Woman Gives A Valid Explanation Why She Would Not Date A Broke Guy

[Gloxina]

This doesn't bother me anymore because I understand the game.

I think we all need to be real about these two things:

-For the most part, Men want the most beautiful woman their money & status can buy.
-For the most part, Women want the weathiest man/highest level of status that their looks can attain.

Obviously there's other factors, other characteristics and qualities that a person, man or woman can have which would make them attractive or make them qualified to be a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife and actually maintain that relationship over time but ultimately it comes down to the money &status for men and looks for women when it comes to getting in the door. The other qualities will determine how long it lasts.

Look at your favorite rapper's girlfriend BEFORE and AFTER they made it. It's very telling. Sure there's some rappers who are still with the one that held them down from the start but best believe, a lot of these dudes upgraded hard (see Biggie).

Everyone has their place in the market and I think everyone should try to get their highest value for what they have to offer.

This woman is obviously a very attractive woman. She'd be selling herself short if she didn't have a guy with money.

Also the fact that she's making so much money on her own means she doesn't want to feel like she has to carry a man who's lifestyle isn't as good as her's. That's the difference between men and women. A man can bring a woman to their highest level. If a king marries a chick, she become's the queen. If a queen marries a man, he doesn't become the king, he's just the Queen's dude.

I can only speak for myself but because I know the majority of women think like her, I won't settle on looks for any woman I'm taking seriously. I don't care about a woman's degrees, how nurturing a woman is, how kind she is, how smart she is or what else she can provide, if she doesn't meet my attraction threshold, she's not getting in the door. I'm not even asking for a Beyonce, Rihanna or an Instagram model but I need to desire you to the point where your selfie is going to make my day.

The difference between women and men is that most women are BORN with their value, most men (even the men women would find attractive like say 2pac) had to WORK for their value within the marketplace and if I had to WORK for my shyt, I'm not selling it cheaply. I had to get an Ivy League degree, teach myself how to code, get hired to be on TV for my value so I'm going to have a fine woman.



I've SEEN women who I was interested in on my come up basically flee me only for them to view me completely differently after I made started doing better for myself. I had one woman tell me, she wished she had let me bag her instead of her baby father.

 

[Justin Nitsuj]

Good thing I don’t honor anything non black woman says because I don’t date them and I just simply don’t care

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

sounds like she was talking about the rich guys with the good traits, those also exist
the host even said she already has a boyfriend who is a millionaire and he considers one of his greatest friend and a brother
you psychos are trying to give her worst case scenario hypotheticals for some reason idk

You can't just say rich guy with good traits, it don't work like that.

This doesn't bother me anymore because I understand the game.

I think we all need to be real about these two things:

-For the most part, Men want the most beautiful woman their money & status can buy.
-For the most part, Women want the weathiest man/highest level of status that their looks can attain.

Obviously there's other factors, other characteristics and qualities that a person, man or woman can have which would make them attractive or make them qualified to be a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife and actually maintain that relationship over time but ultimately it comes down to the money &status for men and looks for women when it comes to getting in the door. The other qualities will determine how long it lasts.

Look at your favorite rapper's girlfriend BEFORE and AFTER they made it. It's very telling. Sure there's some rappers who are still with the one that held them down from the start but best believe, a lot of these dudes upgraded hard (see Biggie).

Everyone has their place in the market and I think everyone should try to get their highest value for what they have to offer.

This woman is obviously a very attractive woman. She'd be selling herself short if she didn't have a guy with money.

Also the fact that she's making so much money on her own means she doesn't want to feel like she has to carry a man who's lifestyle isn't as good as her's. That's the difference between men and women. A man can bring a woman to their highest level. If a king marries a chick, she become's the queen. If a queen marries a man, he doesn't become the king, he's just the Queen's dude.

I can only speak for myself but because I know the majority of women think like her, I won't settle on looks for any woman I'm taking seriously. I don't care about a woman's degrees, how nurturing a woman is, how kind she is, how smart she is or what else she can provide, if she doesn't meet my attraction threshold, she's not getting in the door. I'm not even asking for a Beyonce, Rihanna or an Instagram model but I need to desire you to the point where your selfie is going to make my day.

The difference between women and men is that most women are BORN with their value, most men (even the men women would find attractive like say 2pac) had to WORK for their value within the marketplace and if I had to WORK for my shyt, I'm not selling it cheaply. I had to get an Ivy League degree, teach myself how to code, get hired to be on TV for my value so I'm going to have a fine woman.



I've SEEN women who I was interested in on my come up basically flee me only for them to view me completely differently after I made started doing better for myself. I had one woman tell me, she wished she had let me bag her instead of her baby father.

