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That was fukked up for him to do.

I would marry a virgin, I think someone that has that level of commitment would be a good partner. And you can train her to be better at sex
Do you consider sexual compatibility to be an important factor in the longevity of a relationship?

What's the longest relationship you've been in?


“I’m saving myself for marriage” is only something guys like to hear in high school from the girl they’re holding hands with in public. :whoa:
Dudes I knew in hs wasn't trynna hear that shyt. :mjlol:
 

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Virgins have needs too.

As a female raised Christian all I can tell you is these women may not let you smash (many of them still do on the low) but I would say 90% of the women I used to go to church with were sucking the fukk out of men. On a regular basis. The musicians used to literally bag the entire worship team.

When they say they are waiting for marriage that just means they won’t make love to you until you show some serious commitment so most times it’s not even “until marriage”. They will fukk if you are remotely marriage minded.

Don’t let these girlies fool you. They are in heat, which is why they are constantly dating and sucking dikk under the table.
I said this earlier.

They be sucking and doing anal. :manny:
 
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Do you consider sexual compatibility to be an important factor in the longevity of a relationship?

What's the longest relationship you've been in?



Dudes I knew in hs wasn't trynna hear that shyt. :mjlol:
I do and I don't date. Longest fwb was 3 years
 

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I do and I don't date. Longest fwb was 3 years
Then let me give you some kindly advice, like from an auntie or an older sister. I been with my man 22 years. We would not have lasted this long if not for the physical attraction and sexual compatibility.

Any long term relationship is gonna have trying times, and I mean purely external difficulties, like unemployment, disability, the death of parent, etc, not even the petty shyt ppl do to each other. Sometimes you just need that sense of renewal and connection that comes from your person who fukks you right. It works best if you already cant keep your hands off each other and have similar sex drives. That person should already be in house. To arrange such a fortuitous circumstance, you must sort for such.

I discussed recently that I kissed many frogs, but I'm glad I kept searching until I found him. The last few decades have been lovely and I look forward to several more, but only bc I put the work in on the front end. Its worth it, don't cheat yourself. People end up unfulfilled and/ or cheating when they don't.

This is not to say sex is our primary qualifier. No. Date from the pool you find acceptable (not random hoes) and find your match there.
 

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I went to HS with this girl:ohhh:

Cliffs?

Did you answer it in the thread? Was she saving herself throughout high school or is this story probably a lie? What are yall mid to late 20’s?
 

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Virgins have needs too.

As a female raised Christian all I can tell you is these women may not let you smash (many of them still do on the low) but I would say 90% of the women I used to go to church with were sucking the fukk out of men. On a regular basis. The musicians used to literally bag the entire worship team.

When they say they are waiting for marriage that just means they won’t make love to you until you show some serious commitment so most times it’s not even “until marriage”. They will fukk if you are remotely marriage minded.

Don’t let these girlies fool you. They are in heat, which is why they are constantly dating and sucking dikk under the table.
I thought sucking d*** and having anal was only for that special man, and it was given to him as a treat, especially anal. Wow, did things change. Or perhaps it's always been the way you're describing. Then again, I think the internet made it this way, beginning with previous ways of getting porn into the house, such as cable porn and XXX video tapes, stuff that wasn't available to homes when I first started dating.
 
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She was ghosted because of the annoying hand gestures and constant used of "ahm".
I couldn't take 5 minutes either.
 
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