Woman explains why she rejected Nuclear Physicist

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Sorry but dude was corny. He literally was pretending to read a book right at the beginning of their video call. He said, “Oh golly, you surprised me! I was just reading the 48 laws of power 🤓”. Young PRETTY girls ain’t going for dudes like this. Nuclear Physisct be damned.

She should have skipped him at that part alone.

She wasted too much time on that lame ass guy.

Now other lame nikkas like him are in their feelings because they act the same way. :mjlol:
 
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Which is why black women stay losing with high value men

Women lose with men, men lose with women. Love is a losing game but I guess rookies haven't figured that out yet and think this was supposed to go according to their fairytale ending :pachaha:

If i just get this money, bytches will flock :blessed:

NOPE. We getting money too, tighten up :yeshrug:
 

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Y'all reading too deeply into this lol.

I'm a "square" breh. I work in STEM. I make great money. I get plenty of women from all races, but have also been rejected by black women for my "squareness." For a long time I fell into the trap of thinking, "woe is me, they just want hood nikkas." And while that's true, it's deeper than that.

I came to realize that, these birds are rejecting me not because they think I'm inadequate, but because they think they are. Humans are a lot more self aware than any of us give credit for. A bytch with no life skills who does nothing but show ass on IG deep down understands that she simply cannot keep up with an intelligent, scholarly brother in conversation and really can't bring anything to the table for him. So she rejects him, before he can reject her or worse, smashes and gets tired of her because she's just a bird. A lot of rejection stems from projection.

These type of women stick with hood nikkas not because they genuinely find them more attractive/masculine but because there's a level of comfort. Intelligent, money making brehs intimidate women like her. Women don't like when a dude says something and it goes over their head because they're too slow to grasp it. When he brings up a niche topic or a current world event and they can't chime in because the only current events they keep up with are from the Shaderoom's Ig. When she feels like she's walking on eggshells everytime she speaks because she's afraid she's gonna say something dumb as fukk. When her impulsive decision making is countered by rationality (eg: let's not blow 5000 on bottles tonight, we're saving for our vacation coming up.)

Hood nikkas are low vibrational nikkas so they synergize well with low vibrational women. They don't gotta change themselves for them. They don't feel intimidated or out of place around them. That's literally all it is.

Sit there and really try to imagine someone like Cardi B dating an astrophysicist. :mjlol: She went with Offset because that motherfukka the male version of her.
Naw, don’t buy the projection thing and white and latina are the same.
 
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But why is the immediate go-to him dating another race?
So one Black girl on the internet turns him down and it’s time for Maria or Becky? 🤔 He can’t just try other Black girls?

So when a Black girl gets told she doesn’t have the “look” some successful brothas want, you won’t have an issue when she immediately turns and runs into the arms of a white man who accepts her as is (which actually is the case with most Black female nerds with men of other races)? Or would it be “Just find a breh who finds you attractive. Step your looks up”.

This shyt goes both ways and it is SO funny to see that the first sign of pushback or failure a man should just go with another race. Yall act like 10 BW in a row dissed dude on the show.

ONE GIRL wasn’t feeling him and it’s causing all this? He’s going to have mad girls swinging on his _____ as soon as he hits the military and I promise that will include Black girls too :martin:


He biracial and he seems like a dude who more compatible with ww


White women and Hispanic go towards providers they don't care about superficial bs

It was obvious she like more of a street

Dude


Y'all want this young man to keep getting rejected by black women build resentment and never be happy


Than shyt on him for being a incel or a educated lame
 

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But why is the immediate go-to him dating another race?
So one Black girl on the internet turns him down and it’s time for Maria or Becky? 🤔 He can’t just try other Black girls?

So when a Black girl gets told she doesn’t have the “look” some successful brothas want, you won’t have an issue when she immediately turns and runs into the arms of a white man who accepts her as is (which actually is the case with most Black female nerds with men of other races)? Or would it be “Just find a breh who finds you attractive. Step your looks up”.

This shyt goes both ways and it is SO funny to see that the first sign of pushback or failure a man should just go with another race. Yall act like 10 BW in a row dissed dude on the show.

ONE GIRL wasn’t feeling him and it’s causing all this? He’s going to have mad girls swinging on his _____ as soon as he hits the military and I promise that will include Black girls too :martin:
He’s going to go to his other side - non black.

