he's dressing right, looking right and can talk right... aka he actually has qualities that turn her on.

Men were always expected to live and support themselves and their family, so for the most part, a woman making money doesn't mean all that much to us as it would to a woman. As long as she is responsible and making a decent amount of money, I'd take it most men would be cool with that as long as her personality is on point.

I'd much prefer a woman that was supportive of whatever I chose to do, kept her feminine composure and respected my decisions as a man way over some woman who is making a ton of money, but her only interest in life is her career, she will undercut my decisions and constantly get in power struggles with me.

 

[Olivia Pope]

Yeah, that's true. That's like me coming at you like ay girl i fight in kumite karate tournaments over the weekend and i'm real skilled. You gonna be like, "So?" Just because it means something to me as a man doesn't mean it will mean anything to you as a woman and vice versa.

Men don't want mini-men, aka a woman who wants to get in power struggles with the man and undermine him because she got a cool little job... just like how a lot of women ain't really gonna care about that 'nice guy' who went to school and did it right unless he's dressing right, looking right and can talk right... aka he actually has qualities that turn her on.

Men were always expected to live and support themselves and their family, so for the most part, a woman making money doesn't mean all that much to us as it would to a woman. As long as she is responsible and making a decent amount of money, I'd take it most men would be cool with that as long as her personality is on point.

I'd much prefer a woman that was supportive of whatever I chose to do, kept her feminine composure and respected my decisions as a man way over some woman who is making a ton of money, but her only interest in life is her career, she will undercut my decisions and constantly get in power struggles with me.

U broke it down for me



u covered everything

I grew up in a two parent household (my mother and step-father) my mom made a tad bit more then my step father but she still did everything a wife and mother is suppose to do. Plus my step father bought a lot of great qualities to the table anyway. There is no way in this type of economy I will be able to live off my husband's salary and I also know that being a wife, I am suppose to let him lead, and stand behind everything he says.



























But of course he will have to earn it

 

[Gallo]

So you prefer a woman that is cool with being a housewife? So you make good enough money that will take care of everything financially? Only way I will stop going to school/working is if the man I am about to marry is making 500k and up....call me a gold digger but hey...

I do prefer yes but it's only a preference. I make enough for us to live comfortably middle/lower middle class lifestyle. You shouldn't put an arbitrary ceiling on how much your mate needs to earn in order to not work/school. Whether it's 50k or a million, do it because you think it's best for you and the relationship.

 

[MewTwo]

Not trying to get in ur business but how much money are you going to be making in ur career field? What type of neighborhood you want to live in? Type of car? etc. etc etc...

I don't plan on staying in the U.S. forever. I want to move to another country where I can live comfortably with not much money.

 

[zerozero]

500k?

how many combined income families are hitting that? it's not like you're leaving 400k on the table by not working

 

[ThatTruth777]

Basically asking if we want a house wife?

 

[Olivia Pope]

500k?

how many combined income families are hitting that? it's not like you're leaving 400k on the table by not working

Did you read what I said? I meant only way I will not work or have a career is if my mate is making good enough money for THE both of us. 400 to 500k isnt that bad

 

[zerozero]

Did you read what I said? I meant only way I will not work or have a career is if my mate is making good enough money for THE both of us. 400 to 500k isnt that bad

you're breaking my brain here

if you both were working, you wouldn't make 500k combined (going by average families or even upper middle class)

but if you weren't to work, then you want him to make 500k to make up for it

what am I missing? how is the opportunity cost of you not working equivalent to hundreds of thousands of dollars? basically, you want more money to stay home than you'd have if you worked.

 

[Olivia Pope]

you're breaking my brain here

if you both were working, you wouldn't make 500k combined (going by average families or even upper middle class)

but if you weren't to work, then you want him to make 500k to make up for it

what am I missing? how is the opportunity cost of you not working equivalent to hundreds of thousands of dollars? basically, you want more money to stay home than you'd have if you worked.

I know that lol! You don't understand me, only way I will stay home and won't work is if my husband is making a nice amount of money that I can live comfortably and take care of my kids and myself. Why would I stay home and not work if my husband is only making 150k? That is not enough for 2 adults and kids to live off of. But 500k will due

 

[tofuspeedstar]

your type physically, has a great personality, no kids, and single?


But the catch is she is unemployed, stay with her parents, highest education is a high school diploma, and she isn't trying to seek employment either.

I ask this question because according to the male posters on here, career oriented women tend to be unattractive and boring.


In this day and age is it smart to have one working adult in the household?

Absolutely not, she better be doing something with her life.

 

[zerozero]

I know that lol! You don't understand me, only way I will stay home and won't work is if my husband is making a nice amount of money that I can live comfortably and take care of my kids and myself. Why would I stay home and not work if my husband is only making 150k? That is not enough for 2 adults and kids to live off of. But 500k will due

honey.. if he was making 150k, and you were working, you guys still wouldn't make 500k combined, right?

you need to go back to your original post and add that there's a catch "she has confusing thought patterns"






just kidding