with all this 50 shades of grey talk, i want to get into s&m

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

Consider reading her your favorite scene from an erotic romance that sparked your interest in exploring more. Tell her what intrigues you about it. See how she reacts, but don’t judge or push. Don’t take things too seriously. If you’re doing this to spice up your relationship, this probably won’t be a problem, but if you’re exploring innate feelings about being a Dominant or submissive, you can get a little overwhelmed by all the things you want to try. In these first stages, take it slow, relax and have fun with it. That will help your partner do the same.



how to guides on General BDSM

Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex
by Gloria G. Brame, Fireside

Consensual Sadomasochism: How To Talk About It and Do It Safely
by William A. Henkin, PhD. & Sybil Holliday, CCSSE, Daedalus Publishing

Different Loving
by Gloria Brame, Job Jacobs & Jon Brame, Villard Books

Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/m Lovemaking
by Race Bannon, Daedalus Publishing. Out of print.

manga

nana to kaoru.

more literature

Story of O (French: Histoire d'O, IPA: [istwaʁ do]) is an erotic novel published in 1954 by French author Anne Desclosunder the pen namePauline Réage, and published in French by Jean-Jacques Pauvert.

Venus in Furs (German: Venus im Pelz) is a novella by the Austrian author Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, and the best known of his works.

 

[jeh]

Edit wrong thread

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Loosen up. Nothing wrong with a little wax and torture.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Wtf is s and m?

Rihanna had a song about this shyt