Dude is biracial.
 

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But why is the immediate go-to him dating another race?
So one Black girl on the internet turns him down and it’s time for Maria or Becky? 🤔 He can’t just try other Black girls?

So when a Black girl gets told she doesn’t have the “look” some successful brothas want, you won’t have an issue when she immediately turns and runs into the arms of a white man who accepts her as is (which actually is the case with most Black female nerds with men of other races)? Or would it be “Just find a breh who finds you attractive. Step your looks up”.

This shyt goes both ways and it is SO funny to see that the first sign of pushback or failure a man should just go with another race. Yall act like 10 BW in a row dissed dude on the show.

ONE GIRL wasn’t feeling him and it’s causing all this? He’s going to have mad girls swinging on his _____ as soon as he hits the military and I promise that will include Black girls too :martin:



I had a friend like breh. He got hurt once and dated more sistas. He finally said it wasn't worth the climb and effort more so he swore off sistas. They didn't have to pick him but he had a choice to crossover and never to return.His lil brother is trending in the same direction. It's a new day outside I wish everyone the best.
 

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I had a friend like breh. He got hurt once and dated more sistas. He finally said it wasn't worth the climb and effort more so he swore off sistas. They didn't have to pick him but he had a choice to crossover and never to return.His lil brother is trending in the same direction. It's a new day outside I wish everyone the best.
I don’t understand why brehs don’t go cold like highschool Pac to 3rd LP Pac. Obviously not thuggin but reinvent themselves. I been in the gym all last week and weekend. I finally took two days off cause my body demanded it but I’ll be back tomorrow lifting and jogging
 

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Building on this, I think a larger question we need to ask is why such a disproportionate amount of attractive, fukkable black women seem to be low vibrational.

So often you hear "you're a black nerdy guy, go for a black nerdy female." Which sounds perfect on paper except, every black nerdy man can tell you from experience the overwhelming majority of real black nerdy women are chopped.

Something about our culture seems to draw our most attractive women to low-vibrational behavior and activities beginning in their adolescence. You can look at whites, asians, and even to some extent hispanics and find baddies that fit literally every archetype. I mean literally half the time I'm on the coli I'm at my STEM job's office, sitting across from loads of attractive ass white and asian women who know how to code and like men who code too. This shyt seems to be extremely rare bordering on absent in our community and the question is "why." :yeshrug:
black folks have no buffer class in the modern world. thats the difference.

with ethnicities that practice a huge amount of social mobility, there is a huge emphasis for prospsective social climbers to separate from the lower class ,even if you came from the lower class.

Families will make it abundantly clear to their kids that there is an expectation on how they will socialize and who they socialize with. Bringing home any less than the standard is massively insulting to the family name and at best will get you disowned, at worst stoned to death. Right, wrong or otherwise, this way of life ensures that the women arent even in the same proximity as non structured men and will be conditioned to only go for compatible men and/or fukk non standard men in the quietest way possible..

With Black folks, we experienced so much institutional racism and alienation, we as a community look at adopting to a more structured and rigid (i.e. WHITE) community structure as at worst selling out and at best a waste of time. After all, what good is telling your daughter to marry a engineer when that engineer might not get hired, killed by police, forced to move to the White suburbs for money, etc. etc.

So we dont have that buffer. The beautiful, smart and even privileged women of our community are raised and socialized right alongside the low vibrational men.

Like, I always laugh at the movie "ATL". New-New's dad was right :mjlol:. This nikka worked his ass off to get his family out the gutter and his daughter was all too willing to go fukk some broke nikka whose family ran with violent criminals:mjgrin:. And hes looked at as the bad guy:why:

Theres also the element of Street Culture/HipHop being seen as this shared cultural experience among our people. Once again due to systematic racism, Black folks in the modern world werent able to create a culture completely divorced from the context of White Supremacy. Sometimes this results in good things about our culture (our resiliency, our irreverence at cac norms which lead to creativity in music, fashion, and invention of style, our food, etc) but theres also some bad with the good (a huge emphasis on machismo for example).

In the absence of everything, cultural ideas hold true and Black Women culturally gravitate toward men who practice a lot of machismo even though ultra macho men tend to have less to lose....
 
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He’s going to go to his other side - non black.

Dude is biracial.
Men in here are saying that when this happens BM will just go be with another race. He seems to represent a demographic according to some men in here
 
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