Winter Came and Traci Ellis Ross Kept Warm in a Blanket of Regret

[Amo Husserl]

She probably faced some type of trauma with an ex or someone she had a fling with and never recovered from it due to fear.

Then decisions had to be made and she made hers... and this is the problem with these narratives 'cause somebody always givin' the benefit of the doubt to people they don't know to justify their actions.

If Tracee Ellis Ross went through what you say she may have gone through, she had access to professional grades of counseling we can't dream of. She could have worked on herself to get the man she wanted despite any trauma she may have had and bounced back.

No, I ain't acceptin' that lil' narrative 'cause it's plenty of women that have gone through what you mentioned and worked on and got past their trauma and found a partner and are living in healthy, supportive relationships.

It ain't the same for everybody, I can understand that but she had to make a choice whether or not she had trauma to decide if she wanted to work on herself and work to find a partner.

 

[JustRegularBlack]

If all my options are truly toxic and not favorable, how can regret happen around those options?

Our ego can ignore a blessing in hand because of what it believes it deserves.

 

[Ohene]

Clearly a beautiful, intelligent woman. But not nearly as wise as she could be for her age.

She actually isn't wrong about not wanting to be with the wrong partner and being in relationships just to be in them, just to be securely attached even if it doesn't add to her life in anyway.

Where she lacks wisdom and quite frankly spiritual growth is realizing that the love and partnership you're looking for is UNCONDITIONAL. You want someone to meet you where you are in life and love you as is, without even being open to giving that back.

And when you actually are attuned to your spirit your people, in all facets of life will find you. There is no shortage of love for anybody walking this planet.

Case in point....she doesn't want children, doesn't get along with men her age, get's along fine with younger men but doesn't want to "raise" (improve upon) anybody and needs to someone with enough money/notoriety to have something to lose as well. She has likely shooed her "person" away for being too young or not having enough comparable money and status to lose. The love of her life couldn't get to her if they tried because her ego is in the way, as is the case for a lot of people playing the dating game.

This right here is a great post

Anyone single including myself needs to take this in and do some self reflection

 

[SNG]

Then decisions had to be made and she made hers... and this is the problem with these narratives 'cause somebody always givin' the benefit of the doubt to people they don't know to justify their actions.

If Tracee Ellis Ross went through what you say she may have gone through, she had access to professional grades of counseling we can't dream of. She could have worked on herself to get the man she wanted despite any trauma she may have had and bounced back.

No, I ain't acceptin' that lil' narrative 'cause it's plenty of women that have gone through what you mentioned and worked on and got past their trauma and found a partner and are living in healthy, supportive relationships.

It ain't the same for everybody, I can understand that but she had to make a choice whether or not she had trauma to decide if she wanted to work on herself and work to find a partner.

I agree with you I was just saying why she made the choice for herself and it’s usually something traumatic they haven’t gotten over. I agree with you 100 percent that there is outlets she could have taken to get out of that fear.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

This is a low key wild statement. I agree you’re a dude but now your basically not a Black female defender you’re like that Youtubian chick Sixx da goddess

who brutally divides the world into attractive an unattractive people.

In Sixx’s case she linked with D’Nikea Marie and despite D’Nikea’s dental situation D’Nikea lapped her.

Both kinda did the panderbear to bros thing but people could see the entitlement and condescension dripping from Sixx so that’s why her IG had way more views than her channel.

You’re not defending women at all you’re just dunking on Uglygang.

I don’t know shyt about Lisa Raye or Traci but Traci seems more personable than Lisa is shyt you could even say that now that Traci looks better.

I’d agree with you that Prime Lisa shyts on Prime Traci but the fall off is way steeper with Lisa

I will absolutely admit I divide the world by looks. Your looks will get you in the door in every situation in life. You’re more likely to get a job, be trusted, and have better dating opportunities based on your looks. I had to learn this the hard way.

I’ve been open about my dating experiences, and like most of us, did the break up, to Coli pipeline. I joined after my ex at the time broke up with me. There wasn’t a problem with looks, but there were other issues. But when I was 19, I dated a Puerto Rican girl, and was not her type. Despite me being attractive, she barely touched me in the 9 months we were together. I spent money, and treated her like a queen. Yet I wasn’t her type. She was with me because I’m a nice guy. That’s when all that “good qualities” went out the window. She left me for an ugly latino man. I stopped chasing women who didn’t want me after that.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

She was messing around with Kenya Barris, the creator of Blackish

Proof she had options

 

[Amo Husserl]

I agree with you I was just saying why she made the choice for herself and it’s usually something traumatic they haven’t gotten over. I agree with you 100 percent that there is outlets she could have taken to get out of that fear.

