Woman A or Woman B?

[Complexion]

Everything about them is identical in all respects apart from the differences listed. For the record she is your equivalent in terms of income/background/status.

Woman A:
10/10 in terms of personality/compatibility. 5/10 in terms of looks/body which means you'll never have that sheer lust passion smash, instantaneous "OK lets go again". Give me a minute and a drink *gasp gasp* OK lets get it in perpetual motion sexing from the P to AM.

Woman B:
10/10 in terms of looks/body. 5/10 in terms of personality/compatibility which means you'll have to deal with the friction you'd except and she won't be a ride or die in any sense not to mention the time devoted to resolving conflict that drags you off your grind.

Which one are you picking and why? Better yet expand the scope and project the trajectory your life would take with either by your side and tell me would that influence your decision? No cheating and saying I'd take A and smash B on the side like a true 8 foot, 8 cert, 8 series Coli playa would. That defeats the point of the entire thought experiment.

Ladies feel free to flip it, are you willing to admit you're as vain as most men?

 

[Remote]

Compatibility is everything. Ok it's not everything but younger people tend to not understand how important it is to actually like and enjoy spending time around someone with similar tastes, sense of humor, and mindset as you.

Men and women are always going to have different perspectives on things. That's perhaps inherent. But being with someone closer to your wavelength -- in the long run -- is just better than being with an absolutely gorgeous woman with whom you're bored (at best) or miserable (at worst) when you're not having sex.

If you're into something casual -- Woman B.
If you're into something serious - Woman A.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Neither

 

[Complexion]

Neither

Thats interesting. Why?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

A. Being attractive does make you good in bed.

 

[mvp_status]

If I'm just looking to smash for a few weeks and KIM, A

If I want something sustainable, B. Compatibility filters in all aspects of life, including the bedroom

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Neither. I ain't trying to have the chaos in my life and I've worked too hard to make minimum wage to get with an ugly bytch

 

[Software]

C. Browse JBO instead

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

Thats interesting. Why?

For me I’d need at least a 6 on the looks. Looks are a threshold metric for me. Meaning you need to meet that threshold, but once you do, it’s the other factors that matter.

i.e. a 9 in looks with a 8 compatibility is not going to beat a 6 with 10 compatibility for me.

 

[George's Dilemma]

Compatibility is everything. Ok it's not everything but younger people tend to not understand how important it is to actually like and enjoy spending time around someone with similar tastes, sense of humor, and mindset as you.

Men and women are always going to have different perspectives on things. That's perhaps inherent. But being with someone closer to your wavelength -- in the long run -- is just better than being with an absolutely gorgeous woman with whom you're bored (at best) or miserable (at worst) when you're not having sex.

If you're into something casual -- Woman B.
If you're into something serious - Woman A.

I agree with you on compatability, but I wouldn't underestimate how important being physically attracted to someone is. That can lead to imcompatability in the sex department later on in a relationship which will damage that relationship.

 

[Ziggiy]

Neither. I can get at least a 7/10 looks with an 8-10/10 personality. Thats my minimum threshold and i’m not settling

 

[Umoja]

It would be helpful if pictures were provided, but I'm pretty sure that I would pick 5.

5/10 is just below average which isn't a deal breaker for me. Additionally, I'm more likely to be turned off by someone's personality than their looks.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Thats interesting. Why?

Because 5/10 wouldn't be attractive enough to keep me motivated. I would just be keeping her around as a safety net, and that's not fair to her when she could be with someone that could genuinely love her the way she deserved. 10/10 would be too much of a headache. It's one thing to be a dime, but a reckless aloof, Ice queen? I've dealt with women like that, and they're some of the most disgusting people you'll ever meet.

I could do a 7/10 in terms of both.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Both relationships are doomed and should never be what you have to choose between. That sounds like pure hell.

Woman A: If I don’t sexually desire you, I’ll eventually look for a replacement. I don’t care how great her personality is. That means she’d make a great friend, not romantic partner

Woman B: her looks will eventually lose novelty and I’ll just look for my fix with another girl that’s attractive but with more substance. This is the type of girl you maintain a very casual relationship with

 

[Complexion]

For me I’d need at least a 6 on the looks. Looks are a threshold metric for me.

Yeah, thats why I picked 5s on deck because 6 can become 9 (or at least appear to) thanks to modern theatrics.

A. Being attractive does make you good in bed.

It definitely fuels your lust though in a way being average can't.

I agree with you on compatability, but I wouldn't underestimate how important being physically attracted to someone is. That can lead to imcompatability in the sex department later on in a relationship which will damage that relationship.

True especially considering that men on the whole are more visual. Women are catching up in that sense though or starting to admit it more.

Because 5/10 wouldn't be attractive enough to keep me motivated. I would just be keeping her around as a safety net, and that's not fair to her when she could be with someone that could genuinely love her the way she deserved. 10/10 would be too much of a headache. It's one thing to be a dime, but a reckless aloof, Ice queen? I've dealt with women like that, and they're some of the most disgusting people you'll ever meet.

I could do a 7/10 in terms of both.

A lot of people would be real happy with that and keep it moving but that would defeat the point of the thought experiment.