Woman says it didn't last with nice guy because he wouldn't put her in her place

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I get what she is saying on the surface level..

At the same token, if homeboy was planning his exit, he simply did what he needed to for the relationship to end without damage being done..

If you let your penis get you into situations you have no business being in, you gotta decide which L your going to take and make corrections afterwards...

For some women, putting them in their place means giving them the Ike turner superslap
 

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I never got the "put me in my place/you can't handle me" type of women.

If you feel like I need to put you in your place, why are you out of it in the first place?

This type of talk tells me that you need someone to monitor you like a kid or some shyt (daddy issues). I have no problem correcting a woman every now and then, but if you "need" me to put you in your place and that turns into something you're intentionally trying to get out of me, I'm cutting you off.
 

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I never got the "put me in my place/you can't handle me" type of women.

If you feel like I need to put you in your place, why are you out of it in the first place?

This type of talk tells me that you need someone to monitor you like a kid or some shyt (daddy issues). I have no problem correcting a woman every now and then, but if you "need" me to put you in your place and that turns into something you're intentionally trying to get out of me, I'm cutting you off.
What they are really saying is she desires drama because she finds it exciting.
 

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What they are really saying is she desires drama because she finds it exciting.
Yup.


That type of broad will always be pushing and pulling because they got some issues they need to work on
..they'll never be happy and always gotta find something to not be happy about.

I stay away from them type of broads...I learned the hard way..the box was fire though :mjgrin:
 

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Yup.


That type of broad will always be pushing and pulling because they got some issues they need to work on
..they'll never be happy and always gotta find something to not be happy about.

I stay away from them type of broads...I learned the hard way..the box was fire though :mjgrin:
Yeah I think it's ok to mess with a woman like that just don't take it too seriously lol and definitely don't impregnate her.
 

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What they are really saying is she desires drama because she finds it exciting.

Yup.


That type of broad will always be pushing and pulling because they got some issues they need to work on
..they'll never be happy and always gotta find something to not be happy about.

I stay away from them type of broads...I learned the hard way..the box was fire though :mjgrin:
I agree with both posts. I don't know what women who say stuff like that expect out of a man, especially a successful man.

A successful man/a man that is about making money and is focused on coming up through the ranks is not going to want to deal with that "put me in my place/you can't handle me" mentality all the time. If I'm busy chasing a bag and focusing on whatever I got going on, what makes you think that I have the time to "put you in your place" all the time?

FOH

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I agree with both posts. I don't know what women who say stuff like that expect out of a man, especially a successful man.

A successful man/a man that is about making money and is focused on coming up through the ranks is not going to want to deal with that "put me in my place/you can't handle me" mentality all the time. If I'm busy chasing a bag and focusing on whatever I got going on, what makes you think that I have the time to "put you in your place" all the time?

FOH

:camby:
I've dealt with a woman like this she always gets bored with dudes that treat her right including myself. I still consider her a friend but she has major issues. The girl I know at least knows she has major issues and has received therapy trying to deal with it but she keeps repeating the cycle.
 

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Females are pretty much ubiquitous. That being the case, there is no reason to take bullshyt off of any female you are attracted to.

Before I found the right one for me, I had to go through loads of females, crossing them out because of their poor attitudes and unwillingness to actually take responsibility for their actions. After awhile, I was able to spot the problems in the first interaction with most females, and so I could drastically decrease my time wasted messing with a female that was unsuitable.

The problem I think a lot of times is that brothers are allowing Lust to override common sense. So the red-flags are ignored and eventually they find themselves asking why are they with this woman (after the Lust has long subsided). After I noticed the physical attributes that I found attractive on a woman, I would then focused intently on her mindset and the things she said and did. Doing that kept me out of a lot of BS situations.

There are good women out there that do not require their man to be a surrogate father figure. It just takes a bit of effort to sift through the chaff to find the wheat. The key again is to not allow your Lust for her to turn off your brain, and pay attention to whom she really is. Well that is if you are seeking an actual relationship that lasts. If all you want is casual sex, suit up your soldier and have at it.
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