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Wise Women Everywhere KNOW that those Square / Non-Edgy Black Men make the Best Husbands / Fathers.
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Iverson_64
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I mean.....I like a good pep talk and all but this just isn't reality.
I'm not talking about Black men being husband material. I'm talking about the perception.
The majority of women find their own men to be most compatible for marriage. And White men, for better or worse, have a much better reputation for being marriage/relationship material than Black men due to negative stereotypes placed on us.
I live in a borough full of immigrants from other countries and, sadly, the perception of Black American men when it comes to relationships is pretty terrible overall. Many immigrant parents(including some Black ones) even tell their daughters not to bring home a Black American man specifically.
Sure....there's women like the German woman in that thread or some others who hold positive views of Black American men in relationships but it's not as widespread as you think. Also, American men of all races have American privilege when they game women overseas. White American men could eat well with German broads too on a greater scale.
I'm just trying to put things into perspective here because people tend to lack nuance on this topic.
Also, most Black men making 6 figures have Black wives(literally over 80%) so the notion that Black women ignore High Value Black men is pretty exaggerated too. In NYC, the DMV, Atlanta, Houston, etc., there's tons of middle class and even rich Black couples. I even saw of documentary about "Old Money" Black families in Metro Atlanta and not a single one of the "Old Money" Black men had a non-Black spouse and they were building generational wealth.
Non-Black women can build with Black men too but, keeping it 100, a good portion of the "pro-interracial" ones see us as hypermasculine walking Dildos who can give them mixed babies.
I'm not talking about Black men being husband material. I'm talking about the perception.
The majority of women find their own men to be most compatible for marriage. And White men, for better or worse, have a much better reputation for being marriage/relationship material than Black men due to negative stereotypes placed on us.
I live in a borough full of immigrants from other countries and, sadly, the perception of Black American men when it comes to relationships is pretty terrible overall. Many immigrant parents(including some Black ones) even tell their daughters not to bring home a Black American man specifically.
Sure....there's women like the German woman in that thread or some others who hold positive views of Black American men in relationships but it's not as widespread as you think. Also, American men of all races have American privilege when they game women overseas. White American men could eat well with German broads too on a greater scale.
I'm just trying to put things into perspective here because people tend to lack nuance on this topic.
Also, most Black men making 6 figures have Black wives(literally over 80%) so the notion that Black women ignore High Value Black men is pretty exaggerated too. In NYC, the DMV, Atlanta, Houston, etc., there's tons of middle class and even rich Black couples. I even saw of documentary about "Old Money" Black families in Metro Atlanta and not a single one of the "Old Money" Black men had a non-Black spouse and they were building generational wealth.
Non-Black women can build with Black men too but, keeping it 100, a good portion of the "pro-interracial" ones see us as hypermasculine walking Dildos who can give them mixed babies.
Ozymandeas
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The argument is that, on average, Asian, White and Latino women figure that out by their mid-20s. Black women be in their 30s, 40s and even near 50 and still trying to find a man with an "edge".Got to be a troll thread, threadstarter found the most generic average joe non-threatening Black men with White women he could.
The mindset of women wanting to tame a lion isn’t anywhere near exclusive to just Black women and the hip hop culture.
White and Hispanic women especially be on that same type of shyt and probably Asians too; however, I’m not around enough of them to know.
It’s just a phase most women go through. Then when they see that type of guy comes with to many complications and compromises they find something more sustainable.
Once they figure out Rambo with a desert eagle probably isn’t the best option long term they end up settling for the Carl Winslow type that’s boring but dependable with better long term attributes and stability.
A few things, 1st I use to be real Pro-Black and I wanted a Son that looks like me.
And I moved back to Louisiana, didn't have things in place or a good plan to have her tag alone. Thinking back she we've came . Just wanting things to be near perfect. smh You know how we do.
Is that 80% lower than other ethnic groups? I'm guessing it's closer to 90% for them.
And that might be true in DC and Maryland but not Virginia. Northern Virginia is the swirling capital of this country.
MajesticLion
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Not sure that’s the case at least not from what I’ve seen.
I don’t have any data to back anything up just my experiences dealing with Black women because that’s who I’m attracted to.
Once most of the women I’ve known start hitting those late 20s and early 30s they seemed to want to start getting their mind right and making wiser choices with the type of men they give serious attention.
Facts because when I lived in NOVA, my neighbor had a white husband and she was black.
Iverson_64
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Asian and Hispanic men making 6 figures have a higher IR marriage rate.
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Fillerguy
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Flamebait thread and Im here for it.
