Woman explains why 9-5 men disgust her

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If a nikka running up a bag in any type of significant way as an entrepreneur, legal or illegal, they gonna be just as busy as someone working a 9-5. Only difference is the time working and time off won’t be consistent. She said herself, sometimes she work for a week straight. Well what the fukk you think your nikka who getting all this money to support y’all lifestyle gotta do sometimes lol. That nikka not gonna be able to take you to Jamaica at just anytime either. Ask a bytch what she doing when them loads come in. Sitting her ass down with her homegirls and not saying shyt when a nikka ain’t available. It’s a work day bytch.

My nikka just sent his girl to the store and told her to get a bag this past Valentine’s Day. We was busy working and was gonna be tied up the whole day. She ain’t say shyt and got that bag. These hoes will trade the time for the money so how important is the time for real? And no disrespect to her, she a good chick.
the entrepreneur is going to be busier. shyt, they will even be out of town traveling and what not going to conferences, linking with clients, trying to build or maintain relationships
shorty dates drug dealers, pimps and scammers. its that simple. disgustingn
 

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she said it best - "as an entrepreur, it's very up and down"

and personally, that's something that I do not prefer to deal with in my own life.

i have a "9-5" corporate job, and my shyt is flexible as hell. been remote since the pandemic began, got all the benefits, a pension, perks, bonuses, i'm able to work from my phone if i need to be on the go, etc.

sounds more like either these women are talking about specific kinds of "9-5" jobs that are stricter or of the blue collar kind, or they simply do not understand the concept of a "9-5" like the one i laid out above.
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She wants someone who knows how fo generate passive income. :manny: in the high six figures.
Hey I agree with you. But how many people are actually generating that kind of money passively. Also if she does find one of the few that do will they want her? That's the questions alot of the birds don't ask themselves or their friends who are supposed to hold them accountable do. Then when some do does her dirty she hates all men and the cycle continues:francis:
 

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ive been saying it for years. its never gonna get better until the women shift their values and go for the right kind of men

a disproportionate amount of black women have absolutely ZERO concept of delayed gratification. all they care about is fun, materialistic goods and spending a nikka money
I don't blame it solely on them
Black people got deprived of economic opportunity, the most masculine nikkas in neighborhoods don't have a chance to work in corporate

But that's the way it is and we gotta be honest on who they choosing
 

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Hey I agree with you. But how many people are actually generating that kind of money passively. Also if she does find one of the few that do will they want her? That's the questions alot of the birds don't ask themselves or their friends who are supposed to hold them accountable do. Then when some do does her dirty she hates all men and the cycle continues:francis:

What she's looking for is unrealistic. A "hustler" does enough to get by until they have to hustle again. She want's him to blow his money fukking around with her, and go back to hustling again. He's basically hustling to keep up. That shyt never lasts.

Passive income, can be in the form of owning property and collecting rent. Investments.. but with that, you have to have a lot of capital and disposable cash reserves already in the bank. So basically, she wants a millionaire, who can afford to not generate income for long periods of time, blow money without worrying about being in a bind, and not mind spending it with her.


But if she's bringing nothing to the table, dudes aint gonna want to fukk with her long term anyway. She's basically coming off like a escort with benefits type vibe.
 

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Why did it have to be a black woman. I know there may be other women that could have said that but why our black women are on this wave smh.

At times, I think about the kind of women my grandfather encountered. Grace
Grandma was so full of joy and grace
 

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What she's looking for is unrealistic. A "hustler" does enough to get by until they have to hustle again. She want's him to blow his money fukking around with her, and go back to hustling again. He's basically hustling to keep up. That shyt never lasts.

Passive income, can be in the form of owning property and collecting rent. Investments.. but with that, you have to have a lot of capital and disposable cash reserves already in the bank. So basically, she wants a millionaire, who can afford to not generate income for long periods of time, blow money without worrying about being in a bind, and not mind spending it with her.


But if she's bringing nothing to the table, dudes aint gonna want to fukk with her long term anyway. She's basically coming off like a escort with benefits type vibe.
That's exactly what it is. She's good for a short while until you find something better or fresher. I've had brehs that hustled and dealt with women like her and it knocked them completely off their grind. Any breh that deals with her should no off rip that you'll never satisfy her cause she will always want more, want new, want exciting. She'll just drain you dry and move on to the next like a succubus. I think that's what we should start calling these type of chics. Bird doesn't do it justice and makes it seem harmless but succubus highlights the danger of dealing with this type
 

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I got what she was saying after the fact. She did a horrible job explaining. My pops has pretty much been an entrepreneur in sales the last almost 20 years. He makes his own hours and can take off whenever he wants. I want to get to the point where I can be like fukk a job thats based on hours worked
 

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The funny thing is, I can drop everything and fly to Jamaica today, with my “9 to 5”
Me too breh I have PTO and paid sick leave with my "9 to 5" too. I can create a vacation whenever I want using a combination of that with my off days. It's crazy the ones who down the 9 to 5 the most are working 5-6 side hustles and 50+ hrs a week just to barely make 50-60k and scream they're a boss:mjlol:
 

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The funny thing is, I can drop everything and fly to Jamaica today, with my “9 to 5”
Exactly. I went on a workcation not too long ago to PR. It was a bunch of people there at the resort doing the same thing. Remote working is:banderas:


I wouldn’t trade the lifestyle I have now for anything in the world and that’s including more money. Most small business owners don’t even make what I make. We let the success of the few confuse us

https://www.fundera.com/blog/study-finds-business-owners-earn-less
 
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