Woman says her husband is perfect and does everything right but she’s still not happy. Women in the comment section understand where she’s coming from

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Clinical Narcissism (not the pseudo term everyone weaponizes) is fairly obvious and isnt often fun to be around for extended periods of time.

What did you like about this woman enough to propose to and go through with marrying her? What did you enjoy about her?
Great question.

Initially, we aligned on our Christian values, and wanted the same things at that point in our life, namely marriage and children.

I thought she had a great personality, very caring, low maintenance. She is also a great mother.
The main issue was that it wasn't consistent, and when it wasn't consistent, it was very, very bad. It would also get progressively worse.
This was a pattern that appeared year after year, but I would give grace and forgive. I didn't realize until after 10 years of marriage that I enabled this behavior by not setting boundaries early on.
 

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The last comment sums it up. Someone can have great qualities, but you’re just not feeling it. This happens to both men, and women.

That’s cool and all, but if that’s the case the relationship should halt at the boyfriend/girlfriend stage, not end up in marriage
:mjlol:

That's what pissed me off SOHH much with my divorce.

Whatever you not feeling, you were not feeling it in the first year or the first month even.

Knowing that, you gonna stand up and promise to be with me for life.

If you wasn't feeling it, don't get married.

The streets are calling
and its whuppin her ass being tied down :mjlol:
Let these women be free

The real answer is: they LIKE the dudes who do the "wrong" things.

They seek adventure. Some even gravitate toward abuse. If she is staying put for good, the dude prolly pays for everything.. and she STILL has a sneaky link with some broke azz street dude who she has to pay for if they go out and do something.
 

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Something told me not click this nonsense.

The internet really is trash now. Any old brehs and brehettes who started from free aol discs remember it was just a hobby and tool of entertainent but now that its fully monetized we get bullshyt like this and our attention/ engagement is the currency.

U cant ignore it completely because u want to know the disease thats fukking people up so u know how to avoid it. Thats why i wait til threads like this hit at least 8 pages to read the latest comments before i jump in. Misery loves company and no happy broad or man would be online saying this for likes. Once u get established u limit your social media time as much as possible

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I hope dude files the second he see this bullshyt.
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