Woman explains why she rejected Nuclear Physicist

[Dave24]

He wasn’t that inept. She just wanted someone more nikkerish, and other races don’t gaf about that.

this being the type of forum this is…primarily black. You get a lot of dudes who don’t know what I’m talking about because they are in that club house of black dudes who appeal only to their own…this may hurt feelings tho

No I agree he wasnt inept but I meant hypothetically if a good looking guy was socially inept could he still get women?

 

[AngryBaby]

Everyone is like this. She could've said he seems like he don't like Black women if she wanted to play the PR game.

Attraction isn't a choice but women do cap like non media accomplishments mean anything to young women. That matters to old brehettes but not to young ones.

The äverage at best" lady is going on another dating show assuming that her pet shop business is gonna take away from her face.

It really is a #bothsides issue.

He was physically good looking, if you aren’t clueless you could see this. She even said it. She’s just used to an archetype and he wasn’t it. She’s into nikkas lol he’s not a nikka.

hell get a hotter girl of a different type/race.

 

[AngryBaby]

No I agree he wasnt inept but I meant hypothetically if a good looking guy was socially inept could he still get women?

Not if he can’t make her comfortable. Which is the key in most instances. But if he’s some bytch ass good looking dude, then chicks will find solace in controlling him…perfect scenario actually.

look at selling sunset on Netflix, good looking dude who can’t even talk got picked up by some hot rich successful hot cougar.
but if he was a Casanova who was a talker and Uber confident…she wouldn’t be confident that she could control him.

 

[AngryBaby]

Facts. She liked him immediately. He didn’t have any special game or social/conversation skills

Exactly, black chick wanted an archetype. Why I say dudes like him should not just date black. Lots of black women only date black men, and when they do…they want an archetypal one. Sorry…it’s true

 

[Gloxina]

He wasn’t that inept. She just wanted someone more nikkerish, and other races don’t gaf about that.

this being the type of forum this is…primarily black. You get a lot of dudes who don’t know what I’m talking about because they are in that club house of black dudes who appeal only to their own…this may hurt feelings tho

Universal appeal.

I get it lol

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Fukk sure. Marry nope. Not unless they cheating.

Dudes are confused because they want a simple equation to attraction. They also confused because their entitlements don’t match reality. The double standards they set don’t play out.
They caught up in these rigid mindsets.

I’m a good provider. Im smart. I have money.

All of that is good to have and a smart woman will vet for those qualities…but they don’t create attraction.
The ability to vibe comfortably with somebody. To make somebody wanna spend time in a room with you without wanting to bang their head against the wall because you awkward as hell.

There’s no algorithm for attraction. You just gotta be your best self and vibe with your tribe. There’s plenty of chicks similar to him personality wise that he’d vibe easily with.

So there’s no reason for her to have to justify her lack of attraction to him.

The woman was entertaining the fake trapper I got 4 buisness dude

She clearly not attracted to nuclear physicist no matter what

Which is her right

But she came off as low vibrational and a woman who can't hold a intellgent Convo to save her life


Also those standards aren't applied to white or Hispanic men just black men

This there 100 diff levels of attraction bs

Nuclear physicist will prob interacial date which would be a better lane for him anyway


I just think women need to be more honest about what they attracted too

They want good sex and a dude who speaks they language even if In some cases he clearly lying

 

[Weaver31]

He wasn’t that inept. She just wanted someone more nikkerish, and other races don’t gaf about that.

this being the type of forum this is…primarily black. You get a lot of dudes who don’t know what I’m talking about because they are in that club house of black dudes who appeal only to their own…this may hurt feelings tho

Yeah I wouldn't call dude awkward but he does need to improve his macking and conversation skills. But with her giving that face tattoo dude all the time does let me know she wants a more exciting street type dude.

 

[DA_LURKA]

Yeah I wouldn't call dude awkward b

He came off kinda nervous to me...

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

"He was fine until he opened his mouth." The amount of I times I heard my FWBs say this nikkas be literally talking themselves outta p*ssy.

Too many people out here think looks are the only thing you need. Might as well fukk a Mannequin then, if it's strictly about sex.

If it helps…I know some chicks whose personalities have made dudes not even wanna mess with em too. Doesn’t happen as often b/c dudes are horny and some tie their self-worth to p*ssy. But if you dealing with a real one…a shytty woman absolutely can turn off a good dude. No matter how she looks.

But yeah looks are important but can’t seal the deal unless you dealing with somebody really broken. Otherwise, you gon need some other shyt to keep it moving.

 

[Weaver31]

He came off kinda nervous to me...

Yeah a little but he can talk...it's just not in a charismatic manner that women would think is sexy

 

[Weaver31]

If it helps…I know some chicks whose personalities have made dudes not even wanna mess with em too. Doesn’t happen as often b/c dudes are horny and some tie their self-worth to p*ssy. But if you dealing with a real one…a shytty woman absolutely can turn off a good dude. No matter how she looks.

But yeah looks are important but can’t seal the deal unless you dealing with somebody really broken. Otherwise, you gon need some other shyt to keep it moving.

Well said Books. This some real shyt. Looks are integral but so is connection, aura, personality, attraction, other non physical attributes, etc.

I will say reading ur posts does highlight some of the BS men put women thru. We as men have our perspectives and only think about the BS women put men thru but ima open minded person and u give thoughtful perspectives on shyt.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

If it helps…I know some chicks whose personalities have made dudes not even wanna mess with em too. Doesn’t happen as often b/c dudes are horny and some tie their self-worth to p*ssy. But if you dealing with a real one…a shytty woman absolutely can turn off a good dude. No matter how she looks.

But yeah looks are important but can’t seal the deal unless you dealing with somebody really broken. Otherwise, you gon need some other shyt to keep it moving.

U need both no matter what coli brehs say.


Hood dudes have good personality to go along with the looks

Same with other dudes who have women


Personality underatted

 

[AngryBaby]

Yeah I wouldn't call dude awkward but he does need to improve his macking and conversation skills. But with her giving that face tattoo dude all the time does let me know she wants a more exciting street type dude.

I'd say 85% of black women need a more archetypal black dude. I could just by looking at her, and how she talked, she was like that lol

 

[Bryan Danielson]

Lil boy gonna be a future PAWGER with women out there like this

 

[Hoodoo Child]

If it helps…I know some chicks whose personalities have made dudes not even wanna mess with em too. Doesn’t happen as often b/c dudes are horny and some tie their self-worth to p*ssy. But if you dealing with a real one…a shytty woman absolutely can turn off a good dude. No matter how she looks.

But yeah looks are important but can’t seal the deal unless you dealing with somebody really broken. Otherwise, you gon need some other shyt to keep it moving.

Agreed