She too old and too connected to let fear get in the way of a partner if that's what she really wanted..

Did she really want a partner? Ask her that, 'cause it's too many women saying they want a partner just to have one, not to do the work to keep one after getting them. You wanna talk 'bout fear, think about all the men who got blitzed in divorce court and got married again without counseling. Think of all the women who been abused by men but found their strength to find the right man for them.

Problem with people and relationships is people think their partner is going to fix them. Nah...

 

[SNG]

She too old and too connected to let fear get in the way of a partner if that's what she really wanted..

Did she really want a partner? Ask her that, 'cause it's too many women saying they want a partner just to have one, not to do the work to keep one after getting them. You wanna talk 'bout fear, think about all the men who got blitzed in divorce court and got married again without counseling. Think of all the women who been abused by men but found their strength to find the right man for them.

Problem with people and relationships is people think their partner is going to fix them. Nah...

And you’re right yea she’s too old but people have this fear of relationships after something traumatic and would rather not fix there issue with it internally . My wife has a brother that’s 44 and he don’t have shyt going for him and we talk about how his standard of woman is too high for his age for what he has to offer. Not saying he can’t get it but he would have to put a tremendous amount of work to get it basically further than what his mind can comprehend. He’s the type that got finessed from a catfish in Columbia if you catch my drift and we tried to tell him what it is and he refused to believe it. It was bad because he started asking my wife for money because she was saying she had cancer and couldn’t cover the bill type shyt.

 

[FTBS]

She can have kids whenever she so chooses with her means. There is adoption as others have stated. You got surrogates. And shyt just because she in her 50s doesn't mean all the eggs are gone.

She has the typical struggle of older, rich daters. She legit does not need a man. She got money. She can get dikk when she so chooses. So she has no reason to deal with any bullshyt she doesnt feel like dealing with. Flip side is that no matter how great a person is, there is gonna be some bullshyt. So to have a partner is to deal with some bullshyt occasionally. Being too picky and unwilling to bend can be just as damaging as being to thirsty.

All that said, I got some good times (I can minimize the bullshyt but cant eliminate it all ) and some stepkids for you if you are interested Mrs Clayton Johnson

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Proof she had options

He was married and she was playing a character based on his real life wife.

 

[True Blue Moon]

She probably faced some type of trauma with an ex or someone she had a fling with and never recovered from it due to fear.

It’s waaaay more likely that she saw how her momma moved, similar to most people. Diana had a bunch of husbands, relationships and flings. People go through breakups and whatnot all the time but her being so anti normal relationship and her views of men seem deeply ingrained

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

If a phat ass falls in the woods and no nikka is around to wife it does it make a sound?

More philosophical than the great Sun T-zu

 

[True Blue Moon]

Then decisions had to be made and she made hers... and this is the problem with these narratives 'cause somebody always givin' the benefit of the doubt to people they don't know to justify their actions.

If Tracee Ellis Ross went through what you say she may have gone through, she had access to professional grades of counseling we can't dream of. She could have worked on herself to get the man she wanted despite any trauma she may have had and bounced back.

No, I ain't acceptin' that lil' narrative 'cause it's plenty of women that have gone through what you mentioned and worked on and got past their trauma and found a partner and are living in healthy, supportive relationships.

It ain't the same for everybody, I can understand that but she had to make a choice whether or not she had trauma to decide if she wanted to work on herself and work to find a partner.

Real shyt. Everyone has a trauma they can point to for the reason they just laid down and died if they decided to. I understand but I just can’t co-sign it as an excuse if what you really want is on the other side of it

 

[Amo Husserl]

Real shyt. Everyone has a trauma they can point to for the reason they just laid down and died if they decided to. I understand but I just can’t co-sign it as an excuse if what you really want is on the other side of it

People steady givin' excuses to not muscle-up and get something... but let it be a big booty biracial celebrity chick and we gotta stop bein' real for a moment 'cause we tryna spare her feelings. Nah... that ain't reality.

 

[Cat piss martini]

p*ssy Age in Dog Years.