Your first point is you fail to mention men are also realistic. As long as a woman cooks, cleans, and gives sex, man is happy. Looking around, men are willing to accept stretch marks, some stomach, etc. Hell it's been say most women ain't even cooking anymore and dudes still accept that. There's the scarcity mindset, but that's a poor assumption. Theres just as many dudes that are realistic

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

I didn’t watch the clip but she probably wants him to be faithful too

 

[AAKing23]

If they {the rich man) like it, then I love it for them

Couldn't be me tho, don't get upset when she leaves You knew what you signed up for

 

[AAKing23]

My question is what's considered broke to her?

She says it's not about the money, but would she be happy with a man making $80k/year? That's not certainly not broke.

80k is definitely broke to her

 

[AAKing23]

Definitely

She must be new to being around nikkas with money. Money doesn’t give you some sort of new moral compass or everlasting peace.

“Mo’ Money, Mo’ Problems” was written for a reason.

And in my opinion, you don’t even really know someone until you been through some shyt with them. When you’ve had arguments or something to overcome together.

This chick wants is straight out the oven, and on a plate ready to be served to her. She’ll learn someday.

Most money obsessed people are not good people… but then again she and many other women are obsessed with it so maybe perfect match.

Bro chose to speak the scriptures today Say it again for the lord one time

 

[AceAge]

Back when I lived in the city, I would see these types of couples out and after a few years the woman would always disappear, and the man would have a new woman. People that have a lot of money are not necessarily automatically good people, and if they’re not good they actually sort of just get worse; because they have more money and think they are absolved of wrongdoing, or that being a bad person doesn’t matter because they have a title or money.

 

[ItWasMeThough]

Definitely

She must be new to being around nikkas with money. Money doesn’t give you some sort of new moral compass or everlasting peace.

“Mo’ Money, Mo’ Problems” was written for a reason.

And in my opinion, you don’t even really know someone until you been through some shyt with them. When you’ve had arguments or something to overcome together.

This chick wants is straight out the oven, and on a plate ready to be served to her. She’ll learn someday.

Most money obsessed people are not good people… but then again she and many other women are obsessed with it so maybe perfect match.

Yep, look at all the rich turds who voted for the Orange guy, willing to sacrifice the well being of millions, perhaps billions of people to further fatten their already fat pockets.

 

[ItWasMeThough]

Please tell that one bytch, she ain’t getting no rich man stalking the coli all day unless she trying to pull one of them 6 certs, 6 figures, 6 series, 6 pack brothers on here. I’m sure that will be a match made in heaven- two terminally online liars.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Did they not make solid points? Yeah being broke can mean deep issues, but being rich doesn't cure that. The world is full of scam artists, con artists, thieves, and blood money.

Are the broke and average men in your family not good enough since they're not rich?

Of course we had good points

Thats why they are downplaying it. She brought this information to the world and we are discussing it


We are not stupid, we understand what she is is saying. She is trying to say people who make money are in a better mental health status and thats not true.

But they may be in a better trickin off status and thats why she is really there.

All she’s saying is if buddy runs up against hard times, she will NOT be there which is fine… she is honest. If buddy staying then he better know the game.


Thing is, most of us knew this though. Most men know how hoes are. Hoes are gold diggers too, and once that money dries up they are on to the next.

 

[Lonj]

So you're saying that these coli brehs talking about all the PAAG's they have smashed are lying

Dating and fukking are two different things.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

High key, she's a gold digger.

In her mind, her husband can have all the same qualities but, if he's broke/average, then something's wrong. He's missing a quality somewhere.

But if he's rich...again the same exact guy...then he has the right qualities

All she needed to say is that she's attracted to powerful men and that money is a part of the equation. Everything else is duck tales.

Basically


Like skip the word salad and Mental gymnastics and get to the point.



We already know what she on. This isn’t new or some sort of groundbreaking revelation.

bytch is an overpriced whore and gold-digger…. Cool. Good luck with that

 

[AceAge]

I'm sure they both know wassup. It's just fun for the time being I imagine. She won't try to trap him because she still want to climb to potentially luck up with someone more successful.

When your name gets around in circles, it shrinks the pool of people who will cuff you. It’s hard to move up and lock in/cash out. That six degrees of separation is real. All it takes is one person in your circle to know somebody who knows somebody that knew her and she’s off the table for anything serious. They run out of viable options cause word is out on the street about them. Can’t run all over town and think nobody will put word to ear. What I’ve seen is they try to revert to a lower status person to try to cuff them. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. Usually the man is down on his luck. She may be hoping to be like one of those women who has kids by multiple athletes/rappers, but the thing is businessmen and non-entertainers with money or success, like doctors or lawyers, don’t really do that. Then again I from the Midwest and the South, maybe the west coast is different.

*edit
You more or less said the same in your other post. I didn’t see that.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Lol at the "she is broke and brings nothing to the table" cope....

1. google.
2. Stay in your lane.

She more than likely doesn’t bring anything to the table except aesthetics…. and she may not even be dating the rich guy technically. Probably just fukking